Skip the knick-knacks and fill a stocking with sexual favors. Channel your inner “Shades of Grey” and write steamy love notes about what you’d like to give him or her in bed. Depending on what you celebrate, think eight notes for Hanukkah or 12 notes for Christmas.

* Turn holiday stress into holiday sexy with his and her massages

Book a “his and her” massage early one evening to get off the holiday treadmill and in the mood for love. Massages not only de-stress but also give a sensory rush that can set the stage for romance.

* Garland laced for love

Hang a garland in your lover’s bedroom laced with erotic hints. Instead of ornaments, try red and green condoms and mini-tubes of massage oil. Go one step further and use silk blind folds to attach the garland to the mantle.

* H “O” liday!

Take your love-making to the next level this holiday season with the first-ever couple’s vibrator. Designed to be worn during sex, two motors power the We-Vibe 3 providing pleasure for both man and woman simultaneously. It’s a gift that keeps on giving and a win-win for the gift giver and receiver.