As Nikko busily worked in his play kitchen putting pieces of toast into the toy toaster, his future siblings Austin and Molly observed, often teasing him and playfully rolling him around on the floor. Nikko's future father, Kevin Crosby, helped him "cook," while his mother-to-be Leslie looked on.
Nikko, a foster care child, is in the process of being adopted by Kevin and Leslie Crosby.
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