Bullying was the theme of the Art Raab Memorial Essay Competition sponsored by the Breakthrough Project. Here are the winning fifth- and sixth-grade entries:
Albert Lehman Jr., fifth grade, Vinewood Elementary School
Have you ever been bullied and wondered what to do? Well, you are not alone. There are thousands of kids who get bullied every year. Some of these incidents end in tragedy. So ask yourself, do you want to be a friend to bullies, or do you want to stop bullying at your school? Would you rather be a bully, or would you rather be a good person?
I have had personal experience with being bullied. One time at school, I was telling a kid to stop cheating at football, and he reared back and punched me in the jaw. It knocked me down. So my best friend went and got an adult. The kid who punched me got in trouble, but not in too much trouble. When I came home from school and looked in the mirror, my jaw was black and blue. Luckily, my friend was there when it happened. By helping, he showed that he is a true friend.
If you happen to see someone getting bullied, you need to pitch in and stop the bully and get an adult. There are some kids who get bullied and their friends and classmates just watch, go away or chant. These are not good choices. This is important, so remember: It is not the bullies that hurt us the most; it is our friends and classmates who do when they don't defend us.
Bullies hurt us physically and emotionally. Some of us get punched by bullies, and some of us get our feelings hurt by bullies. Some kids get hurt so much that they come back to school with weapons and threaten the bullies.
Some kids even miss school because they are so afraid of bullies. Neither of these are good choices. If you are being bullied, make a better choice and tell an adult so they can help.
My suggestion to help stop bullying is to get a group of kids at your school who get bullied, and get the group of kids who are bullies, and bring them together. Pair the bullies up with those who get bullied, and let them have a discussion.
The kids who get bullied can ask questions about why the bullies bully them. This way, the bullies can see how their words and actions affect others. In my opinion, this will help stop bullying at your school. Just remember, when you do the right thing by not accepting bullying, you make a difference.
Matthew Hashimoto, sixth grade, Vinewood Elementary School
Imagine going to school in fear every day. This is what victims of bullying experience. Bullying is a serious problem in many schools throughout the U.S. A bully is someone who relentlessly intimidates another by using verbal or physical assaults.
Bullying can affect the person who is being bullied, whether it is an adult or child. It is important for people to learn more about bullying so they know what it is and how to prevent it.
Physical bullying can be repeatedly tripping, punching, hitting or pushing. Verbal bullying is just as harmful. It includes saying unkind things and constantly insulting someone. Posting insults or sending bitter email messages are examples of cyberbullying. Bullying can happen at home, school or at work.
When he was about 7, my grandpa had a bullying experience. In the [Japanese] interment camp, he was taught mathematics, but very little writing or language arts. After being released from the camp, he was placed in second grade because he was good at math. He had difficulty with writing and spelling, so the kids in his class constantly made fun of him. They teased him by calling him names, and he was assumed to be dumb.
The teacher did not support him, and the kids didn't get in trouble for bullying. Because of this, my grandpa had to stick up for himself and got in many fights. The result was being whacked on the hands by his principal.
He thought that nobody understood him and felt so frustrated. Many of his Japanese friends were having problems, too, so it helped to have their support. On the other hand, his parents said to be strong and put up with it. They didn't want him to complain and tell a teacher. In the Japanese culture, they were taught to respect authority and not to complain.
After about a few years, his classmates eventually stopped bullying him because they realized he was not going to put up with it. He was also growing taller than many of them, which probably helped convince them to stop. He was very athletic and good at basketball, so the boys started to want to have him on their team, and as a friend instead of an enemy.
People bully for many reasons. One reason why is because the bully wants attention and higher social status. If they bully others, they think they will receive respect from their peers. Sometimes, bullies act this way because they want to make themselves feel better. Victims could become bullies, too. Bullies sometimes harass victims because they are bored and do it just for fun.
Prevention can help bullying at school. You can help prevent bullying by stepping up to help the person who is being bullied. Bullies usually like to pick on kids who don't fight back. To stop a bully, say "Stop!" or "Stop! You're bullying" because most bullies stop within 10 seconds.
Schools are helping kids understand and respect other people's differences. Many schools hold assemblies or have programs to create awareness.
Bullying is a big problem whether at home school or at work. I think the world would bee a better place without bullying. Everyone is different in a good way, and it's unkind to make fun of hat. Everyone deserves to feel safe and to be treated equally.