Kimberly Mullen says her life has been fun and full of opportunities. She played sports. She traveled. She received an education. The household she grew up in was full of love and support.
Her adoption by Dr. Ken Mullen, who delivered her at Lodi Memorial Hospital, was the reason she had these opportunities.
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