Posted: Tuesday, December 11, 2012 12:00 am
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Updated: 7:33 am, Tue Dec 11, 2012.
Was questioning boyfriend’s attitude wrong?
Dear T2T: Last night I was texting my boyfriend and I asked him if he really wanted to be with me and his response was, “Yes, why would you even ask me that?” I told him that “I just wanted to make sure...” then he said that if I’m questioning the relationship, then it isn’t real. I responded by saying, “Okay, I am questioning the relationship, but I’m not ... I’m really questioning you ... You never seem like you care...”
He asked me how, and I proceeded to tell him how and he responded with “wow :( what a shame.” and then I told him “basically that to me everything is a joke to you, and don’t get me wrong I love to joke around and what not but it seems like all the time with you.” And then he said, “So are you saying that I always have to be serious and loving all the time? ... okay fine, you happy?” I told him that he didn’t have to be serious all the time, just more than he has been. Then he said, “Okay I’m sorry :( really.” Around this time it was late and we both sort of fell asleep, but before I fell asleep I told him that it was okay and that I don’t want him to change who he is because I love who he is and that I wouldn’t be with him if I didn’t like who he was, but that I needed him to be a little more serious at times. He hasn’t replied back, but I’m now worried about that. I just need to know if I made a mistake by doing that because I don’t want him to change just because of me. — Joke’s On Me
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