Need help with commitment issues

Dear T2T: I’m a 14-year-old girl and I really want to be in a serious relationship but I have like commitment issues. I can’t seem to stick myself to one guy I like. I’ll say oh yeah he likes me and I do have feelings for him, but I’m afraid to date. I look at it like; why would I set myself up to get hurt?

All relationships end badly especially when your my age. I’ll talk to a guy for a really long time and then he’ll want to date but I’d be scared to. I’m also scared that I’m gonna end up hurting the guy. Recently I was in a serious talking relationship and I got messed over real bad.

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