Posted: Friday, March 8, 2013 12:00 am
Need help to be more social
Dear T2T: Hi. I’m going to be a high school sophomore next year, and I’ve never had a girlfriend, or even been friends to many girls. I’m fine around my guys, but I just get shy and unexciting around girls. I’m an overachiever in school, and don’t really ever get up the courage to really do anything with most girls. I almost had a girlfriend once... but we were so similar, we never went farther than talking and only went out at a dance... I barely even admire from afar now... I need help on things to do to be more social so they will like me... I dunno. I only make about 1 friend a year and need help with getting anywhere AT ALL! with a girl... thanks! — Choker
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