My friend’s sense of boundaries are not the same as mine. For example, she asked my boyfriend how he was doing after his father’s death in a group situation. He did not know her well and felt uncomfortable being forced to disclose his feelings in a group setting. When she was a guest in my home recently she informed me (right away after setting foot in my house) I am too thin. I understand this is coming from a caring place but it nevertheless put me on the defensive. I realize she is unlikely to change so I need advice about how to deal with her. My sense is she does not realize she is inappropriate and does not understand boundaries. — Irritated Friend
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