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Will Harvey Milk be recognized locally?

Governor signs bill for informal holiday which encourages public schools to teach about the San Francisco gay rights activist

By Jennifer Bonnett
News-Sentinel Staff Writer
Friday, October 16, 2009 6:03 AM PDT

It's too soon to tell whether local students will begin learning about gay rights activist Harvey Milk this spring under legislation recently signed by the governor.

While it does not create a formal state holiday, the bill calls for the day to be observed by public schools. Teachers will also be encouraged to give lessons on Milk's life.


Harvey Milk is seen pictured in his camera store on Castro Street on June 28, 1977 in San Francisco. (Associated Press file photograph)


Lodi Unified School District Superintendent Cathy Nichols-Washer, however, has yet to discuss the bill and its possible implications with her cabinet. The soonest that may happen is Monday.

If a districtwide policy was required, the board of education would have to approve it.

"But I don't imagine this will," she said of the Milk Day observation.

Galt High School teacher Alex Bauer said no mention of changing current curriculum has been made at the district level there, but he favors a formal recognition.

"I like the idea since the state standards don't have much coverage of the gay rights movement. Milk was a trailblazer for gays in politics, and he should be recognized for his courage and determination in the face of difficult cultural realities."

Galt elementary parent Barbara Herrera said it's "silly" that there's a holiday dedicated to Milk, especially in these economic times. She feels instead he should be honored only in San Francisco where he lived.

"I would love to be able to shield my children, at least the two younger ones, from having things like this crammed down their throats, especially at school. I'm a proponent for tolerance, but I feel it's my responsibility, and my right, as a parent, to decide when and how to broach the subject of homosexuality with them," Herrera said.

State law allows the governor to designate and set apart specific days for having special significance. On each of the designated days, all public schools and educational institutions are encouraged to observe them by conducting suitable commemorative exercises.

For example, the second Wednesday in May is the "Day of the Teacher" to commemorate the teaching profession, while April 6 of each year is "California Poppy Day."

On that day, under state law, instruction should be given on native plants, particularly the California Poppy, and the economic and aesthetic value of wildflowers; and promoting responsible behavior toward the state's natural resources and a spirit of protection toward them.

Likewise, with Harvey Milk Day, it is the intent of the Legislature that exercises be integrated into the regular school and conducted by the school or institution within the amount otherwise budgeted for educational programs, according to the legislation approved this week.

But Nichols-Washer said Lodi Unified does not create curriculum for any of the other days, so she doesn't see how this would be any different. The bill does not provide any specific recommendations about honoring Milk.

Further, it is unclear whether teachers who decide to observe Milk on the set-aside day would be protected if their respective district decided not to adopt an official observation or curriculum to go with it.

State Sen. Mark Leno, D-San Francisco, could not be reached for comment.

The governor vetoed an identical measure earlier this year, claiming the former San Francisco supervisor should be recognized on a local level. However, a Schwarzenegger spokesman said increased recognition of Milk's accomplishments, including a posthumous Medal of Freedom from President Obama, prompted the governor to sign the bill.

The gay-rights group Equality California commended the act and called Milk a role model to millions.

Some, however, have voiced concerns about the type of activities that could constitute commemorative activities aimed at teaching about Milk's life.

Randy Thomasson, president of the conservative coalition Save California, released a statement characterizing Milk as a "public liar" and sexual predator who was in "no way a good role model for impressionable schoolchildren."

Thomasson slammed the move to commemorate Harvey Milk Day at California schools as "more in-your-face, homosexual-bisexual-transsexual indoctrination" for public schoolchildren.

And, plainly put, Herrera said she has a problem with it.

"Maybe it's silly to think I can censor what they see and hear. Just look at the TV shows these days ... but I think (Milk's) contributions are a much more suitable subject for high schoolers, not children in elementary school."

The Associated Press contributed to this report.

Contact reporter Jennifer Bonnett at jenniferb@lodinews.com.

Harvey Milk Day legislation at a glance

Harvey Milk was a leader in the gay rights movement who was elected to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors in 1977. The bill said he was the nation's first openly gay man elected to public office in a major U.S. city.

A year later, Milk played a prominent role in defeat of the so-called Briggs Initiative, a ballot proposition that would have prevented gays and lesbians from teaching in the state's public schools.

In November 1978, a few weeks after the election, he and Mayor George Moscone were assassinated at City Hall by former supervisor Dan White, who had resigned his seat but wanted it back. White was angry at Moscone for refusing his request and at Milk because he had been among those lobbying the mayor against reappointing White.

"Harvey Milk Day" will not be a formal state holiday, so government employees will not be given the day off. The bill instead calls for the day to be observed by public schools as a day of special significance.

Teachers will be encouraged to conduct exercises recalling Milk's life and contributions to the state.

State Sen. Mark Leno, D-San Francisco, who wrote the bill, said Milk was a human rights leader in the same way Cesar Chavez championed Hispanic farmworkers and the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. sought equal treatment for blacks.

— The Associated Press

Reader Feedback

sven31 wrote on Oct 28, 2009 11:50 AM:

" edumacation:
I don't trust any university that gives units for driving a tractor.
UC Davis = theory

Fresno State = reality

Stanislaus = ?

There used to be a lot of cows around the campus and what looked like a missle silo (which was an observatory) "

Gator wrote on Oct 26, 2009 4:35 PM:

" Smokin Rockets Batman I do believe I just might projectile Vomit, Feel free
Robin. I just might join you :-))))))) "

edumacation wrote on Oct 26, 2009 2:38 PM:

" Sven31- For research! I have a "small" ranch and UC Davis has been extremely helpful. Many of their new discoveries are actually being tried in the Central Valley first!

What is happening at Csustan? I thought they were known for their environmental advocacy rather than anything else? I bet you are systematics person, probably a "splitter", not a "lumper"? I took a peak at their program, and it looks little thin with a lack of analytical methods or instrumentation courses. Is plant genetics/physiology in a separate department?

As you know, you have convinced me to change my mind and fully support a "Gay Day, rather than a "Milk Day". Do you have any recommendations for an LGBT leader? We may have some excellent leaders at the School District who could be interested? "

sven31 wrote on Oct 26, 2009 1:20 PM:

" UC Davis: Over rated. "

Gator wrote on Oct 26, 2009 11:52 AM:

" Geeezzz That your best??? Ron White
strikes again... "

edumacation wrote on Oct 26, 2009 10:32 AM:

" Gator--Feel better? Coupon Kori said they are having a sale at Shopko this morning. Check it out. "

Gator wrote on Oct 26, 2009 9:29 AM:

" Edumacation I have run across people like you in my travels, they know it all, have done it all and have seen it all. In the end they come across as very
boring people and a empty shell of what they believe themselves to be. Bingo!!! "

edumacation wrote on Oct 26, 2009 8:10 AM:

" Gator- Go get a cup of java. We are trying to decide which Lodian we recognize on Harvey Milk day. We are trying to be polite and politically correct. Perhaps you have a contribution or suggestion. Right now I am searching for a suitable candidate that meets the technical LGBT criteria, AND fits our suggested ethnic heritage envelope. I am thinking we should review aspirants who are female, and a person of color, just to be fair,

There are many excellent choices..I am thinking probably more Chicana than Latina. What is your opinion?

We also must decide if the candidate wants to be included in the coming out ceremonies. Such questions as "Does she really know if she is L, B, or U? must be asked. It would not be inclusive to recommend a "U" (Undecided), since she might be an LL.


We are just trying to be politically correct and inclusive of ALL cultures. "

Gator wrote on Oct 26, 2009 7:21 AM:

" Anytime lodian :-))) "

Lodian wrote on Oct 25, 2009 11:09 PM:

" Gator wrote "I must say it’s good to be back in Idaho."

I don't know, Gator, I just might have to take a break from Lodi and go to Idaho for a little vacation. ;-) "

edumacation wrote on Oct 25, 2009 7:26 PM:

" Sven31-- Are you in systematics or in habitat/ecosystems? I can't see you in plant physiology. Maybe Pomology? LOL

You should have gone to UC Davis, they have a good department there. Lots of research grants.

Back to Milk day. We liberals should be inclusive. Why is it that only men are selected for these special observances? Do I detect a bit of sexism? Why is it GLBT, why not LGBT?

I will compromise in the spirit of cooperation. Lets have a "Gay day", those who want to pay respects to Mr. Milk, thats your choice. How about that?

To make it more relevant we need to add some local interest!

During celebration of this momentous event, we could have a "coming out party"!

Those local leaders who have had improved career advancement or life because of Mr. Milk or any other L-GBT leader should also be recognized for their outstanding achievements as well!

I know many local leaders of a variety of professionals who would be interested including Realtors, School administrators, loan officers, and politicians. "

Gator wrote on Oct 25, 2009 6:47 PM:

" Major typo, for “what they are” even the
great ones make mistakes!!! "

Gator wrote on Oct 25, 2009 6:43 PM:

" I must say it’s good to be back in Idaho. Now if I could buy some of these folks here for there worth and sell them for what they think they are
are worth I would be rich 10 times over.. I’m excluding Voter and lodian, I
may argue hammer and tong with them but they have my respect… "

sven31 wrote on Oct 25, 2009 5:24 PM:

" edumacation:
Again.... CA does not award credentials to people who have a degree in education.
They have to show some mastery of something to get a single subject credential, either by major/minor, or testing or a combination of upper and lower div. units to get a suplemental. I'm not that familiar with multiple subject credentials but I do know they have to take (tests) to obtain one.

An education degree would do me no good. My major was botany. I minored in chemistry and socialogy. I went to Stanislaus State (graduated) but did early work at Delta and some upper division stuff at UOP.

I think I was a real student or at least some of the time when I wasn't working full time on something else.

I'll have to get some time to go over your reading list. Is any of this on a test? "

Gator wrote on Oct 25, 2009 4:18 PM:

" I wrote my post of Oct 24, 2009 3:59 PM: for Voters benefit. It seems as though she got tired of all the blather going on here. I don’t blame her
It’s turned into a whizzing contest of the pointless and mindless…… "

Lodian wrote on Oct 25, 2009 1:41 PM:

" edumacation wrote "Lodian--These people are KILLING themselves and don't take responsibility for their behavior"

edumacation: There are a lot of people that do things that are not good for their health. This should not exclude them from being considered for an honor for the good they have done in this country. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 25, 2009 1:30 PM:

" edumacation: Give us your bottom line here and be done with it, PLEASE! "

Lodian wrote on Oct 25, 2009 1:29 PM:

" edumacation: You're all over the place... do you have a particular point on this blog? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 25, 2009 10:13 AM:

" Sven31--I thought you knew?

Here is an assignment that you can complete in less than 30 minutes.

Visit the following websites AND actually read them.

www.cpusa.org Communist Party of the USA

www.Peoplesworld.org Peoples Weekly World---Communist party newspaper--USA

www.politicalaffairs.net "Political Affairs online Magazine--Marxist thought online.

www.yclusa.org "Young Communist League"

I beleive that You will find yourself very comfortable with the material on these pages.

This is NOT a bad thing! I am not trying to embarrass you! Do you see how the Democratic party is so close to the Communist party.


After you read these , please tell me the differences? If you can?


As a liberal you should know all this stuff. The heartfelt attitude of American Communists is very supportive of Obama. Ask yourself Why? Will ObBama EVER repudiate this information? NO! IT states what he has been stating---only they don't call themselves "Democrats" They call themselves Communists. At least the communists have been CONSISTENTLY saying the same things all along. Its the Democrats who shifted to the left. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 25, 2009 9:41 AM:

" Sven31- Did you go to a "teachers college"? I thought so. When you attend college--you are supposed to become a student and READ AND STUDY. Being a REAL student is a difficult JOB. All of this discussed here is elementary high school level stuff.


I think I will go back to my cauldrons and start stirring. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 25, 2009 9:36 AM:

" Sven31- You may be "pretty bright" but you need to do some study. Here is a short list:


The Prince
Das Kapital
Mein Kampf
The works of Hegel, Kierkegard, Bakunin, Adam Smith, Proudhon, David Ricardo, Karl Marx (brilliant) and many more.

Read Branden, Rand.

BTW the IWW was started in Chicago...sound familiar? "

sven31 wrote on Oct 25, 2009 9:28 AM:

" Continued:
But he was never the same and gradually got worse and worse.

Back to the point, some of the things he did have affected us to day such as the federal gov. not reimbursing states for hospitals for the mentally ill who were force out on to the streets. The deregulation he sought may have gave us savings on phones and airlines and what not, but I don't think you can claim the service is better.
His support for big business put millions out of work while the boys at the top made hand over fist and exploited average americans like you and I. By Bush (GHW) the rich were indeed richer and I was poorer and along with enough people in'92 voted Clinton into office.

The republican party at this time was also becoming more and more exclusive.
Don't believe me, watch CSPAN for tapes of the republican conventions. Every year they got whiter and whiter. I realized this was not a party I could support any longer and changed parties.
Not to democrat or even worse, independent. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 25, 2009 9:27 AM:

" Sven31- Say what? SWP= Socialist Workers Party, PLP, Progressive Labor Party, IWW, International Workers of the World---Wobblies--they are still around. CPUSA---several factions of the Communist Party of the United States!

Look up the "Port Huron statement". Who was there? Bill Ayers and others.


Reagan--I knew members of his "kitchen cabinet" the people who selected him for governor. He was selected. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 25, 2009 9:22 AM:

" Sven31- The same can be said of party conservatives. Stand back a look at this.


Does it make sense---for the standard bearer of progressive liberalism to hand BILLIONS of dollars to banksters and receive NO promises or agreements?

Even Bushie and Cheney couldn't pull off this scam. Stop hunting for ghost bigots---look at the elephant in the room. It has always been there.

Who is controlling the hegemony of the banksters. You are deceived into thinking that "social hegemoney ie political correctness" is more important.

Our nation is looking into the abyss---economically---and you search for bigots? Think about the REAL enemy?

Why would banksters donate over 38 million to Obama--a liberal--unless they can extract something back?

Here is an assignment- How did Alan Greenspan go from a positivist to an objectivist? What is he now? This might give you some clues to the current economic crisis?

Its time to quit chasing ghosts and start studying about the roots of your philosophy. "

sven31 wrote on Oct 25, 2009 9:21 AM:

" edumacation:
I'm pretty bright, but all the organizations with only letters. I can guess of few and I'm guessing the the "IWW" is not some sort of welders trade union? And I hope SWP doesn't mean "Supreme White Party (Power)"?

Hmm. I used to be a republican. I voted for Nixon, Regan ('76 primary), Ford, Regan, Reagan, Bush. I watched a program on "Presidential Movers" on History channel yesterday. A snap of Regan on the new Air Force One (747) and thought:"there is our greatest president ever" and felt a lot a pride about what he did. I've seen his speeches on CSPAN occasionally and I think, I would follow him today if he were president.

Unfortunately (and this is not a critism), I think his dementia was starting to show in his '84 debate with Mondale. The first one. I thought, he doesn't even know where he is or who he's talking to. Luckily for us, by the second debate he was wiping the floor with Mondale. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 25, 2009 9:08 AM:

" Sven31- I can provide you with some insight into a non-liberal.

I was a strident liberal, radical, and "proto communist". I surrounded myself with LEADERS of the SWP, PLP, IWW, and various factions of the CPUSA (Trotskyite, New politics etc).

I was able to defend my positions in practice debates for hours, days, and weeks at a time! 24/7/365 This to toughen and prepare for the real debates with the masses.

Please take a a few years off and learn by experience. Don't be an envelope stuffer, or a telephone secretary, but a leader, with "fresh" ideas.

Stop being a "me too" true believer.

You will learn the true nature of liberalism. It's RARELY about those you pretend to help. Its a scam. It is really all about the party and party leaders. Been there , done that.

I have MANY very close friends who are California Democratic party elected delegates. I know the real pulse of the Democratic party and its different than you may think.

Sven31--Why billions to banksters?

Altruism is the problem! "

edumacation wrote on Oct 25, 2009 8:43 AM:

" Mack 12:18- Thats a rediculous question. I would have to conduct a study, but first tell me what is bad? You see, I really don't care. You made up the definitions, ("all", gay and bad) not me. "

sven31 wrote on Oct 25, 2009 7:54 AM:

" edumacation:
Yes as I said, I was looking for signs of bigotry. I love to expose bigots. Over the last year I have found that yourself, Cogster, Rhodie, and a couple of others are not what I would call bigots. I disagree yes, sometime loudly. Anger yes, when I can't convince you to change your opinions. For the most part, you guys hit the problem, not the individual, and this can be difficult for some to separate the two. You and the above named are good posters. You're a little wordy but so am I. I admire you and the above named. I wish everyone would post like you guys (although I would prefer you would take my sides' positions).

hicksvilianfromlodi: you really don't believe the monkey sex story do you?
It is believed that it originated with monkeys and that it jumped from monkeys to people by someone killing and butchering an infected monkey for food.
By the way, in that part of the world, AIDS is almost exclusively heterosexual. "

hicksvilianfromlodi wrote on Oct 25, 2009 2:35 AM:

" who ever says that gays are the reason for aids is an idiot, because you are letting your religious views get in the way of what is right, and what is right is to let gays have equal rights and and live equally among all people without being judged. it seems like in lodi if you are gay, black or muslim you are not welcome and that my friends is a very very sad thing. so i suggest that all you guys open your minds and realize that gays are the same as strait people and bisexuals. "

hicksvilianfromlodi wrote on Oct 25, 2009 2:17 AM:

" hahaahahahah edumacation really reminds me of my hs statistics teacher dont worry man none of this is true homo-sexual people are just like me and you "

hicksvilianfromlodi wrote on Oct 25, 2009 2:15 AM:

" hey edumacation have you heard that aid actually came from african a black man had sex a monkey "

Mack wrote on Oct 25, 2009 12:18 AM:

" Edumacation: I got my ideas from what you said. You talk a lot about all the things you don't like about gay people and what they do. You are forgetting that some of the gay people aren't the only ones that do things that offend you or that aren't right. Do you believe all gays are bad? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 11:34 PM:

" Mack- Where did you get all these ideas? Not from me?

I could care less about positions, frequency or even the sex of the persons involved. I never mentioned marriage!

It's none of my business. Until thousands of people are dying mainly because of immaturity and stupidity.

---and this COSTS us money---for baby games.

Much of this MSM is supported by the Peter Pan MSM's, who are afraid of growing up. Is it an anxiety reaction to adulthood? Look at Michael Jackson--I don't know what he is/was ---but HE adored Peter Pan. Or maybe they are afraid of death---and want to see how close they can get without dying? Many cigarette smokers play that game. Is this the cigarette that give me lung cancer? or is this the cigarette? It looks like a similar dynamic---but cigarette smokers can quit, and many want to quit. Do I hate cigarette smokers? No--- I DO NOT CARE. But I will bring flowers to their funerals, and might even volunteer to carry the coffin. Those things are heavy. One more down---and many to go. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 11:24 PM:

" Typo---Bigotry lurks in the minds of altruists. Its the other side of the same coin. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 11:22 PM:

" Sven31- Do I sound like a bigot?

Because "I" do NOT care.

Altruism lurks about in the minds of altruists.

Show me a "completely" non-altruistic bigot? Bigots still "care"---about "their own kind" (which does not exist).

There is NO such thing as "race" among Homo sapiens. How many "bigots" can say that?

I am NOT an altruist, a do-gooder, or a "fixer".

You are looking too hard for ghosts that are not there.

You altruist! Now call me a racist, bigot or any other pejorative, because I don't like ALTRUISM. boo hoo?

Lets make THAT a hate crime! "Non-altruism." It is very simple. Quid pro quo.

I am entertained by your search for proof of "bigotry".

I am very consistent about this, as are many others. Unfortunately many liberals refuse to read. Challenge?

Altrusim is the source of most political problems. Who is REALLY special in this scenario? The care giver!! ie "The government", rarely the "recipient pretext".

Still looking for the bogeyman? "

Mack wrote on Oct 24, 2009 11:07 PM:

" Edumacation: Do you think that everyone else besides gay people only have sex once a month with their wives and only in the missionary position? Its like you are trying to pick out the worst of gay people and that you don't know that there are people in all other walks of life that do some serious sexual things that would offend you too. Why are you only picking on gays here? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 10:56 PM:

" Sven31- I think I know why you have different opinions than I would guess!

Many conservatives--I am NOT a conservative, blame many social problems on collectivism by "big government" Also many liberals tend to get lazy in their studies and accept sloganeering instead of thinking. They want to oppose the "conservatives" because they think that collectivism is an "opposing" view. They flirt with the idea of collectivism, and they don't know where to stop.

Many liberal political leaders have not been doing their homework. What we see today is a race between collectivism for common people (workers and Bourgeoise) vs colectivism for the monopolies (investment banks and insurance companies).

How did we get a progressive liberal President, a collectivist in political thought, to throw literally hundreds of billions at the very people who are subjugating us?

The problem is really not collectivism!

Sven31-- This will hit some sore spots. It may be "altruism" that causes our social problems! It is also the root of PC thought.

As a care-giver--Please think about it!

Altruism sounds "unselfish"--but it can be the most selfish. "

sven31 wrote on Oct 24, 2009 7:36 PM:

" And just so you know, I was looking for bigotry. I love to find bigotry and then drag the bigot through the mud so everyone will know. You've seen my posts. I don't let creeps get away with it. I looking for the smallest little thing wrong. Her posts follow the bigot profile I call it: Lots of numbers, lots of organizations with letters for names, links that sound official. These just aren't there.

There is a lot (an awful lot) of letters and links to the point of enough already. I would say that edumacation has made her point.

I think Harvey Milk was a great american. MLK level, probably not. Did he do stuff that would now be considered bad: yes. Should he be pilloried for it? No. Different times.
Will having a day in his honor, holiday or not, cause many young boys to turn gay? I doubt it. Will most kids even get Harvey Milk day? Well, they confuse Memorial Day with Labor Day. You decide. "

sven31 wrote on Oct 24, 2009 7:26 PM:

" Continued:
I really wanted to find some reference of edumacation that was totally like from dick chenney (who looks like Mr. Potter from "It's a Wonderful Life") and with the exception of maybe an early link which may not have been hers I didn't find any that were heavy handed right wing super conservative based. I cross referenced the primary characters and the programs and the websites independently using different key words. They all came out legit.

Now we know a lot of posters here do try to trick us (not realizing we know the game). One example: I was told to go to some link regarding Obama's spending which would show he is the devil. This was passed off as the US Treasury Dept. Guess what? It was some conservative think tank ragging on Obama and all democrats. Poor effort by the right to decieve us.

I disagree with edumacation on a lot. Usually I don't write about it. I would love to find the bigotry here. I don't. "

sven31 wrote on Oct 24, 2009 7:17 PM:

" Lodian, I went to school here. As an adult, when I moved to the district office (not lusd) I worked in prevention services. Sometime in between me being a 7th grader and working, it occurred to who ever does these things, that describing a particular drugs effects as euphoric was probably not the best way to keep kids from trying it. Also, I reviewed many of the then current programs to keep kids off dope and out of the maternity ward. A lot of them were the scare tactic approach, you know pictures of deformed babies and zomboid toddlers. As I told the person I had to report to and often to the program presentors was, how do I know something else wasn't wrong with these kids? How about all those people walking around who smoked dope and drank (and with the exception of LSD) and are now productive citizens. Well, no real answer for that. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 6:44 PM:

" Lodian--1st--You never need to ask. This is what they do! Some people have occupations---they mate. It is their lifestyle!

2- You are making another unfounded assumption. Mr. Milk was quoted as saying (by his ex-companion) and employees, that he promises to never visit the "baths" if he were elected for city council. I don't know if he kept his promise, but to actually have to make an oath to NOT have sex mulitple times eash day---is usually only relegated to MSM's.

The encounters are rarely behind closed doors----the San Franciso police raided illegal public sex busineses (gay bath houses) UNTIL Harvey Milk was elected.

A popular reason for support was that the laws against public sex were no longer enforced. Look it up. The people you advocate for do not want "heteros" learning about what really goes on. Look at the high HIV infection rate ---from a virus that is not aggressive---mostly in a few sub populations. MSM's and IV drug users lead the list compared to their size in the normal population.

They are less than 3% of adults, and 50% of the infections. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 24, 2009 6:03 PM:

" edumacation wrote "Lodian-- Can you think of "any" heterosexual man who can literally have sex many times a day every day for years? If you do, you should submit their names to Guiness."

I don't ask what consenting adults do in their bedroom. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 24, 2009 6:01 PM:

" Okay, so you don't want to honor Harvey Milk. Got it. Then don't. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 5:45 PM:

" Lodian--These people are KILLING themselves and don't take responsibility for their behavior.

They are doing more danger to themselves than all the hate-filled "heteros" and "breeders" could ever heap on them.

Milk was one of their advocates and was known as an uber promiscuous person.

Do you really want to honor that "accomplishment"? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 5:42 PM:

" Lodian-- Can you think of "any" heterosexual man who can literally have sex many times a day every day for years? If you do, you should submit their names to Guiness. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 24, 2009 5:37 PM:

" edumacation: In one sentence... what's your point? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 5:35 PM:

" Lodian-- I think you are a bit naiive? Yes, every single one of them. Do you want to know the details of their (dead MSM's) lifestyles. How about multiple different partners every day? I have never heard even the most active hetero males try that one! It may be a physical impossibility!? However the MSM boys, got from one "style" to the other and keep on going. As they call themselves T and B.

This can be over 1,000 contacts in one year! As I said the HIV virus is a relatively difficult virus to "catch". But somehow these MSM's manage to get infected.

It's all about probablities. The more you are active the more different people you are active with, the greater the probability of catching the "bug".

Biology is not hateful, but the behavior many of "these people" have is literally causing their deaths. I think that most of them are their WORST enemies. The heterosexuals aren't responsible for the morbidity and mortality they have from communicable and potentiallty lethal STD's. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 24, 2009 5:05 PM:

" edumacation wrote "Every single one of them [gay men] bragged about their promiscuity"

As do many straight men. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 24, 2009 5:01 PM:

" voter wrote on Oct 24, 2009 9:25 AM:

" She's passionate about her hatred, sven. It's irrational and promotes the kind of hatred in others that killed Andrew Shepard. In that vein, I can't look at it as informed by credible sources."

Well said. I agree. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 24, 2009 4:57 PM:

" sven wrote "...remind me of the presentations we got in school about teen age pregnancy and drugs where only the worst case scenario was presented: "You touch a joint, you'll die a heroin addict" or "you imagine a girl with her clothes off, you'll get syphilis and your brain will look like swiss cheese" sort of thing."

What? Where and when did you go to school where the taught you these kinds of ridiculous things? "

Gator wrote on Oct 24, 2009 3:59 PM:

" When I was in California (Lodi/Eureka) last week I talked to an old friend
Who graduated from Mc George school of Law (UOP). He said every one
is covered by the Civil Rights act of 1964. Race creed sexual orientation Etc. you know the drill. As for sexual orientation he stated that in normal behavior [I.e.] a well mannered Human being then of you were refused a rental or Dismissed from your job is grounds for legal action.. But if there is open sexuality in public or on the Job your toast…He also stated that the screaming and yelling and protesting will alienate the public and shoot your
Cause in the foot. There are lots of attorneys who will take cases like
that pro-bono. Do it on a singular issue and win you set precedence
otherwise you will go no where… "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 11:19 AM:

" Voter=--Your use of the words "supposedly, allegedly, or virtually" does not impress me. These adverbs when used in this way--ADD NOTHING to your argument. Linguistically they mean NOTHING.. Read some Chomsky...okay? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 11:15 AM:

" Thank God--I am NOT a liberal. But is that a contradiction, since I am an atheist? LOl I must go outside and enjoy the blue skies and birds singing. "Mr/s holocaust" here--may not be enjoying the day? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 11:11 AM:

" Voter--Quoting from you in relevent text- "...She's not stupid--I'll give you that.."

As a member of Triple Nine, I think THAT statement is amusing....Please voter if you only knew, I am having a case of the giggles. Please "Voter", how can accept your evaluation of anything. Your statements are revealing your "non-biases"! LOL "

voter wrote on Oct 24, 2009 11:06 AM:

" You're flat out crazy. I pointed out how research is twisted by bigots to broadly paint an entire group as inferior, and now you're claiming that I just maligned blacks and jews? Did you notice that I used the word "supposedly"? Of course not. You read what you wanted to read. I oppose bigotry in all its forms, edumacation. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 10:59 AM:

" Voter- Perhaps you can ask one of your liberal associates why it is, that it can be a beautiful day with blue skies and white puffy clouds and the birds are singing, and invariably liberals bring up the subject of race? Please explain? Many of us get TIRED of the "instructions--knowledge" from "liberals" about how we live.

This LNS article was about a suggested observance of Harvey Milk for his work for "the cause" of liberation for GLBTIQS. It had NOTHING to do with African-Americans or Jews or the holocaust. You wanted to use us as convenient examples, but FYI I am a person with feelings and ancestors who were murdered 60 years ago. Can you enlighten me on your "liberal" philosophy? What does it REALLY mean to YOU?

---And the thought that YOU think I am inferior in ANY way---makes me laugh!

The fact that you may legally cast a vote, Mr(s) voter makes me mildly amused. "

voter wrote on Oct 24, 2009 10:46 AM:

" **Matthew Shepard** "

voter wrote on Oct 24, 2009 10:45 AM:

" Edumacation, you would have to be crazy to think that I just disparaged any group--on the contrary, I pointed out how "credible research" can and has been used to promote irrational bigotry and hatred.

See what I mean, sven? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 10:36 AM:

" Voter--Your assertion may tell me more about your biases?

It really doesn't matter what you think. I am not running for political office.

I do not share your attitudes about African-Americans or Jews for obvious reasons (but they are NOT obvious to you!).

You made a crass statement that offended me, since I am a member of the class that you just described! And you pose as a liberal thinker? "

voter wrote on Oct 24, 2009 10:25 AM:

" sven, I wonder if you would be so understanding of her if she made broad statements about the inferiority of Jews or blacks or how their supposedly common behaviors were a plague on society. Hitler used "science from credible sources" too. She's not stupid--I'll give you that--but that's no reason to admire a bigot. "

voter wrote on Oct 24, 2009 9:25 AM:

" She's passionate about her hatred, sven. It's irrational and promotes the kind of hatred in others that killed Andrew Shepard. In that vein, I can't look at it as informed by credible sources. Sorry. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 9:23 AM:

" Sven31- Thanks for the kind statements.

I work in a field that includes a lot of gays. I lost count of how many have died and have been too many funerals and I know the pain of watching someone suffer (usually) needlessly. knowing these individuals on a professional basis gave me insight into the issues they face. Every single one of them bragged about their promiscuity. For years they are alive and then they get sick and eventually die.

I see the factor of unsafe sex and promicsuous sex as being the main features of their lifestyles---AND persona. Women do not brag about being promiscuous, why do MSMS's?

The fact that many leaders of the GLBTIQS groups refuse to encourage members of their own group to "cool it" within their own group make me wonder about their maturity.

Many MSM people claim there are lots of them hidden in the shadows of our society. Many are known only because of the correlation to the jobs they have.

I never believed that celibacy was the answer---but why not start by reducing the number contacts they have? "

sven31 wrote on Oct 24, 2009 8:00 AM:

" Voter, I don't think edumacation is angry. I think she's passionate about the topic.

Her posts (and I am not knocking her posts, or her religion or anything else about her) remind me of the presentations we got in school about teen age pregnancy and drugs where only the worst case scenario was presented: "You touch a joint, you'll die a heroin addict" or "you imagine a girl with her clothes off, you'll get syphilis and your brain will look like swiss cheese" sort of thing.

Her information comes from reliable and legitimate sources, which I can't say is true about many other posters. I think she has an angle (like most of us) and it's an angle I don't agree with, but it's the 1st amendment thing. I'd rather read her posts than some others which are mostly uneducated and ignorant opinions submitted by uneducated and ignorant people. "

sven31 wrote on Oct 24, 2009 7:47 AM:

" continued: My guess is it is slightly higher for homosexuals continued "
.... but that is a guess and not based on anything other than a hunch. As with any subgroup, there are elements that are extreme to one pole (nymphomaniacs) and there is the opposite subgroup of the main population(prudes), even in the gay community.

We probably here about the nymphos more because it draws attention. Who cares about what the prudes do, they're prudes. "

voter wrote on Oct 24, 2009 7:34 AM:

" Edumacation--were you betrayed by a gay man (a husband or boyfriend who came out) or infected by a gay man? Is that the source of your anger at the entire community? "

sven31 wrote on Oct 24, 2009 7:31 AM:

" edumacation,,
I did check the link, although only briefly, I need more time to look at it closely. Anyone suggesting a link here, I'm more interested initially by who is, or who owns the website and if it is a political website, social website, historical,or medical, etc. Several you've suggested are legitimate (non-political) and I was surprised at the information they contained.

Much of what you've posted describes some very edumacation,,
I did check the link, although only briefly, I need more time to look at it closely. Anyone suggesting a link here, I'm more interested initially by who is, or who owns the website and if it is a political website, social website, historical,or medical, etc. Several you've suggested are legitimate (non-political) and I was surprised at the information they contained.

Much of what you've posted describes some very aberrant behavior by people outside the norm. Are these odd behaviors showing at a higher rate than those behaviors of a similar population (of some other group, like teachers).

My guess is it is slightly higher for homosexuals continued "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 12:35 AM:

" 2) Continued--- The past ten years the CDC has tried new disease surveillance systems, and they found that the infection numbers are higher than previously predicted. This is not good news, and should be on the front pages of the mainstream and specialty media. The vocal leaders of some of the subgroups that are at risk have been too effective in hiding this new information. Its too bad, since they are in at-risk populations.

When one objectively observes the sometimes "dramatic" ways that the target populations behave, it can be annoying, amusing and sadly, tragic...for them. Multiple anonymous partners is never a "good thing" from an infectious disease perspective.

If you checked the link ---
You saw the long list of diseases that are prevalent ONLY in some small populations of MSM.

What about the future diseases we know nothing about? Shouldn't we plan today, to decrease the probability of infection?

Any undiscovered STD that has a long latent period, is not testable by lab methods, and has a quick and direct lethality to humans could destroy humanity. Which is more important, "lifestyle" choice or a deadly pandemic? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 12:17 AM:

" 1) Continued--- These mixed infections are very serious. The specific proteins that are intercepted by anti-viral drugs are different for each subtype of HIV virus (if more than one) in the infected host. This greatly decreases the effectiveness of the AV treatments for many reasons. One public health consequence for all of us, is that vaccine development becomes more complex, difficult and costly, wasting precious time.

2) The reservoir of the HIV infected population has been spilling over from MSM, IV drug users, medical errors(Hemophiliacs, organ donors etc), African American women, and some local geographic "hot spots" (USA). It is true that AIDS-HIV is "just a disease", but there are many more consequences because of the affect on other Herpes Viruses that have recently been discovered which infect many of the USA adult population. No one knows what the long term effects will be.

3) Teaching responsibility, education, and maturity are positive features of any Health Education program. Unfortunately, the vocal advocates of the GLBTIQU subgroups feel that non-gays are dictating to them "how" to live. They (MSM) seem to be most at risk for new infections. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 24, 2009 12:01 AM:

" Sven31- I agree with most of your points except the following:

1) "I believe the prevalence of this disease, in the US, has leveled off. There will be some times when it climbs, followed by a period of decline...:"

Yes, these trends occur with most cummunicable diseases, but HIV infections pose new problems:

Without going into the many reasons for this behanvior---Many MSM have fears about the HIV infection, and as a result, attempt to get infected to decrease the anxiety they have. Of course, this increases the prevalence of the disease among this subgroup. Once a certain level of infection is reached in a population, the incidence may taper off, until the population gets smaller or if there are other unknown variables.

Two problems within this framework exist: A) Many MSM who are in single or multiple party contact relationships no longer use "safe sex" techniques. This increasing their risk of a new infection. B) Many HIV infected MSM wrongly believe that HIV infection is like other non-fatal communicable diseases---usually bacterial. The problem is that many of these infected persons, will be infected with additional HIV subtypes. "

sven31 wrote on Oct 23, 2009 11:35 PM:

" In most other countries, AIDS and HIV are heterosexual diseases. I lived through all the scares of the time:gay man swimming in pools! Gay men handling fruit at the store! Gay men looking to seduce straight men! Gay men sitting next to you on the plane! All of these eventually proved false.

HIV and AIDS would eventually come to the US and THERE WAS NOTHING TO PREVENT THIS.
It most likely would have come in through the heterosexual or iv drug users instead of gay men.

Finally, from the gay men I have known, and that's not many, they are no more likely to have relations with an underage boy than a straight man would want to have sex with an underage girl.
They are not looking to recruit hetero men into their club, no more than hetero men are trying to recruit gay men into their club.

Celebrating Harvey Milk day is a long way off in the schools. Most teachers would rather ignore it and most probably will. "

sven31 wrote on Oct 23, 2009 11:27 PM:

" Continued:
HIV is not an easy disease to catch. I heard a "noted" speaker once say that she new a 17 yo male who "got drunk once, had sex once, and got AIDS". I would say he lied to her about everything but the AIDS.

Let's also remember that syphilis and gonoreha (sp) have been around for centuries and has periods where it is more common than other times. And both are treatable.

I also think, and this goes back a long time, that the reason it became more common beyond the gay community, was that early on, 1982-1986 or so, the religous right continued to insist that it was a disease transmitted only among gay men and because of this, public health agencies concentrated their work on gay men, while the religous right continued to blame gay men. This kept research and treatment from other suspetible groups like iv drug users, hookers, heterosexual males and females open to transmission because they were not having "gay sex". "

sven31 wrote on Oct 23, 2009 11:16 PM:

" edumacation,
I think this thing is overblown and will cool off eventually. Most teachers don't have the time or the interest to find out about Harvey Milk and certainly don't have the time in a day to shoehorn in some information about his holiday, short of doing something provided by the outside.

The facts are these: Harvey Milk was probably the first openly gay man to be elected to public office.

Harvey Milk was murdered by Dan White in Nov. of 1978 because he was gay. I remember listening to the hastily called news confrence live on the radio.

As a gay man in SF, he probably indulged in a lot of things, practices, etc. that he would never do today.

As for AIDS, it has become a treatable disease like some cancers or chronic conditions like hypertension or artheriosclerosis, or your pick.

I believe the prevalence of this disease, in the US, has leveled off. There will be some times when it climbs, followed by a period of decline. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 23, 2009 8:41 PM:

" All I have to say is thank God for the ignore function.

This blog is not displayed because you have added the blogger "edumacation" to your Ignore list. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 23, 2009 8:11 PM:

" SV31 quote from: Randy Shilts, The Mayor of Castro Street: The Life and Times of Harvey Milk, (New York: St. Martin’s Press, 1982).
(Randy Shilts also died of AIDS)

"...As homosexuals, we can’t depend on the heterosexual model….We grow up with the heterosexual model, but we don’t have to follow it. We should be developing our own life-style. There’s no reason why you can’t love more than one person at a time. You don’t have to love them all the same. You love some less, love some more – and always be honest with everybody about where you’re at. They in turn can do the same thing and it can open up a bigger sphere’….A sphere of love, always growing.” Does this explain the obsession with promiscuous GLBTIQ contact?


SVEN31: What is your view? Should we teach children that this is a good thing? Remember your oath as a teacher
to always protect children. Perhaps some liberal teachers forgot the oath. Most of Milks affairs were allegedly with very young people (not children?)? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 23, 2009 7:53 PM:

" To T&C---You are welcome to conduct some research to verify if these almost 100% gay BUG PARTIES really exist, and what is the affect of them on GLBTIUQ HIV (all subtypes) infection rates? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 23, 2009 7:48 PM:

" Sven BTW---I researched and could find NO COUNTERPART to "bug parties" for heterosexuals. Lets ask why specifically THESE PEOPLE want to be infected with a disease that frequently causes painful and disabling symptoms and sometimes a very painful and untimely death? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 23, 2009 7:46 PM:

" Sven--Good investigation. Now please investigate my quotes like this one?

http://www.gmhc.org/health/gay/std.html

It would be nice if you could find any unintentional ommisions. I posit that the medical article above will only make you ask more questions like: What can we do to stop the epidemic?

The medical scientists are thwarted by the so-called HIV "re-infections" and HIV "Super infections" caused by a DECREASE in safe sex practices.


Do some reserach in the GLBT publications about so-called "bug parties" where uninfected people will attempt to get infected with HIV so they will feel like they "belong" to the infected group. Select any viewpoint that you agree with---the specter of this is frightening enough for some health professionals to ask for physical quarantine of those infected with HIV.

Tell us about the "bug parties"? "

sven31 wrote on Oct 23, 2009 6:27 PM:

" But TanC, give us the whole story, if not the story then at least the rest of the paragraph you lifted.

What TandC said:"Milk lived long enough to pass only two laws in San Francisco -- a so-called "pooper scooper" ordinance requiring dog owners to pick up after their pets and another preventing employers from firing workers for being homosexual."

What TandC does not want you to read is
the remainder of the paragraph:

"But his charisma, his speeches and his entree into the heterosexual political power base of San Francisco gave thousands of gay people hope that they would someday live in a world free of persecution."

Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/c/a/2003/11/27/MILK.TMP#ixzz0UoPp9ISu

You see, it's all about context. And dishonesty. Dishonesty of omitting the remainder of the paragraph, which I assume you read and disagree with and so you left it off. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 23, 2009 4:29 PM:

" Lodian--I have no idea who that is? You never answered any of the questions-- because you don't have an answer. Is this typical of liberals? You thinbk Pc---and you don't know why? What is the Alphabet soup group GLBTQIU? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 23, 2009 1:30 PM:

" edumacation = Reincarnation of the blogger, real facts? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 23, 2009 1:18 PM:

" Freethinker: Indeed! "

LodiFreeThinker wrote on Oct 23, 2009 1:10 PM:

" T&C wrote
"Gays dancing naked is not what anyone wants to see in California."

methinks thou dost protest too much sir... "

T & C wrote on Oct 23, 2009 12:14 PM:

" T & C wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:10 PM:
" I quote from the San Francisco Chronicle......

"Milk lived long enough to pass only two laws in San Francisco -- a so-called "pooper scooper" ordinance requiring dog owners to pick up after their pets and another preventing employers from firing workers for being homosexual."

Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/c/a/2003/11/27/MILK.TMP#ixzz0UF1sFoOP

And this qualifies a "GAY MAN" a "Special Day" in the year and to be taught in our schools to our children?"

Geez... anyone should be able to get a DAY in California named after them if they accomplish something as minimal as (2) things!

Geezs! "

T & C wrote on Oct 23, 2009 12:10 PM:

" Gays dancing naked is not what anyone wants to see in California.
http://cbs13.com/local/naked.barn.dance.2.1266677.html "

edumacation wrote on Oct 23, 2009 11:58 AM:

" Lodian- Equal rights? How would anyone know what they are? Many "Rainbows" don't even know what/Who they are! The GLBT---letters are not universally accepted among the "crowd". Many gays who hate the L's don't want the L's in the description. I tried to be politically correct by listing many---but even the Rainbow crowd added a letter "U" for "Unknown" or "ndecided" But some GLBTIUQZ-LSMFT' thought the letter "U" stood for something else? Sometimes GLBTQS-LSMFT's includes "P" for "Pedophiles", other times as "Polygendered". Some think there should be no definitions. How will they get extra rights and privileges unless you can describe them? Some use "T" for "Twink" others for "Trans+suffix of choice.

Many "L"-esbians (not lipstick types, and not Wesleyan LUG's) hate all humans who have a Y chromosome. They think "Womyn" are the natural state and people with "Y's are defective and should be killed. Is that inclusive? PC? What about the Rainbow crowd "War against boys"? Is that a hate crime? "

sven31 wrote on Oct 23, 2009 11:52 AM:

" Well, well, well "

Lodian wrote on Oct 23, 2009 9:03 AM:

" concernedmuslimcitizen wrote on Oct 23, 2009 12:18 AM:

"Im not for gay marriage, but i support gay rights because im for equal rights."

Oh great... You're just not for equal treatment, respect and opportunity for all Americans, right? Perhaps you also agree with Justice of the Peace, Keith Bardwell, from Louisianna. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 23, 2009 6:57 AM:

" Interesting comments? I know of several God-fearing Muslims who died of AIDS. What does religion have to do with it? Just because a GLBTQIC0-LSMFT decides to pray five times a day does tot protect them from being infected. "

concernedmuslimcitizen wrote on Oct 23, 2009 12:25 AM:

" being gay has nothing to do with religion "

concernedmuslimcitizen wrote on Oct 23, 2009 12:22 AM:

" im sorry i did not read the article but yes we should learn about him in school its important to educate our children about stuff outside of lodi "

concernedmuslimcitizen wrote on Oct 23, 2009 12:19 AM:

" but no he should not be recognized locally "

concernedmuslimcitizen wrote on Oct 23, 2009 12:18 AM:

" Im not for gay marriage, but i support gay rights because im for equal rights. It is easy to see why lodians are so so ignorant its because of there sociological backgrounds,there brainwashed by there churches. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 22, 2009 7:48 PM:

" Leonard, Lodian and Voter---Here is a doctors report from a GLBTQS-LSMFT health web site by Dr. Daniel William MD PC and advisor at the GHMC (Gay Mens Health Crisis). Tell the good doctor what medical school you graduated from and explain to him why he is wrong?

http://www.gmhc.org/health/gay/std.html

It seems that many of these rare diseases have developed their own civil rights?

Promoting the behavior of the GLBTQS-LSMFTs, only serves to support their behavior and give them "permission" to keep infecting others or to get re-infected.

Scientists are trying to find a medicine to help "these people", but guess what? Infectious Disease scientists have a NEW barrier! Lets talk about that one?

It seems that as soon as suitable vaccine candidates are developed, the scientists learn that not only are gays infected with just one HIV subtype, but there are over a dozen immunologically distinct forms of the virus. As doctors discover a new ANTI HIV drug, they soon learn it will combat only one of the virus subtypes. Many of these GLBTQZ-LSMFT infectees have a blood system that is a virtual zoo of pathogens. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 22, 2009 7:31 PM:

" Leonard: Here is an assignment for you. Go out among your most strident GLBTQD-LSMFT friends and ask the these questions:

1) What is a "chicken hawk"?

2) What is a "twink" (many say that Harvey Milk was a twink).

3) What is a "gift giver"?

4) What is a "bug chaser"?

Now after you get the answers, ask yourself this question. Why are "these people" so "successful" at getting infected with: HIV, Hepatitis A, B and C, Syphilis, parasites, giardia, STD warts, LGV, Granuloma Inguinale, and many more listed here?

Many of these diseases are ONLY found in GLBTZX-LSMFT's. Why is that?

Why should other non-GLBTQXZ-LSMFTS, be held responsible for these rare diseases? Are these diseases "homophobic"? Then do they why pick on gays? or---are there other reasons.


Example-- Why don't plumbers decide to dine in the sewer? Maybe they know something? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 22, 2009 7:01 PM:

" Aimee, whatever else you might think about this issue, would you not agree that the out pouring of hateful remarks towards gay people made on these blogs is alarming? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 22, 2009 5:19 PM:

" Billy boy (rubin) - Would Tim Gunn be proud of what YOU said? tsk tsk.

Make my horse blanket out of cashmere, and I don't care who designed it. LOL "

Billy Rubin wrote on Oct 22, 2009 4:45 PM:

" Is that why she hates gays? She's afraid they'll all die off and no one will be left to sew enough horse blankets together to cover her?

Don't worry, Ed, dear - Omar is straight. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 22, 2009 4:28 PM:

" T & C wrote on Oct 22, 2009 11:43 AM:

" voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:59 PM:
" You're grasping at straws, Aimee. Are you claiming that homosexuals are unable to fire a weapon or in some way are unable to perform the duties of their job? They are not allowed to reveal their sexual identity under DADT legislation, so how can you claim dishonesty? Lame argument."

With regards to Military service, I served a s a Marine, and I would not like it one bit if "Some Gay Guy was staring at my privates" and coming on to me, IN or OUT of The shower." "

T&C:
Voter never discussed how the MOAA study I cited (down below a bit) meshes with her link to the Palm Center study, (referening the British report regarding gays in their military).

When a study says essentially the same thing that you are saying here T&C, how can one say with confidence that gays in the military would not create a morale issue? What study is more persuasive - one that comes straight from enlisted men and women or one that the British government conducts? "

voter wrote on Oct 22, 2009 4:08 PM:

" She's obese. Obesity is quickly becoming a leading cause of death and a gigantic drain on the healthcare system, but she defends it as insignificant.

Now we know where all the hate comes from--self-loathing. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 22, 2009 3:38 PM:

" Lodian---Behind many cases of type 2 diabetes is a habit of eating a gallon of ice cream a day plus maybe a few boxes of sweets. Controlling the diet can help reduce the onset of the disease.

But your example is weak---because people need to eat (maybe not a gallon of chocolate ice cream everyday), but (normal) people do not require hundreds of anonymous sex partners. It is not a biological necessity for life. Gay males aren't into reproducing anyway. It is a self-limiting process.

Some day--if there is ever a scientific discovery that demonstrates that GLBTQZ-LSMFT behavior is genetic, I can see hundreds of thousands of therapeutic abortions---paid for by the government--if necessary, to help future generations. But where will we get the hairdressers and clothes designers of tomorrow? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 22, 2009 3:29 PM:

" Lodian 1:30 pm The thing about "these people" is that they have ZERO standards. People in the Castro district of San Francisco have to hide their pets from the gays. "These people" will try to do anything that moves....maybe not even moves---pet rock?

Billy Rubin---Just count all the womens clothing designers who are dying off. LOL

Lodian 1:33---Promoting that reasoning is WHY gays die of AIDS. Can any GLBTXQ-LSMFT person explain what social good bath houses add to society? The rainbow crowd wants the very things that kill it off. Ironic isn't it.

I recommnd that the GLBTQZ-LSMFT crowd go on a diet of "JUST SAY NO" for a few years---I bet the numbers of deaths will start dropping. But this is something they will NEVER try. It's like a bunch of rabbits in heat. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 1:46 PM:

" edumacation: Should we not care for those with Type2 Diabetes? Many are overweight. Do you think they asked for the Diabetes?

How about heart disease? Cancer? Some with these diseases participated in risky behavior, right? So, in your opinion, should we all allow these people to die without care? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 1:42 PM:

" Edumacation: If you don’t hate gays then why do you keep blaming gay people for HIV/AIDS and saying that all medical care should cease.

You keep attacking gay people as if they are the only people having sex.

I never said "no sex". I was clarifying your stand on the issue, which was going in the direction of "no sex" as your solution to not contracting HIV/AIDS.

You are a very ignorant person to think that HIV/AIDS is a gay disease and to continue to speak of the life of a gay person as if they are to be blamed for all HIV/AIDS cases. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 1:33 PM:

" edumacation wrote "The HIV pandemic would have NEVER occurred, if "these people" were MONOGAMOUS."

Not true. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 1:32 PM:

" T & C: The Oprah Show is a good forum for learning about stories such as the heterosexual man that slept with many women while knowingly spreading HIV. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 1:30 PM:

" T & C wrote "...I would not like it one bit if "Some Gay Guy was staring at my privates" and coming on to me, IN or OUT of The shower."

I don't there would be much chance of that happening. "

Billy Rubin wrote on Oct 22, 2009 1:14 PM:

" The back story on what caused Edumacation's derangement toward gays is, no doubt, an interesting one. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 22, 2009 12:03 PM:

" Lodian--You still don't get it. I don't hate gays, I hate their behavior that KILLS. Do you want a list?

HAVING MORE THAN ONE PARTNER is dangerous. If two people are monogamous---there is a minimal problem with spread.


But if even one partner is having hundreds of contacts per year--mostly anonymous---what do the statistics say about that? Bilogically--it is DIFFICULT to contract the disease.

With syphilis it is a about 0.31 probability per contact. With HIV it averages about 0.1-0.2. That means on average that a typical person must have contact with five to ten HIV infected people for a 100% probability of infection. This is not accounting into the type of contact which also affects the statistics.

Soltutions---You said "No sex" This is not a bad idea for "Typhoid Marys", but that is not reasonable. What about this? Monogamous safe sex. No more bath houses---which are still legal in San Franciso, no more HIV clubs, no more injectable drugs, and a decrease in sexual psychopathy which includes pederasty and paraphilias.

The HIV pandemic would have NEVER occurred, if "these people" were MONOGAMOUS. "

T & C wrote on Oct 22, 2009 12:00 PM:

" Typo correction:

T & C wrote on Oct 22, 2009 11:52 AM:
" Lee wrote on Oct 20, 2009 11:15 PM:
" There is no reason to blame all gay people for the spread of HIV AIDS.
http://www.oprah.com/dated/oprahshow/oprahshow-20090923-sex-deadly-weapon"

Is that the "BEST ammunition you can come up with to support your position on "GAYS?"

The OPRAH SHOW?

Oh Good Lord!" "

T & C wrote on Oct 22, 2009 11:52 AM:

" Lee wrote on Oct 20, 2009 11:15 PM:
" There is no reason to blame all gay people for the spread of HIV AIDS.
http://www.oprah.com/dated/oprahshow/oprahshow-20090923-sex-deadly-weapon"

Is that the "BEST ammunition you can come up with to support your position on "GAYS?"

The OPRAH SHOW?

Om Good Lord! "

T & C wrote on Oct 22, 2009 11:47 AM:

" Using the same formula analysis that Sex offenders are "Barred from playgrounds because they would have easy access to children, I believe GAYS should not be allowed in the military because, after all, the purpose of joining the military in FACT "Allows a GAY man" easy "ACCESS" to men... in a much more intimate setting then sex offenders, meaning bunking and showers!" Sorry, I exercise my right of free speech under the Constitution to say, as a disabled vet, I do not approve of Gays in the military. "

T & C wrote on Oct 22, 2009 11:43 AM:

" voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:59 PM:
" You're grasping at straws, Aimee. Are you claiming that homosexuals are unable to fire a weapon or in some way are unable to perform the duties of their job? They are not allowed to reveal their sexual identity under DADT legislation, so how can you claim dishonesty? Lame argument."

With regards to Military service, I served a s a Marine, and I would not like it one bit if "Some Gay Guy was staring at my privates" and coming on to me, IN or OUT of The shower." "

T & C wrote on Oct 22, 2009 11:28 AM:

" T & C wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:10 PM:
" I quote from the San Francisco Chronicle......

"Milk lived long enough to pass only two laws in San Francisco -- a so-called "pooper scooper" ordinance requiring dog owners to pick up after their pets and another preventing employers from firing workers for being homosexual."

Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/c/a/2003/11/27/MILK.TMP#ixzz0UF1sFoOP

And this qualifies a "GAY MAN" a "Special Day" in the year and to be taught in our schools to our children?

Good Lord!" "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 10:00 AM:

" edumacation wrote "That lesson tells me STOP the behavior that causes the spread of the disease."



There are people with HIV/AIDS that have done absolutely nothing wrong. So, you are all about letting people with HIV/AIDS die because you say it's a gay disease, right? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 9:57 AM:

" edumacation wrote "Also--- "just let people die". What else do you have in mind? We provide them with free medical care, hospitalization and medication and they STILL DIE."

edumacation: So, you admit that you want people with HIV/AIDS to just die. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 9:55 AM:

" edumacation wrote "We can stop the AIDS epidemic ANY TIME the GLBTQ-LSMFTXCZ people want."


Really? How? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 9:54 AM:

" edumacation wrote "...we should not care about people getting HIV/AIDS and just let people die...." Thats what YOU said"
---


Uh, no. This is what I said...
"Stats aside, your main point is that we should not care about people getting HIV/AIDS and just let people die. Well gee... I'll have to disagree with you."

What kind of crap are you trying to pull here, edumacation?


--- "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 9:42 AM:

" edumacation: So, now you state that it's not only gay people to blame for HIV/AIDS, you say that the blame goes to people having sex as well. Well, okay. Yes, that is a way that HIV is transmitted. Good luck getting people to stop having sex. I'm curious, just how are you going to go about accomplishing such a thing? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 22, 2009 9:42 AM:

" Lodian"... we should not care about people getting HIV/AIDS and just let people die...." Thats what YOU said.

We can stop the AIDS epidemic ANY TIME the GLBTQ-LSMFTXCZ people want. How? By acknowledging that promiscuity, pederasty and paraphilia behaviors are THE REASONS for the primary spread of the disease.

Also--- "just let people die". What else do you have in mind? We provide them with free medical care, hospitalization and medication and they STILL DIE. That lesson tells me STOP the behavior that causes the spread of the disease. Just Say NO. But "they" want it both way---"Peter Pan gay land" ---where no one dies and no one has responsibility---or REALITY.

BTW Tinkerbell died with her Pixie dust. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 22, 2009 8:20 AM:

" Lodian--I wonder by "contributions" if they mean the photo developing lab Milk owned in "the Castro". LOL "

edumacation wrote on Oct 22, 2009 8:17 AM:

" Lodian--So I guess we CAN agree, that no matter what sexuality or ethnicity, PROMISCUOUS behavior increases contact ratio and increases likelihood of infection. The remaining public health issue is how do you tell people who know this, that their behavior is deadly? AIDS has been around for over 25 years, why haven't these allegedly intelligent adults figured out the connection?

I think they really have, but political correctness dictates they remain promiscuous. They NEVER speak out against promiscsuity, paraphilias or pederasty, for the GLBTQ-LSMFTCZ crowd.

Why? "political correctness". So thousands are intentionally dying just to be poltically correct. The word "gay" does not have to imply "death", but again its THEIR choice. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 22, 2009 8:09 AM:

" Lodian---thats a good statistic. But you forgot to ask how many of the men were "baby-daddies" (their words) or on the "downlow"! You see very few of these families are intact with a family father and family mother. So the question is: What percentage of the "baby daddies" (their word) are promiscuous? Does that word sound familira? It is NOT homosexuality that needs to be controlled, but the PROMISCUITY that is endemic in this group. It is not hatred against "gays" but the behaviors that are part of their "lifestyle" such as pedersaty, promiscuity and paraphilias. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 22, 2009 8:03 AM:

" Lodian-- FYI Do you know the origin of the latest political correctness ie "anti-heterosexism"? This word was invented because a minister for a well known national church was caught providing church marriage cermonies for his gay buddies against church doctrine and against his vows as an employee of the church. To continue his childish blame game, he organized his other "buddies" and their friends to invent a whole new "ism"----just to get back at the church for his embarassment for being defrocked. Years and lawsuits later with the whole fussy and whiny "gay" type theatrics, he also lost in court. He organized these malcontents into a national organization that has representation in the White House. They have ONE goal. Make it a federal offense to teach children that heterosexual behabvior is normal. To be fair---society must instruct children that ALL behaviors are normal and equivalent to any other behavior. This whiny baby is not for Anti-heterosexism, but acting like a tyical "Peter Pan" he wants his way.

That is the REAL rationale supporting the GAY day (H Milk). "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 12:18 AM:

" edumacation: Here's another stat for ya... "Blacks/African Americans accounted for over half (51%) of the estimated number of HIV/AIDS diagnoses made during 2007"

Stats aside, your main point is that we should not care about people getting HIV/AIDS and just let people die. Well gee... I'll have to disagree with you. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 22, 2009 12:01 AM:

" deblaw: Get it right. In reading this whole string of crap, I read a lot of hatred toward the gay people and gay supporters that disagree with the heterosexuals perverted agenda... Simple as that. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 21, 2009 11:21 PM:

" deblaw---of course it is hatred, and they are trying to sneak in the "GAY" day celebration (H Milk) so they can teach that ANY instruction that heterosexuality is normal---is "ANTI-Gay or homophobic and therefore a FEDERAL HATE CRIME. Believe it---This sneaky passage is hidden within the Defense Appropriations Bill before Congress. So its anti-gay, or as they call it "anti-queer" to teach children that its "okay to be heterosexual".

This is called ANTI-heterosexism.

I guess thay think Darwin won't win this one? LOL "

edumacation wrote on Oct 21, 2009 11:14 PM:

" Lodian--You are confusing the definitions of prevalence and incidence.

FACT---MOST HIV infected individuals are either GAY or IV drug users. How did that happen? duh? Irresponsible and selfish behavior. It is rare for a non-IV illegal drug user and monomagous heterosexual to get this disease. The CDC doesn't even want to test non-affiliated people unless they paln to donate blood. What does that say? Now theoretically yes, heterosexuals "can" become infected ---but it is RARE, unless they have contact with one of the GLBT-LSMFTBX crowd or IV drug users. "

deblaw wrote on Oct 21, 2009 6:22 PM:

" In reading this whole string of crap, I read a lot of hatred toward the hetrosexuals that disagree with the gays perverted agenda... Simple as that. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 21, 2009 5:45 PM:

" voter : I agree. "

voter wrote on Oct 21, 2009 5:42 PM:

" LodiFreeThinker wrote on Oct 21, 2009 3:43 PM:
"Seriously, does anyone actually care what this crackpot says? "

Nope. I'm done with her. She's crazy. No sane person is that filled with hate. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 21, 2009 4:15 PM:

" edumacation wrote "From WHERE did the infection arise"

FYI Heterosexuals give and get HIV AIDS. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 21, 2009 4:14 PM:

" LodiFreeThinker wrote "Seriously, does anyone actually care what this crackpot says?"

Nope.

Edumacation is sounding more and more like the old poster "real facts" every day. And it's getting worse. real facts was known here by most bloggers to actually have some kind of mental disorder. "

LodiFreeThinker wrote on Oct 21, 2009 3:43 PM:

" edu says "The secret progressive agenda "Anti-heterosexism" is the REAL rationale for H. Milk day observance!"

Yes, and the gay agenda is out to infect your children, ruin your marriage and make it so you'll have to marry your dog.

Seriously, does anyone actually care what this crackpot says? "

edumacation wrote on Oct 21, 2009 3:28 PM:

" Lee 11:01-- It's terrible that an innocent person gets AIDS!

From WHERE did the infection arise?

According to the CDC, this terrible epidemic ORIGINATED with patient ZERO---A promiscuous gay flight attendant who the GLBT people revere as the person who brought this "gift" (their words) to the USA.

"They" say---"It is NO one's fault that people are dying of this disease". Instead, they blame anti-GLBTGTV-LSMFT advocates who don't want to kneel at the altar of Socialism and Rainbow crowd politics.

"These people" need to take responsibilty, but will never, because psychologically, they are like narcissistic 9 year old Peter Pans who believe they can "wish away" responsibility and adulthood.

We need to start prosecuting "these people" (GLBT---HIV spreaders) for murder where it is legally warranted.

Any accessory---is to be charged similarly---hello GLBT-LSMFTB crowd.

Some states are now following this strategy.

To honor a San Francisco photo store owner and part time city councilman for being "dead" and "gay" is morally repugnant. Why don't we honor mayor Moscone instead?

The secret progressive agenda "Anti-heterosexism" is the REAL rationale for H. Milk day observance! "

Lodian wrote on Oct 21, 2009 12:54 PM:

" "Brian wrote (Africans) may not have evolved as far as the rest of the world."

Aimee: Do you agree with this statement? "

deblaw wrote on Oct 21, 2009 10:24 AM:

" Interesting poll:
http://people-press.org/report/553/same-sex-marriage "

Aimee wrote on Oct 21, 2009 10:17 AM:

" Leonard, I accept and offer you the same in return. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 21, 2009 10:03 AM:

" Lee- You are generalizing:

1) The problem is not "homosexuals" per se.

"These people" can not spread lethal diseases if they are monogamous.

It is the FACT that they are PROMISCUOUS that causes them problems.

Male gays or MSM's as they call themselves, and their progressive liberal cheerleaders will NEVER speak out against promiscuity or pederasty.

2) I have known gays who have died of AIDS. But the choices they made is what got them infected.

The question is HOW did this happen?

The two main sources of infection are well known and have been well publicized for over twenty years.

"They" can't say they don't know. IT WAS A POOR DECISION they made that caused them their grief. Don't blame normal people.

The irony is that "they" blame everyone else. I would like to see mandatory testing of adults and quarantine of the "typhoid Marys" who are spreading the disease. this will work---but it is NOT a politically correct solution.

It seems that many MSM are on a suicide mission because of their "lifestyle". "

Lodian wrote on Oct 21, 2009 9:44 AM:

" "Brian wrote on Oct 27, 2008 8:57 PM:
(Africans) may not have evolved as far as the rest of the world." "

Lodian wrote on Oct 21, 2009 9:40 AM:

" It's sad that we still see Brian's pathetic attempt here to change the subject and take the spotlight of off his racist comments. It doesn't make me feel good at all to have to point out that Brian and perhaps some of his other followers will not join me in speaking out against racism. Well, racists usually won't call out another racist. "

Brian wrote on Oct 21, 2009 8:15 AM:

" Lodian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 9:32 AM:

" edumacation and Brian: Your hate for gay people is all too clear. You don't have to keep on posting such hateful comments about them. Maybe it makes you feel better about yourself. "

-It doesn't make me feel good at all to have to point out that Lodian aNd perhaps some of her other followers will not join edumacation and I in speaking out against NAMBLA. "

Brian wrote on Oct 21, 2009 8:11 AM:

" voter wrote on Oct 20, 2009 3:32 PM:

" Edumacation, your rants have so little connection with reality, that I've begun wondering if these are your fantasies.

-It is not a fantasy that MANY GLBT
will not speak out against NAMBLA. Evidently voter's connection with reality is seriously skewed. "

Lee wrote on Oct 20, 2009 11:15 PM:

" There is no reason to blame all gay people for the spread of HIV AIDS.
http://www.oprah.com/dated/oprahshow/oprahshow-20090923-sex-deadly-weapon "

Lee wrote on Oct 20, 2009 11:01 PM:

" edumacation: I wonder if you know anyone that has died from AIDS? Do you know anyone that has died period? Your words are very callous and cruel. Not everyone with HIV AIDS is gay, not that it matters. These are people, human beings, you are hoping will die. It's hard to believe that people like you exist. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 20, 2009 10:56 PM:

" According to the CDC, about 135 GAYS die every day from AIDS! Thats a high price to pay for a politically correct lifestyle. This is from this one disease alone. When you add in the other fatal diseases like hepatitis B , THESE PEOPLE are making some self-destructive choices---but they want to blame everyone else for not having cures. What about the NEXT lethal disease that will be sexually transmitted. THESE PEOPLE are walking on very thin ice. Oh Well---Darwin will sort it out. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 20, 2009 5:47 PM:

" Aimee, have you seen rantraves call for civility?

I am trying to work towards a new mode of discussion on these fora. With that in mind, I would like offer an olive branch to you and apologize if I have offended you in the past. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 20, 2009 5:45 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 20, 2009 4:12 PM:
" Leonard: You never answered my question regarding your post referencing "Nazi Jews" and that your statement (while I am sure you were trying to be witty at the time) could be seen by others as implying (or stating) that you do not believe that there is such a thing as a conservative gay person and/or that such a person is a traitor to their "group", just as the Jewish Nazi's would have been seen as traitors.


My point was that any gay person who could embrace the conservative movement's homophobia centered agenda would have to be suffering from serious issues concerning their self worth.

I have no doubt that there are such people. It is a poorly kept secret that one such person posts on these blogs and, in his case at least, the price paid in terms of mental health and substance abuse has been heavy indeed. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 5:16 PM:

" It looks like Brian will, again, run off without facing the music. No shocker there. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 5:15 PM:

" Aimee: So, do you agree with any comments made here by Brian and edumacation? "

LodiFreeThinker wrote on Oct 20, 2009 4:50 PM:

" So many of these posts make me sad to live in Lodi.

Our state, which has rejected equal rights for some citizens, give this small token to their cause, and people in Lodi seem to have a problem with that. "

voter wrote on Oct 20, 2009 4:27 PM:

" bobbyg expressed a nuanced view based on facts. He neither hates, fears, nor spreads misinformation about the LGBT community. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 20, 2009 4:24 PM:

" bobbyg wrote on Oct 18, 2009 11:10 PM:

" ....But a day for him.... i just dont know."

And though bobby asserts that he's not sure we should have a day reserved for honoring Milk, not one person reviles him for saying this (good points bobby, by the way - I didn't know much about his accomplishments). Why? Because he is an identified homosexual man and not a "homophobe". Voter, BR, Lodian and Leonard, your bias is showing. The double standard is alive and well here at LNS. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 20, 2009 4:12 PM:

" Leonard: You never answered my question regarding your post referencing "Nazi Jews" and that your statement (while I am sure you were trying to be witty at the time) could be seen by others as implying (or stating) that you do not believe that there is such a thing as a conservative gay person and/or that such a person is a traitor to their "group", just as the Jewish Nazi's would have been seen as traitors.

I am still waiting for a response. Surely a man as knowledgeable as yourself (who asserts that I insulted 10% of our population) would not presume to suggest that there are no conservative gays? "

voter wrote on Oct 20, 2009 3:32 PM:

" Edumacation, your rants have so little connection with reality, that I've begun wondering if these are your fantasies. "

Bob Hussein Loblaw wrote on Oct 20, 2009 11:17 AM:

" Or, as voter said in the case of Bryan, self-loathing. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 9:32 AM:

" edumacation and Brian: Your hate for gay people is all too clear. You don't have to keep on posting such hateful comments about them. Maybe it makes you feel better about yourself. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 20, 2009 8:32 AM:

" Brian---"...many of our beautiful transgendered young people are convinced ...? Say what? I didn't know that surgeons were allowed to do reconstructive surgey sex re-assignment surgery on children! What if they change their minds? LOL

Larry---> to "Mary" ---> NO way---the kids wants to be "Steve". Oh what fun the GLBT brings to the world. So do we have a reverse GLBT crowd. Straight to gay to straight all before puberty. How is this helping our kids? They are having enough trouble with homework--- why should they be worried about the weirdness of the GLBT politicians?


If we have Harvey Milk day---we must have a Forrest Gump day---or maybe a Gomer Pyle day. "

Brian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 7:15 AM:

" Voter,

As a heterosexual male, I have no reason for self loathing. As for the GLBT crowd, well, they have some issues
that would definately merit their self loathing. "

Brian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 7:08 AM:

" Voter,

Are you of the variety that won't speak out against NAMBLA? "

voter wrote on Oct 20, 2009 6:57 AM:

" Now he's starting in with the self-loathing. You two are quite a pair. "

Brian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 6:55 AM:

" Voter,

We can't help but shed some light on the issues before the fact. :) "

Brian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 6:53 AM:

" Edumacation wrote:

The upside of the GLBT crowd is that they serve an an economic stimulus to the mortuary and funeral sector of the economy.

- There's nothing like a little bit of controversy to muddle over with a cup of coffee.:) "

voter wrote on Oct 20, 2009 6:51 AM:

" It's not even light out, and the crazy talk has resumed. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 20, 2009 6:46 AM:

" No attacks---Each post was to replace the previous post ---which did not show up. No attacks---why should one be upset about people who are self-destructive? The upside of the GLBT crowd is that they serve an an economic stimulus to the mortuary and funeral sector of the economy. I wonder if there is a mortuary index on the stock market? That along with the VIX volatility index could be very profitable for some investors. "

Brian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 6:03 AM:

" http://www.ifge.org/Article199.phtml
- Because many of our beautiful transgendered young people are convinced they?ll never be loved or accepted, and because suicide is the leading cause of death among those young people. - Because if we don?t stand up, speak out, and work for justice, the next one to feel the wrath and the power of a bigoted right-wing ideology could very easily be you.

-I doubt the right wing has near any bearing
on how the vast majority of religions and cultures in the world deplore GLBT
this link claims. "

Brian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 5:45 AM:

" Lodian wrote on Oct 19, 2009 10:36 PM:

" edumacation: You just posted the same attack on gay people like 5 times in a row. Are you okay over there? "

-Whether it was 5 times in a row. It doesn't matter if he posted it 100 times in a row. Lodian would never join
him or anyone in condemning the GLBT crowd for not
speaking out agains NAMBLA. "

Brian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 5:36 AM:

" edumacation wrote on Oct 19, 2009 8:07 PM:

" Look up Harry Hay--he started NAMBLA amd was a close advisor on the GLBT crusades. He was also known as the person whio started the GLBT parades in San Francisco. FYI NAMBLA has been on the FBI list of dangerous organizations for many years. Its ironic how top government officials and their "advisors" can be so cozy with these kinds of people. This includes Pelosi, Feinstein and Boxer, all of them support the GLBT crows but the GLBT crowd will NEVER speak out against NAMBLA, HAY or pederasty. Explain why NAMBLA does NOT support sanctions against child abuse. NAMBLA = child abuse---as long as the CHILD says "ok".

-Regrettably,
This post reminds us of the close ties Pelosi has with the Folsom Street Faire.
It is in her congressional district. She has even publicy spoke out in favor of the Faire. NAMBLA is well aware
of of how the Faire organizers make it easy prey for them, given children are not banned from this gathering. "

Brian wrote on Oct 20, 2009 5:28 AM:

" Aimee doesn't need to be reminded how often it is almost impossible for Lodian
to post with rationale. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:21 PM:

" Aimee: Here ya go... On the blog "It's not color, it's the politics" Brian is again insisting that some races have weaknesses and strengths over others. This comes from a debate awhile back when Brian was insisting that a particular race was inferior. He is offering the same comments again on the above mentioned blog. Care to offer an opinion on his comments?

link...

http://www.lodinews.com/articles/2009/10/17/opinion/letters/ltr_sayles_091017.txt

. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 19, 2009 10:37 PM:

" voter @ 8:27 PM: My thoughts exactly! "

Lodian wrote on Oct 19, 2009 10:36 PM:

" edumacation: You just posted the same attack on gay people like 5 times in a row. Are you okay over there? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 19, 2009 10:34 PM:

" Aimee: Some of Brian's exceptionally nasty and racist comments were reposted for you to see on another blog awhile back, but you did not return to see them (so it seems) or make a comment. I wonder if the same thing would happen here again. And have you enjoyed edumacations recent comments here? Care to post an "opinion"? "

Bob Hussein Loblaw wrote on Oct 19, 2009 10:03 PM:

" Amazingly, edumacrazy is making Bryan look tolerant. "

voter wrote on Oct 19, 2009 8:58 PM:

" More crazy talk. Keep posting. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 19, 2009 8:47 PM:

" Voter- I am not homophobic. Can you hate toad or snail? That is about how significant these things are. Let Darwin sort them out. From my view, Darwin is doing a fine job! Come on Natural Selection-- "

voter wrote on Oct 19, 2009 8:27 PM:

" Keep posting, edumacation. Your hateful and absurd frothing is the most effective rebuttal possible to ignorant homophobia. Our very own Fred Phelps. "

edumacation wrote on Oct 19, 2009 8:12 PM:

" Voter---Look up the NAMBLA website, Mr Hay and Madam Pelosi. All keywords together- Main stream media leaves this out of their editorials, It might offend the GLBT rainbow crowd. I wonder whats on the end of their rainbow. More people should ask THAT question. Look up the "Folsom Street Fair" to find more Pelosi and Feinstein supporters. You might find more than a few Acorn people in there as well! "

edumacation wrote on Oct 19, 2009 8:07 PM:

" Look up Harry Hay--he started NAMBLA amd was a close advisor on the GLBT crusades. He was also known as the person whio started the GLBT parades in San Francisco. FYI NAMBLA has been on the FBI list of dangerous organizations for many years. Its ironic how top government officials and their "advisors" can be so cozy with these kinds of people. This includes Pelosi, Feinstein and Boxer, all of them support the GLBT crows but the GLBT crowd will NEVER speak out against NAMBLA, HAY or pederasty. Explain why NAMBLA does NOT support sanctions against child abuse. NAMBLA = child abuse---as long as the CHILD says "ok". "

Leonard wrote on Oct 19, 2009 7:37 PM:

" edumacrazy wrote on Oct 19, 2009 7:03 PM:

It is well documented that pederasty is a substantial component of the MSM lifestyle


That is like saying that rapes is a substantial part of the heterosexual lifestyle.

Stupid in other words. "

voter wrote on Oct 19, 2009 7:35 PM:

" I am quite simply stunned by your level of bigotry. Edumacate yourself.

http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/HTML/facts_molestation.html "

edumacation wrote on Oct 19, 2009 7:03 PM:

" The assasination of Harvey Milk was terrible from more than one perspective. An elected political representative was murdered and at the same time he was turned into a martyr as a representative of LGBT lifestyles and pederasty advocates. That day in 1978 was a strike against our political institutions. It was also a strike to prevent enforcement of laws to protect children from sex crimes. It is well documented that pederasty is a substantial component of the MSM lifestyle, yet the Anti-heterosexism advocates like SEED want to hide this fact.

In 1994, Scott Smith the life companion of Mr. Milk, succombed to AIDS.

If Mr. Milk had not been murdered, the issue of his martyrdom would probably never occurred. Instead he would have been one more of face of the tens of millions of GLBT's who have died from this dreaded disease. Natural Selection processes always determines the future of living organisms. Will certain inheritable biological traits flourish, or will they become extinct? "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 4:43 PM:

" But seriously, why so obssessed with Brian? Certainly there are other examples of people that have posted inappropriate things on here.

I think Brian may have a devoted follower. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 4:40 PM:

" Lodian, don't EVEN presume to tell me what I do and don't see here on this site, because you have no clue.

I've said I haven't seen any offensive racial slurs by Brian and you've failed to supply proof on here of their existence. There's no way I am giving you my email address, so if you can post the material in an email message, surely you can post them here, slightly edited so that the word itself may not be completely visible but the meaning and intent is clear.

If Brian has said these things, I condemn that behavior. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 4:35 PM:

" Lodian: Let's be clear, since your comprehension is wanting. I don't want to offer personal beliefs on a extremely sensitive subject such as this, either way, because they are too many people on here (on both sides, this would include types such as RF) that seriously de-rail the conversation with personal insults, which gets us nowhere.

It's already happened here. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 4:29 PM:

" In the interest of putting this to rest:

1. I DID NOT equate the use of the word "mulatto" to the used of the "N" word. Period.

2. People ARE offended by the use of the word "mulatto". I will post those links again since you seem to have conveniently forgotten the words of two bi-racial men insisting they find the word insulting.

http://www.popmatters.com/features/040706-mulatto.shtml

and

http://tr.theroot.com/views/audacity-taupe


Here's a link to the actual LNS article (and "mulatto" discussion) where I pointedly SAY mulatto is not comparable to the "n" word.

Anything else? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 19, 2009 4:27 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:51 PM:
"Lodian seems unaware that opinions are not limited solely to one's personal or religious beliefs"

Aimee: Well, of course not! But I am not the one that whined. IMO, these blogs are for opinions, information, links, facts and a lot more. We can debate/argue/converse about the content all day long.... even if it's your opinion or something you say is fact. You seem to be the one that wants to limit us here. STOP IT! lol! The only thing I would like to see limited here are the personal threats, racist remarks and cuss out sessions (ie;Brian). I think that's reasonable. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 19, 2009 4:01 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:44 PM:
"It [mulatto] IS offensive to many bi-racial people..."

That is your personal "opinion", Aimee. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 19, 2009 3:58 PM:

" Aimee: You just simply can't equate mulatto with the "n" word, as it seems you are trying to do here (as well as a few months ago). Brian uses the "n" word and is purposely offensive. Mulatto was not used in the same way, and you know it. Bottom line, there aren't many words that offend like the "n" word and Brian knows it. Again, you coming to Brian's defense is quite telling of your stand on the "n" word issue, and perhaps racism too. You come after voter for using mulatto in a normal sentence and step away and never call out Brian on his use of the "n" word (multiple times) or any of his other extremely offensive and nasty writings and behavior. All too telling, Aimee. And please don't tell us that you have never seen Brian be severely offensive because that is a bunch of bologna. Now, please stop pretending to be offended. Of course you are entitled to your personal "opinion". Oh wait... you said you don't offer personal views and opinions here. LOL! "

LodiFreeThinker wrote on Oct 19, 2009 2:34 PM:

" The fact that the legislature passed this bill, and that our Republican governor signed it, is a step in the right direction.

I hope by the time my child goes to school, we'll have passed equal rights for all of our state citizens as well.

I don't want to have to figure out a way to explain to him how all men are created equal, except those that the majority decides they don't like.

I can't explain it, because it makes no sense. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:54 PM:

" Hey, Gator, don't let them run you off. You have as much right to your "opinion" as they do.

Man, you picked a bad time to go to Idaho. The winters are heinous! (but beautiful summers). "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:51 PM:

" Lodian seems unaware that opinions are not limited solely to one's personal or religious beliefs. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:49 PM:

" Here Leonard, a link just for you:

http://www.kansaspress.ku.edu/righit.html

I guess you're insinuating that gay conservative are traitors to the "cause" as Jewish Nazi's would have been considered traitors?

Hmmm... "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:46 PM:

" Leonard: So....are you saying that bobbyg can't be a republican and a gay man? That any gay person can't be conservative?

I await with interest for your response. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:44 PM:

" Sorry Lodian. It IS offensive to many bi-racial people no matter how many links you post.

Your statement was that it was not offensive at all and it obviously is to some bi-racial individuals. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:43 PM:

" Good link Voter, but not sure how it jives with the MOAA survey regarding attitudes of service men and women regarding gays in the military....

http://cmrlink.org/cmrdocuments/MOAASurveyCharts-Effect080109.pdf

The MOAA (Military Officers of America)polled their members (on active duty serving the country) specifically regarding the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" (DADT) law signed into law by Clinton.

The majority of repondents were against lifting the DADT requirement and believed morale would be hurt if gays were allowed to openly serve. These results contradict the British study.

Definitely both studies are food for thought in the debate.

It's worth noting that the Palm Center has a vested interest in this issue, as they champion gay rights. I don't think it removes credibility from the link, but it's useful to note. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:40 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 12:41 PM:
" Voter, I may be a conservative lesbian


I am confused. Is that sort of like a Jewish Nazi or more like a Black Klansman? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:30 PM:

" Aimee: These blogs are for sharing "opinions, advice and other information". Do you personally believe that gay people should be allowed to marry? What is your opinion? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:26 PM:

" Aimee still seems to be unaware that most of what is posted here is just an "opinion". "

Lodian wrote on Oct 19, 2009 1:14 PM:

" Oh, Aimee...

www.mulatto.org

No, they are not offended. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 12:48 PM:

" No voter, you should put your money where your mouth is, wouldn't you agree? You made the argument, you need to back it up.

Hopefully you'll fair a bit better than Lodian with her statement that the word "mulatto" isn't offensive.

Unfortunately for her, the two articles I cited in opposition of that ridiculous statement, written by two very intelligent bi-racial college students on that topic, provided proof that the word is, indeed, offensive to many people of color. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 12:41 PM:

" Voter, I may be a conservative lesbian, you don't know me at all and you are in no position to tell me exactly who, what I am or how I believe.

Stop assuming so much, it makes you look the pretentious fool. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 12:39 PM:

" OTH: I believe you asked for some sort of reference regarding my comment that "King had alleged communist ties". There is a myriad of sites that state this, although it is fair to cite that there is NO concrete proof that MLK had communist ties..hence the term "alleged". Here's just one site:

http://www.edubook.com/who-killed-martin-luther-king-jr/14007/

My point is (to agree with Bob (gasp!)) that many of our prominent historic figures either indulged in not-so-savory activities or were reputed to have done so. "

Gator wrote on Oct 19, 2009 12:27 PM:

" "r" left off. In a hurry to get back to Idaho... "

Gator wrote on Oct 19, 2009 12:25 PM:

" Voter a parting thought, Have you considered the Military?? A Sniper would be right you
Alley.. One Shot one Kill the only thing you feel is the recoil think about it. See Ya…… "

voter wrote on Oct 19, 2009 12:14 PM:

" Aimee, you claim to have taken no stance on the issues presented here, but it's plain for everyone to see that you are antagonistic towards the LGBT community and their struggle for equal access and protection under the law. "

voter wrote on Oct 19, 2009 12:12 PM:

" Aimee, if you were interested in the truth, it would have taken you less time to google for research than to make that string of posts. "

voter wrote on Oct 19, 2009 12:11 PM:

" http://www.palmcenter.org/press/dadt/releases/classified_british_government_study_finds_no_problem_with_gays_in_military "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 12:03 PM:

" Voter: Your link (which forwarded me to Wikipedis) provides no information on whether or not homosexuals in the military causes dissent and morale problems, nor any evidence that it is, in the alternative, positive.

If your central argument is that homosexuals in the military does not destroy morale and create dissent, you should post links that are directly on point to your assertion(s).

I'd really like to see studies that speak of this issue, whether positive or negative in nature. Can you provide that for us? "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:56 AM:

" voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:50 PM:

" No Aimee, I am addressing the treatment of minority groups, who have all been traditionally denied equal rights by the straight white male majority in this country."

Then why wasn't your first thought to bring up the fact that women were not allowed to vote until 1920? I mean, after all, we've been mistreated by white males, haven't we? For the longest time we were just their property. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:54 AM:

" T&C wrote: ...T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:32 PM:

" You are a typical Liberal voter. If someone doesn't agree with YOU, you go on into vicious attack mode. A-Typical Liberal. You kept begging on your hands and knees for someone to respond to your question, and were ready to attack anyone who didn't respond "Exactly how you wanted them to."

It's the fight and the kill she craves, not intellectual discussion. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:45 AM:

" Leonard: Fine with me. I've found conversation with you in the past rather trying.

No problem. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:44 AM:

" Nothing I have said indicates that I am on either side of the issue and I refuse to be boxed in. Voter wrote that homosexual persons are denied civil rights. In response to that statement, I stated that under the status of the law AS IT EXISTS TODAY, almost all of the rights she posted are NOT civil rights (I must disagree with others about marriage, that has been ruled a fundamental right by the Court). Civil rights cannot be denied if they are not legally deemed as civil rights, although people will disagree with the characterization of those activities as not being civil rights, hence the now-onging fight against and for Prop 8.

I also find Voter's rude attitude towards people unsettling, hence I was moved to comment that her obviously-loaded questions "do you agree with the denial of civil rights to ALL persons" was ridiculous and her rude proclamation that people are cowards because they fail to answer her question, as imperiously stated.

You don't want a discussion, you want a fight. "

Gator wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:44 AM:

" Well I give up what the hell why not just let it go… This country is in the Toilet just waiting for the final flush.. Gay marriage fits in with the highest Divorce rate in the western world, the highest illegal drug use in the world, more than all other countries
Combined. The highest school- drop out rate. We have given our manufacturing industry
to foreign Countries. We are in debt to China, Japan and Korea up to our A**..California
is in basic financial ruin. People don’t want to fix major problems themselves they want
the government involved.. Last month 980,000 homes received some form of foreclosure
notice. I have driven around Lodi the last couple of days and am amazed by the amount of closings. The one bright spot was the AMD Sweetener plant. Other than that you have
problems.. So Voter I can’t argue with a box of rocks so if you like being the square peg
have a ball. I’m going back to Idaho where we don’t and won’t have that marriage
problem… "

Leonard wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:34 AM:

" After all, other than the simple fact that a Milk Day has been instituted (upon which I think we all agree), isn't everything else a personal opinion? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:29 AM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:14 AM:

Why is it that you continue to insist that people MUST espouse their personal beliefs to have a conversation?


You may do whatever you please. In my opinion, however, conversing with an individual who purposefully conceals their personal beliefs, however inadequately, would be a waste of time.

Perhaps we should leave it at that. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:28 AM:

" Leonard wrote: "A fascinating statement from a woman who casually insults as much as 10% of the American population without a second thought."

I love it how you are so pretentious that you feel you can speak for a whole community, even homosexual persons that are also conservatives and disagree with many of your ideas. Did YOU take a poll as to whether anything I've posted is offensive to 10% of the population? Oh, I see, since you find it offensive, then surely everyone else must too.

Nice. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:20 AM:

" Voter: Give me a freakin' break and stop sounding so smug.

First of all, I didn't "run" off; I do have a life and I am certainly NOT going to spend it all blogging on here, especially on the weekend. Second, legally, you have very, very little to justify your argument that gays are being denied civil rights. I am referring to the status of law as it currently exists (right to join military not civil right, being "fired" from the military because of homosexual status not a violation of recognized civil right..etc.) The only civil right you have mentioned so far (from what I have read) is marriage. The US Supreme Court has recognized that marriage is a right.

Third, unless you'd like me to start referencing you in a negative manner by labeling you, stop calling me homophobic. It's untrue and it weakens your argument because it appears as if you have nothing pertinent to add, so you resort to calling names, much like our own BR, who excells in this area. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 19, 2009 11:14 AM:

" Leonard: To answer your earlier question regarding my purpose here, I am here to discuss issues. Please notice that I posted a question earlier on asking whether or not the idea of honoring Benjamin Franklin would have been discarded had his alleged sexual escapades in the Hellfire club been homosexual in nature.

Why is it that you continue to insist that people MUST espouse their personal beliefs to have a conversation? If people choose to remain silent (or express their personal views, either way) then so be it.

There are quite a few people on here that take delight in bashing other people for their thoughts (on BOTH sides of the argument). I don't think that is productive or helpful to the conversation. "

voter wrote on Oct 19, 2009 6:49 AM:

" Pat, it sounds like you are flopping around trying to find some justification for denying equal rights to the LGBT community as well. "

Pat Maple wrote on Oct 19, 2009 6:40 AM:

" Just to repeat myself...WHERE is the holiday or day of rememberance for a woman??? A holiday (holy day) is not befitting a human. It is a religious ceremony...WHY are you not arguing to keep such religious activities out of State ran business??

Why no holiday for a military man...other than the lumped one?

I have a question too...prior to the 70's the gay men and women hated each other...until they combined political forces to get what they want. Why? "

voter wrote on Oct 19, 2009 6:38 AM:

" Well, one by one, all of the homophobes have run off, realizing they have no argument, no secular reason, to deny equal rights and equal protection under the law to the LGBT community. T &C gave up early. Cogito, Aimee, and Gator hung in there for a few rounds. The intelligent homophobes didn't even enter the fray, knowing that they have no logical reason to discriminate and spread hate against law abiding citizens other than their own fear and prejudice. To argue any other way would just expose them as ignorant and dishonest. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 18, 2009 11:24 PM:

" Gator wrote on Oct 18, 2009 4:27 PM:
"As I said billie it’s a privilege not a right."

If that's the way you want to look at it then fine... All law abiding American adults should be shown the same respect in pursuing this "privilege". "

bobbyg wrote on Oct 18, 2009 11:10 PM:

" So again I am not sure all these little things makes him some kind of person to have a day of recognition. But he did start some recognized projects and he may be a founder or grassroots political action, and the modern day boycotts of national products and companies that dont agree with his thoughts.... just like the radical christians do when they call for a boycott of Disney, McDonalds or Pepsi for allowing their gay employees to have healthcare benefits for their partners. Or when people protest in the streets like so called tea parties, he was great at organizing these types of things way back then and many of these groups now look to what he did because he was so successful at it.

But a day for him.... i just dont know. "

bobbyg wrote on Oct 18, 2009 11:04 PM:

" So let me state that I am not sure that Milk deserves a yearly State recognition (its not exactly a holiday as we know it). He did do some good things and to clear somethings up, During his time in SF it was not the gay friendly city we know it as now, the Police were clsing down places where gay men gathered. One of the reasons there became this influx of gay men in SF is the it was where the Military dumped soldiers when it was found or implied that they were gay (nearest sea port or airport). While Milk lived in the Castro it was also not a gay friendly place. It was however a place where gay men could afford it was the ghetto of SF at the time and was run down and crime ridden.

So think of these points as you think back those 30+ years, long before there was a gay pride festival or anything even close to it.

Also Milk was also intrical to the defeat of the Ballot Prop that would have made it illegal to be a teacher and be gay. "

rantraves wrote on Oct 18, 2009 10:41 PM:

" Here we go again: The govt needs to get out of the marriage business. "

bobbyg wrote on Oct 18, 2009 10:37 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:05 PM:

" The argument has been made... It causes dissent in the ranks"

The problem with this statement is that it is only an argument. If you look at the Militaries (most other countries including Isreal) they have not had any problems with gays and lesbians in their ranks. So when you do research the answer you get is that your arguement has no validity because it is not based on any kind of fact. "

Billy Rubin wrote on Oct 18, 2009 10:24 PM:

" Nah, Tater - you are in the same leghold trap as your buddy Aimee and, like her, you have no logic - all you have left is your hate.

Why not just relax and admit it - you'll look less ignorant than trying to salvage this latest thing you've conjured up.

Either citizens are entitled to equal treatment under the law or they aren't. You don't seem to like the sound of you and yours living under the same circumstances you want to stick to others and you're too involved in your lie now to admit it. "

Gator wrote on Oct 18, 2009 9:41 PM:

" You know damn well what I mean slick You have no argument on the legality issue so you have to try and cherry pick a tiny piece of an issue. Wrong again.. Lets face it your
a square peg on a round peg world….There are thousands of adults that have the Brain power of a 6 year old. On Harding way and San Joaquin there is a school full of these
children. Go volunteer you might learn something… "

voter wrote on Oct 18, 2009 6:44 PM:

" Are you saying that the developmentally disabled should not be allowed to marry? You want to take away that right? They can and do marry right now. Did you know that? I guess not.

Who else do you want to deny? Make a list. "

Gator wrote on Oct 18, 2009 6:33 PM:

" Well let start with the mentally challenged Voter. You just want to do point counter point
Nothing else… How soon will you register at Cal State Hayward for your pre Law???as of now your argument hasn’t a legal leg to stand on…Read the damn act and you will
see every thing you’re whining about can be handled legally. Then there are those that
just want to stir the S*** and care nothing about the issue at hand…Lookie, lookie at
me lookie at me ain;t I wounderful… "

sam wrote on Oct 18, 2009 5:57 PM:

" IMHO, I do believe 2 consenting adults should have the privilege of getting married. "

voter wrote on Oct 18, 2009 4:43 PM:

" Who is "unfit" to marry? And what, pray tell, would be the criteria for "unfit to marry"? Make a list of these numerous folks. Impotent men? Infertile women? "

Gator wrote on Oct 18, 2009 4:27 PM:

" As I said billie it’s a privilege not a right. There are numerous people who are unfit to marry for one reason or another, if you don’t agree with that then your just bloging to argue For the sake of arguing with no valid point… "

Lodian wrote on Oct 18, 2009 3:07 PM:

" voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:16 PM:
"In many professions they do. In many college dormitories, they do. They respect each other's space, share the same facilities, and offer each other privacy. This is what mature adults to."

Great points, voter. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 18, 2009 2:53 PM:

" voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:09 PM:
"There was a time when it was believed that women and blacks should not serve in the military, it being detrimental to morale and somehow unsafe. Did you support that train of thought too?"
--------------------------

Did Aimee ever answer this question? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 18, 2009 2:52 PM:

" Aimee: Are you unaware of the fact that these blogs are here for the purpose of sharing "Opinions, advice and other information..." (LNS)?

Are you also unaware that most of what you post here is just your "opinion"?

Just curious. "

Billy Rubin wrote on Oct 18, 2009 1:53 PM:

" Sorry, Tater, but I don't think you know what you're talking about.

You seem to be saying you didn't have the right to get married, nor do your kids have the right to marry and neither do your grandkids.

I know you aren't making that argument, are you? "

Gator wrote on Oct 18, 2009 12:14 PM:

" Same goes for you Billie boy… "

Gator wrote on Oct 18, 2009 12:12 PM:

" Voter your ignorance is showing. The Civil rights act of 1964 involves thousands of pages of which I believe you have read absolutely none.. You run on hear say, rumors
And innuendo.. Get a grip and work through the legal system. But remember Marriage
Is not a civil right no matter what you say? It’s not a right for anyone…Voter spend the
Two hundred and five and buy the book and start to know what your talking about. Better yet go To Cal State Hayward and study Law then you will know for sure.. Go nights if you have to… Call it a sacrifice for your cause… "

Billy Rubin wrote on Oct 18, 2009 11:59 AM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:05PM: "Voter: Just saw your myriad of posts regarding your ridiculous question, "Don't you want civil rights for all people"..."

Why is it a ridiculous question? Do you or do you not?

Further from Aimee, "...[snip]...Your question is not a question for debate, it's a trap because either way the question is answered, you're able to feel superior in your response."

Trap? Well, of course it is; because it spotlights your bigotry and closes a few more of the holes in your excuses. Your disgust is not with Voter's presumed feelings of superiority, it is digust with your own frustrating inability to further justify your hatred - and knowing Voter knows this. "

voter wrote on Oct 18, 2009 11:20 AM:

" Gator, you are the one who needs to educate yourself. None of that legislation protects citizens based on sexual orientation. "

Gator wrote on Oct 18, 2009 11:14 AM:

" Now then you have the resources I suggest you educate yourself on the act and its coverage.
Every thing you have been complaining about except “Marriage” which is not considered a
Civil right for anyone is covered. Sorry but facts are facts. There are hundreds of Civil rights
Attorneys who would take any of these cases pro bono. The louder you scream, the more you
Make fools of yourself the further you get from your objective. Milk brings back visions of the
Castro and the Folsom street fair. The public has little tolerance for trash like that. Its time
To wise up and work with the system… "

Gator wrote on Oct 18, 2009 10:07 AM:

" Comprehensive U.S. law intended to end discrimination based on race, colour, religion, or national origin. It is generally considered the most important U.S. law on civil rights since Reconstruction (1865–77). It guarantees equal voting rights (Title I); prohibits segregation or discrimination in places of public accommodation (Title II); bans discrimination, including sex-based discrimination, by trade unions, schools, or employers that are involved in interstate commerce or that do business with the federal government (Title VII); calls for the desegregation of public schools (Title IV); and assures nondiscrimination in the distribution of funds under federally assisted programs (Title VI). A 1972 amendment, the Equal Employment Opportunity Act, extended Title VII coverage to employees of state and local governments and increased the authority of the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, which was created in 1964 to enforce Title VII provisions. The act was proposed by Pres. John F. Kennedy in 1963 and strengthened and passed into law under Pres. Lyndon B. Johnson. You might want to read
Up on the act it’s self and the coverage it provides. .Freedom and equality: discrimination
And the supreme Court by Kermit Hall.. $205.00 Barnes and Noble "

OTH wrote on Oct 17, 2009 11:31 PM:

" Aimee

Regarding your post that that MLK was "alledgedly" communist, are you old enough to remember the 40's and early 50's when a number of people were accused of "alledgly" being communist? They were vilified, ostracisized, couldn't find a job, lost careers, all because they were "alledgdly" communist. So please before you start throwing that accusation around about anyone, provide some proof. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 9:53 PM:

" Civil rights are not a popularity test, Gator. The majority was not in favor of the civil rights legislation in the 60's. Still fewer support Brown v. Board of Education. Everyone but the most disgusting racists views those decisions favorably now. It's only a matter of time. "

Gator wrote on Oct 17, 2009 8:31 PM:

" Voter. You remind me of an old 78 stuck in the middle of a sad old song. I’m not making
It up FYI.. If the gays had anywhere near 40-48 % they would get what they are after. They don’t. As I said they were helped by young first time voters. The other item was
The court upheld the election.. It well could end up at the 9th circuit court of appeals…
A court overturned more times than any other circuit court in the country. A bastion
of legal fairness where Judge Stephen Reinhardt is married to Ramona Ripston, Executive Director, ACLU of Southern California.. Something is really wrong with that picture….You disregard the civil union aspect to jump and down screaming at the top of your lungs Look at
me , Look at me I’m just like you… I say Horse C***!!! Voter my sources are ABC News,
NBC some times Never fox and the good old web…Look hard you can find about the percentage
Of minority voting on prop 8 and the corresponding opinions.. not in your favor Voter not
Even close… "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 7:45 PM:

" What are you talking about? "

Cogito wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:49 PM:

" Voter, looks like you just "outed" one of your buddies for not being able to keep a secret So, the Cog signs off for now. This is no longer fun. And YOU can KMA! "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:37 PM:

" Here you go, Aimee.

http://tinyurl.com/yfw65ys


Click on the top item. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:33 PM:

" Cog claimed that Obama is somehow using Harvey Milk. That's absurd and not part of this discussion. I have not problem discussing that if you want to go there. Shoot. Back that statement up Cog. Those medals are given out just about every day but Sunday to honor all kinds of folks for contributing to their community or bettering the U.S. Harvey Milk certainly qualifies. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:28 PM:

" I'll check back later to see the status of my request. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:27 PM:

" voter, now you change gears when it suits your purpose?

First you want to talk about issues solely related to the federal realm (gays in the military) then you assert that we are to talk about only California issues. Would you make up your mind? The two areas of law are completely different! "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:26 PM:

" voter, as you always insist, please provide valid links to information backing up this claim.

I am sure we would all be interested in seeing them. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:25 PM:

" Chuck, this article isn't about the Presidential Medal of Freedom; it's about California Legislation and how that will play out in the schools. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:24 PM:

" No, voter. You've made your feeling perfectly clear. You're convinced that I hate gay people. I have kept my personal feelings to myself. This obviously upsets you, doesn't it? "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:24 PM:

" Aimee, it hasn't been a problem at all in the military ranks of the rest of the western world. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:23 PM:

" Leonard: I was making the point that insults are uneccessary on here for a discussion to take place. Or did you miss that? "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:21 PM:

" C'mon voter, don't you think it is an un-biased and non-biogoted fact that people who can potentially be sexually attracted to each other should not be showering and sleeping with each other in a military setting? How is that a homophobic question? "

Cogito wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:20 PM:

" Voter, FYI, on Oct 12th President Obama awarded Milk the "Presidential Medal of Freedom". Ok, LOL. who's ignorant now? You need some toast to wipe that egg off your stupid face? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:19 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:08 PM:
" I just love it that very few on here can debate and discuss anything without wanting to throw out insults at others.


A fascinating statement from a woman who casually insults as much as 10% of the American population without a second thought. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:18 PM:

" Well Aimee, I don't think it's possible to respect a minority group and then argue for hours online that they don't deserve equal treatment under the law. You've made your feelings perfectly clear. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:17 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:10 PM:

Just because you say I am a homophobe does not make it true, no matter how many times you repeat it


Of course voter saying that you are a homophobe does make you a homophobe.

Voter is just observing the preexisting reality that is obvious to all of us. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:16 PM:

" In many professions they do. In many college dormitories, they do. They respect each other's space, share the same facilities, and offer each other privacy. This is what mature adults to. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:14 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:45 PM:
" Leonard: I am not interested in a discussion of my personal beliefs. Period. It's unproductive and immaterial.


What an absurd statement!

If you are not here to discuss your personal beliefs, what on Earth are you here for? "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:14 PM:

" Voter: My beliefs are IMMATERIAL. What part of that do you not get?

What does it provide to the discussion if one person can be labeled in one manner and another person in another manner?

Enlighten us with your brilliance and anwer the question. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:12 PM:

" Voter, do you think it would be destructive to morale if men and women showered together, served together, slept in the same areas? "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:11 PM:

" Homophobic=fear or aversion to homosexuals. Does that adequately describe you or not? If not, then I offer my sincere apology. Phobias are irrational fears. That's a psychology term. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:10 PM:

" Voter, your regression ito insults in your attempt to label me is a sign of frustration.

Just because you say I am a homophobe does not make it true, no matter how many times you repeat it. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:09 PM:

" There was a time when it was believed that women and blacks should not serve in the military, it being detrimental to morale and somehow unsafe. Did you support that train of thought too? "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:08 PM:

" I just love it that very few on here can debate and discuss anything without wanting to throw out insults at others.

Sad. Do you see me trying to label you voter in a negative manner? Can we show some maturity here or is that too much to ask? Why is it so important that you label people? Is this process central to your ability to have a discussion voter? It appears so. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:08 PM:

" People believe many things, Aimee. It doesn't make them true or morally right. Do you believe that gays are incompatible with military service, because only a true homophobe would type that. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:05 PM:

" Relating this to military service...federal law (nor the courts) hold that it is a civil rights violation to discharge a person from the military simply because the person is a homosexual.

The argument has been made, whether you agree with it or not, that the status of homosexual inhibits the orderly operation of a military complex. It causes dissent in the ranks with the straight women/men who do not want to be in such close quarters with a homosexual woman/man (such as showering or being on a boat for months at a time). The military can make a cogent and logical argument that the "employee" will not be fit for the job duties required of him/ her. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 6:01 PM:

" Aimee, why not just admit that you're homophobic and be done with it? You don't think homosexuals deserve equal protection under the law. You've made that very clear. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:59 PM:

" You're grasping at straws, Aimee. Are you claiming that homosexuals are unable to fire a weapon or in some way are unable to perform the duties of their job? They are not allowed to reveal their sexual identity under DADT legislation, so how can you claim dishonesty? Lame argument. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:56 PM:

" The reality is that there is no civil right to join the military. What is not clear about that statement?

What you refer to is discrimination in the firing, not the right to join. Let's have a semi-quick discussion of labor law, shall we?

First of all, an employer can LEGALLY fire an employee IF the employee misrepresents him or herself on their application as being fit for the job at hand. The courts have routinely held that if an employee reports that he or she can lift 50 pounds, and the ability to do so is a requirement of the job, and it turns out that the employee cannot lift 50 pounds and hid this, the employer is justified in firing that employee. There is no discrimination, no civil rights violation that can be claimed here since the reason for the firing is that the employee is unable to fufill the duties required by the job. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:50 PM:

" No Aimee, I am addressing the treatment of minority groups, who have all been traditionally denied equal rights by the straight white male majority in this country.

Let's address the issue of military service. It's discrimination to fire someone based on sexual orientation alone. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:47 PM:

" Ah, just like I predicted a few posts ago...the old "African-American discrimination" argument has been broached.

Voter, you really need some new material. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:47 PM:

" Fair enough, Leonard. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:46 PM:

" You're making it up as you go along, Aimee. Gays are "fired" from their jobs in the military based on sexual orientation alone. And you say that's not discrimination? Not only are you making up your own questions to cover your bigotry, you're inventing answers as well. Let's stick with reality. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:45 PM:

" Leonard: I am not interested in a discussion of my personal beliefs. Period. It's unproductive and immaterial. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:44 PM:

" Voter, I think we are talking about semantics. I feel it is absurd that all of our holidays honor men when this country was surely built by men and women working together. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:43 PM:

" Gator wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:34 PM:

" . . . I would guess it would
be some where around twenty percent of Gays who even want this marriage law"


Based on what reality? You've taken a poll of every gay in America and find that the majority do not want equal rights? You're making things up to justify your own bigotry. You're old enough to remember Southerners saying similar things about blacks--"Just leave the 'coloreds' alone. They dont' want their kids in our schools." You're delusional. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:42 PM:

" voter:

The right to adopt children is NOT a civil right.

The right to join the military is NOT a civil right.

There are laws BOTH federal and State that PROHIBIT discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. Yes, that's right, it is ILLEGAL.

Pray continue with a list of CIVIL RIGHTS. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:38 PM:

" To springboard from Bob's observation that there are MANY examples of men we have honored that have had, er, questionable tastes in their personal habits. Ben Franklin was reputed to have participated repeatedly in Hellfire clubs where sex orgies were not uncommon. Martin Luther King allegedly had ties to communist organizations.

Perhaps the problem lies with Milk's activies in that they were associated with oft-times labeled "deviant" sexual proclivities (whether fairly associated or not). Had he been straight and enjoyed certain "deviant" but heterosexual activities, would the result be the same? Would the outcry be as great? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:38 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:29 PM:

Secondly, what multiple civil rights are you speaking of? Gay people are not forced to use separate bathroom, restaraunts, forced to sit at a different counter are they? You're speaking of rights solely tied to the right to marry.


Given voter's response to this question, it is clear that you have not thought this issue through thoroughly.

Perhaps you will reconsider your position in light of these new facts that you, apparently, were unaware of. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:36 PM:

" Cogito wrote on Oct 17, 2009 11:43 AM:
" Voter, was calling me ignorant on the life and times of Harvey Milk supposed to be an insult? LOL! Unlike you, I try not to fill my mind up with insignificant crap like that. That would be a positive sign of proper cognitive prioritization."

Stupid and proud of it. Does that win points with your neighbors out there in Galt? LOL

Cog continues:
"Obama is just using him lie he used Rev. Wright. It's a way to secure more votes fot the narcissist. "

It was the Republican, Arnold Schwartzenegger, who signed this into law. What does it have to do with Obama? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:35 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:23 PM:

We are here to discuss whether or not Harvey Milk should be honored. Some believe he shouldn't be because he was a gay man. Others believe that he was reprehensible as a person, apart from being gay, and that disqualifies him from the honor bestowed upon him by GAS.


Which do you believe? "

Gator wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:34 PM:

" Lodian nice to see you too…Knowing the man as I do I would say with out a doubt he
wouldn’t touch marriage with a ten foot pole. Your out of touch, I would guess it would
be some where around twenty percent of Gays who even want this marriage law…It’s
called a very vocal minority and the louder they whine the more press they get. If the
coverage was to stop the would disappear like 3 day old fish or yesterdays news paper.A friend of mine who was a office manager for one of the biggest phone companies was
living with his partner of 20 years said he wished the S*** disturbers would just go away.
Stan was white his partner was black. Civil unions with equal benefits fine. Marriage sure
When hell freezes over.. When the whites become the minority in California the law will
never pass, Yawll best get busy…. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:33 PM:

" You can't be that unaware. Not possible. Have you even read this thread? Gays can't serve openly in the military. They can't adopt children in many states. They can be denied housing and jobs based on their sexual orientation alone. If you want a list of THOUSANDS of rights denied to gays, I'll make a list for you. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:29 PM:

" Voter: You fail to recognize a key issue here - we're NOT talking about ALL law abiding citizens here, are we? No, of course not since gay persons are the ONLY ones not allowed to marry.

Secondly, what multiple civil rights are you speaking of? Gay people are not forced to use separate bathroom, restaraunts, forced to sit at a different counter are they? You're speaking of rights solely tied to the right to marry. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:24 PM:

" Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:20 PM:
" Pat Maple wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:12 PM:

When will the women of this nation stand up and demand a holiday for a woman? Certainly they can find SOMEONE to rally around.

I can't tell you how much it pains me to agree with Pat Maple. "


Leonard, I rarely find a point where we disagree, but this is one. Martin Luther King Day is a holiday for ALL of us, not just blacks. I admire the man and respect his legacy a great deal--he makes me proud to be an American. It's silly to think of holidays as being "for" one minority group or another. If a woman were so honored with a holiday (and there are plenty of worthy candidates) it would not be a "women's holiday." "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:23 PM:

" Leonard: I find your questions immaterial. Your main reason for asking these questions is to characterize and box me into a negative stereotype from which you (and other like minded individuals) can use as a springboard for insults. Sorry, I don't believe that is productive.

We are here to discuss whether or not Harvey Milk should be honored. Some believe he shouldn't be because he was a gay man. Others believe that he was reprehensible as a person, apart from being gay, and that disqualifies him from the honor bestowed upon him by GAS. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:21 PM:

" Aimee, your "question" demonstrates a complete lack of understanding on the issue of equal rights for the LGBT community. Marriage Equality is only ONE of many rights denied to homosexuals. So, my question stands: Are you opposed to affording equal rights to all law abiding citizens. That's not a trick. It's a pretty straight forward question. Answer it. You can even break it down for us and let us know which rights you think should be universal and which should be denied to homosexuals. Give it a go. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:20 PM:

" Pat Maple wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:12 PM:

When will the women of this nation stand up and demand a holiday for a woman? Certainly they can find SOMEONE to rally around.


I can't tell you how much it pains me to agree with Pat Maple. "

Pat Maple wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:12 PM:

" Gotta agree with the Cog: Milk got murdered now marytred. Nope. When will the women of this nation stand up and demand a holiday for a woman? Certainly they can find SOMEONE to rally around.

For all of you non-believers and Constitutional crankers...isn't this just another form of worship...you know the stuff you want to keep separated? "

T & C wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:10 PM:

" I quote from the San Francisco Chronicle......

"Milk lived long enough to pass only two laws in San Francisco -- a so-called "pooper scooper" ordinance requiring dog owners to pick up after their pets and another preventing employers from firing workers for being homosexual."

Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/c/a/2003/11/27/MILK.TMP#ixzz0UF1sFoOP

And this qualifies a "GAY MAN" a "Special Day" in the year and to be taught in our schools to our children?

Good Lord! "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:05 PM:

" Voter: Just saw your myriad of posts regarding your ridiculous question, "Don't you want civil rights for all people" and your subsequent posts demanding a response.

First of all, that's an obviously loaded question and you know it. If the person says "Why yes voter, I do think all people should be afforded civil rights" then you call them hypocrites because they don't believe that marriage should be extended to gay people. If they say, "No, I do not believe that people should be afforded civil rights" then they're called neanderthals, bigots (insert appropriate insult here) and most likely someone will bring up the race argument ("So did you think that rights for African-Americans were misplaced too"?). Such a response, in the negative, would be a ridiculous response.

Your question is not a question for debate, it's a trap because either way the question is answered, you're able to feel superior in your response.

Let's frame the issue with a more narrowly-drawn question, shall we? Do people believe that the right of marriage with a person of the same-sex should be legalized? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 5:02 PM:

" Aimee, reading my last post, I realize that I am, perhaps, being unfair. I am simply assuming that you are a hateful bigot because you freely quote from a hateful bigot's website.

If you do not, in fact, share Randy Thomasson's religion of prejudice, I do wish to give you the opportunity to clarify.

-Leonard "

Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 4:54 PM:

" Brian wrote on Oct 17, 2009 4:20 PM:
" What's wrong Leonard? You losing your edge?


Nope.

Why? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 4:53 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 4:46 PM:
" Leonard: The ONLY way it would matter just WHERE I got the information from is if the supposed militant homophobe you speak of distorted and mis-quoted material from the book in question. If this material is not mistquoted nor distorted, I challenge you to provide a reason why it matters WHO quoted it and WHAT site it came from.


Aimee, my objection is as follows. By not attributing the work you were citing you gave the impression that you had read the books and thus were someone with an actual familiarity with the events and circumstances surrounding the man's life, instead of simply being a hateful bigot who surfs homophobe websites.

I thought that was an important distinction that ought to be made. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 17, 2009 4:52 PM:

" Gator: So you respect a highly decorated Lt. Col. F-15 pilot for his actions is Iraq, but you wouldn't vote for that same person to be able to marry the one he loves? If so, then that is some twisted thinking. This man can put his life on the line for his country, but can't get married? INSANE! "

Aimee wrote on Oct 17, 2009 4:46 PM:

" Leonard: The ONLY way it would matter just WHERE I got the information from is if the supposed militant homophobe you speak of distorted and mis-quoted material from the book in question. If this material is not mistquoted nor distorted, I challenge you to provide a reason why it matters WHO quoted it and WHAT site it came from.

If I quoted an opinion or an observation from someone of this calibre (who was extremely opposed to homosexuality), I could understand one's concern over where and who it came from. As it is, Randy Shilts was also considered a pioneer in the gay community and his book regarding Milk was a favorable portrait.

Your turn. "

Cogito wrote on Oct 17, 2009 3:18 PM:

" Leonard, once again, I agree 100%. Milk moved to San Francisco from New York to be with like minded individuals. He represented them as who he was, which is commendable. But not on a scale, or for the duration necessary to have a holiday in his name. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 17, 2009 2:24 PM:

" Cogito wrote on Oct 17, 2009 10:29 AM:
" If it were'nt for Dan White, Harvey Milk would just be another gay supervisor, in a long list of gay supervisors from San Francisco, that no one would have ever heard of outside the city limits. Yawn. being a gay rights activist in san francisco is like being an African American activist in Harlem. You can't swing a dead cat..... "


Well, he would be the first in a long list but I think your point is a fair one.

There has to be a certain threshold of significance for a person to have their own holiday and I simply don't think Milk has that significance. "

Cogito wrote on Oct 17, 2009 12:19 PM:

" I think it should be put on a ballot "who made a larger contribution to the state of California and to the country, Ronald Reagan, or Harvey Milk". Then let the citizens decide. Milk before Reagan? It's an absurd joke! "

Gator wrote on Oct 17, 2009 12:13 PM:

" While I do not support Gay marriage, never will, I have no problem with Gays in the Military. Most other countries allow Gays in the military. The exception being the
Armies of Islam. As I have stated before a Lt.Col F-15 pilot highly decorated for
actions in Iraq Stationed at Mountain Home AFB in Idaho is to be bounced out right about Now. repeating my self one more time I don’t believe the Marine Grunts whose Lives he Saved would have given a flying F*** if they found out he was Gay. If they were in the same fix do you suppose they would request a straight pilot? No way in hell…. "

Cogito wrote on Oct 17, 2009 11:44 AM:

" "like" not lie. Freudian slip. "

Cogito wrote on Oct 17, 2009 11:43 AM:

" Voter, was calling me ignorant on the life and times of Harvey Milk supposed to be an insult? LOL! Unlike you, I try not to fill my mind up with insignificant crap like that. That would be a positive sign of proper cognitive prioritization. Obama is just using him lie he used Rev. Wright. It's a way to secure more votes fot the narcissist. "

lodivice wrote on Oct 17, 2009 10:30 AM:

" I Don't Drink Milk!!!! I Do Like Cheese. "

Cogito wrote on Oct 17, 2009 10:29 AM:

" If it were'nt for Dan White, Harvey Milk would just be another gay supervisor, in a long list of gay supervisors from San Francisco, that no one would have ever heard of outside the city limits. Yawn. being a gay rights activist in san francisco is like being an African American activist in Harlem. You can't swing a dead cat..... "

Gator wrote on Oct 17, 2009 10:28 AM:

" Voter, you claim to be a know all on the Gay issue. Right?? Well the Gay marriage prop.
was defeated by people of color [i.e.] Latinos , Blacks and Arabic.. It was kept close by
young white voters. Those days are numbered as California whites become a minority.
Soon the shoe will be on the other foot. Less than five years 51/49 % that should prove
To be very interesting…. "

voter wrote on Oct 17, 2009 9:46 AM:

" Rosa Parks was not a Californian. She sat down on a bus in Alabama.

You know nothing of Harvey Milk's contribution to the civil rights movement. Not much about any history at all, for that matter. Ignorant and proud of it. Yay, Cog. "

Cogito wrote on Oct 17, 2009 9:31 AM:

" In light of the recent Nobel Peace Prize recipient having done pretty much nil to earn the accolade, why not give Milk a holiday. Because, you know how groundbreaking it is to be an openly gay person in San Francisco. That way the government employees have a reason to stay home and do nothing all day, instead of having to drive to work to do nothing all day. Milks contributions to making all of America a better place to live aren't even a blip on the historical radar. There are many, I'm sure, who are more deserving. Why not Rosa Parks? "

Brian wrote on Oct 17, 2009 8:32 AM:

" voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:26 PM:

" Over a hundred posts, and still none of the homophobes will answer my question.

Dishonest cowards. "

-Advancing this rationale, one could conclude that voter thinks the majority of Americans are dishonest cowards. "

Brian wrote on Oct 17, 2009 8:01 AM:

" Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:34 PM:

" ordinarycitizen wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:29 PM:

But isn't that exactly what the liberal homosexuals are themselves? Intolerant to any other belief or lifestyle other than their own?

Indeed! Witness the massive homosexual campaign to make straight marriage illegal. "

-And you won't Leonard. Straight marriage, unlike gay marriage, is moral.
Even many gays don't endorse gay marriage because homosexual sex is still immoral after they marry. "

bobbyg wrote on Oct 16, 2009 11:08 PM:

" Just want to clear up a couple of things.
1) Dont confuse Conservatism and Theocrasism they are not the same. In the past 10-14 years the Theocrats tried to and seem to have taken over the Republican Party and are now calling themselves conservatives.

2) AIDS is a disease of all people, it is not a gay disease. The fastest growing populations of HIV infections are heterosexual people over 65 (including nursing homes) and those 14-23. Which I believe goes to show that abstinenceteachings arent working to prevent STD's

3) some people keep mentioning the "Quilt" as if they think that only gay people have a piece of the quilt. Again its a disease of all sexualities and there are many straight people whose families have made a section of the quilt for their loved one who died a painful and horrific death.

Many people have questionable past. Some people question age of consent, Hugh Heffner is much older and dates barely legal young women, but you talk about Milk dating younger men. Is there a double standard? Where was the allege incident? was it legal there? Think before you speak, says this Gay Republican "

Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:34 PM:

" ordinarycitizen wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:29 PM:

But isn't that exactly what the liberal homosexuals are themselves? Intolerant to any other belief or lifestyle other than their own?


Indeed! Witness the massive homosexual campaign to make straight marriage illegal. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:32 PM:

" ordinarycitizen wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:23 PM:

A black person couldn't even talk to a white person.


They couldn't marry a white person either.

Oh! Wait, that is kind of like..... "

ordinarycitizen wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:29 PM:

" So to compare the two is like comparing apples to oranges. And another thing that really bugs me is, if a person disagrees with the homosexual lifestyle and agendas, then we are labeled bigots and homophobes. As I said, my brother was gay as was my BIL and I loved them both very much. I am not a hater. I can agree to disagree without there being one shred of homophobia in my thinking. The one thing I have noticed is that if I happen to disagree with a homosexual view or law, than I am labeled as ignorant, hater, bigot, homophobe, intolerant. But isn't that exactly what the liberal homosexuals are themselves? Intolerant to any other belief or lifestyle other than their own? So, wouldn't that make you an intolerant Christian hating heterophobe hater bigot too? Putting Harvey Milk on the same level as MLK or other civil rights leaders is rediculous. Putting a person's lifestyle and lifestyle choices on the same level and then saying their civil rights are being denied is just plain wrong, and if both brothers were alive today, they would tell you the same. Neither one believed in gay marriage and both were gay. "

ordinarycitizen wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:23 PM:

" First of all, my brother was gay, as was my husband's brother - both died of AIDS. Both of our brothers had every civil right afforded them because they lived in America. Marriage is not a civil right. Marriage is a priviledge and a choice. Not everybody chooses marriage. There are plenty of people who choose to remain single their entire lifetime. Marriage is a choice and a priviledge. And marriages are performed according to customs and religious ceremonies and time honored traditions, none of which have to do with civil rights. It's a lie that civil rights are being violated if a gay person can't marry. And to say that a gay person's civil rights are being violated if they can't marry is tantamount to that of a black person is sheer lunacy. A gay person has the right to free speech, freedom of religion, freedom of the press, freedom to ride in the front or back of the bus. Freedom to use the same bathrooms and sit in the same restaurants, etc. Whereas a black person couldn't be or go anywhere a white person went to. A black person couldn't even talk to a white person. "

Gator wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:50 PM:

" Lets face facts voter unprotected sex is at the fore front of aids along with dirty needles
In Africa wearing protection was scoffed at and still is. Aids ran wild in the San Francisco Gay community till they began to practice safe sex. They saw the light and the
Incidence of aids slowed. You can’t stop it all as there a lot of stupid people out there.
As for the Military, no problem. We have a highly decorated F-15 pilot whose about to be tossed out because he’s gay. I don’t think those Marine grunts whose lives he saved gave a S**t that he was gay…Marriage, that will never have my support .Funny thing
Voter I know that its support is not anywhere near 100% among gays not even close. They died by the hundreds Voter just remember the Quilt of names.. Do you even know about the quilt???? "

tosh conn wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:50 PM:

" I have been digging thru the Constitution and the Bill of Rights. I cannot find anything that says I have to be tolerant about anything I do not agree with nor support. "

sparky595 wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:44 PM:

" According to the article, 'Teachers will also be encouraged to give lessons on Milk's life'.

I wonder if the schools will allow the parents of children to view the lesson plans prior to them being taught to them. "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:32 PM:

" You are a typical Liberal voter. If someone doesn't agree with YOU, you go on into vicious attack mode. A-Typical Liberal. You kept begging on your hands and knees for someone to respond to your question, and were ready to attack anyone who didn't respond "Exactly how you wanted them to. Pathetic liberal." So sad, too bad! Obama will give the Gays EVERYTHING they want but my question simply put is this: When 2 gay men marry "Who is the "WIFE"? It will be so confusing to us Straight folks! "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:46 PM:

" Oh Sparkly One, open a dictionary. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:43 PM:

" And just an FYI Gator, I don't know of any human being who has chosen to contract HIV-AIDS. Most who are currently infected did not engage in any risky behavior. Read up on the situation in Africa. "

sparky595 wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:42 PM:

" Voter wrote:

'Your argument is lame.'

It wasn't an argument. It was my opinion and MY belief system. You are a typical Liberal. If someone doesn't agree with YOU, you go on into vicious attack mode. A-Typical Liberal. You kept begging on your hands and knees for someone to respond to your question, and were ready to attack anyone who didn't respond exactly how you wanted them to. Pathetic liberal. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:39 PM:

" Glad to hear it, Gator. It's nice to know that you support same-sex marriage, gays serving openly in the military, and equal protection under the law. "

Gator wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:37 PM:

" Geewhiz voter I don’t believe I said what your vile bile says. Read it again and see if it
Sinks in. Not one of my post mentioned civil rights or denial of them, that is against the
Law. Lets take an other example a person drinks themselves to death, do I have sympathy
“NO” same goes for a straight person who ODS’s on Heroin, Cry me a river… Their choice to bad so sad. Life is a choice make the right ones you survive.. Make the wrong ones your life will be a living hell. Some Just shorter than others.. That doesn’t do it for
you TS… "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:37 PM:

" So spark-less, you are acknowledging that you think some law abiding citizens should be denied civil rights?

Your argument is lame. Lots of straight people make crap parents and you know it. "

sparky595 wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:30 PM:

" I don't care if men want to be with men and women want to be with women. Live together, sleep together, share life until death together. However, my personal belief is that marriage should be between a man and woman. I believe that 2 men or 2 women can raise a child with plenty of love. However, my personal belief is that a mother and father figure in the home is the best situation for any child. That is why a man cannot impregnate another man, and a woman cannot impregnate another woman.

Once again, this is just my opinion, which I do share with many others. I hope I didn't offend the gays demanding answers to their questions here. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:17 PM:

" Behold. Exhibit A. "

sparky595 wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:16 PM:

" Hey Leonard, is it true that everything is bigger in Texas? "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:15 PM:

" Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:55 PM:
" They say the worst homophobes are often closeted homosexuals themselves."

We've certainly seen ample evidence of that right here on this website. As for the rest? Sexually repressed and unfulfilled at the very least. Pretty sad when you think about it.

Guys, stop obsessing about what other adults are doing behind closed doors. It's adolescent. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:55 PM:

" They say the worst homophobes are often closeted homosexuals themselves.

With that in mind, this blog seems to suggest that a plucky entrepreneur could make a pretty penny by opening a gay bar in Lodi. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:26 PM:

" Over a hundred posts, and still none of the homophobes will answer my question.

Dishonest cowards. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:22 PM:

" What's your point, Gator? Not only do you believe that people with chronic/terminal illness do not deserve civil rights, but other members of the same minority group should be denied as well? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:18 PM:

" Ooops.

As I read on I see that I was mistaken. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:18 PM:

" T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:31 PM:
" Hi Leonard!

I must agree with you on this one.

A SMALL statue in San Francisco would have been enough! But the gay movement I believe will demand a 20 foot statue in Washington D.C.! "


Congratulations T&C. You can disagree with the concept without launching yourself into an orgasm of hatred, prejudice and toxic bile. "

Gator wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:18 PM:

" Voter, Gays alone didn’t spread aids but in the early days it spread like wild fire in the gay community. All one has to do is remember the “Names Quilt” and add that to the
fact there were plenty of needle jockeys in the community. The Genie was out of the
bottle… I had two friends who I worked with and both lost young men to aids. Both
lived in the Castro. It very nearly destroyed their parents…It’s to bad Milk died the
way he did, no one deserves that. But that is where My sympathy ends… "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:15 PM:

" Scrutiny, do you seriously believe that civil rights should be based on a person's sex life? Cuz I know some straight people doin' some damn kinky stuff. You want to put a camera in everyone's bedroom? You guys who are so fixated on what other people do behind closed doors need help for your arrested development. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:11 PM:

" Your statement is too stupid to believe, Scrutiny--it's beyond ignorant, beyond hateful. It's plain old fashioned Stupid. Go back and read my 9:55 post. "

Scrutiny wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:06 PM:

" voter/homoguy; Gays HAVE equal rights now! You guys want SPECIAL rights! You people want everybody to bow before you and say that men having anal sex with each other is good...not gonna happen big boy! "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:03 PM:

" Sparkles, go back and read my 9:55 post, for starters. "

Gator wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:02 PM:

" Leonard I just made a harsh point to say one is as ridicules as the other. I don’t feel Milk
has any acknowledgement coming. Then that’s just me. Maybe I’m just cranky because
I have 3 days left in Lodi…. "

sparky595 wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:02 PM:

" I guess I'm not to privy to the gay community, so maybe you can answer this for me voter. Which of the 'equal rights' are the gay community excluded from? "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:59 PM:

" Hey there, sparkly one. How about you man up and answer my question? "

sparky595 wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:59 PM:

" T & C, I guess your statement wasn't so ignorant after all. I must warn you though....you are going to confuse the liberals with real stories and facts. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:51 PM:

" And . . . ??????
What are you trying to imply? That all homosexuals have AIDS and are purposefully spreading it? Or that ONLY homosexuals have AIDS? What sort of ignorant bigotry are we dealing with here?

And you still won't answer my question!

(We all know that if you answer it honestly, you'll be confirming your bigotry.) "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:46 PM:

" "NEW YORK -- Reflecting a growing frustration and fear about AIDS, legislators around the country are passing an increasing number of laws intended to protect the public.

This latest wave of legislation shifts the focus from earlier laws that protected the civil liberties of HIV-infected people to laws that seek to identify, notify and in some cases punish people who intentionally place others at risk of contracting the virus. At least 29 states now make it a crime to knowingly transmit or expose others to HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, with a third of those states enacting laws within the last two years. This year alone, 16 state legislatures, including New York, introduced such bills."

http://www.ph.ucla.edu/epi/seaids/seaaids_53.html "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:43 PM:

" voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:39 PM:
" Still, not a single one of the homophobes/bigots will answer the question I posted this morning: Are you opposed to affording equal rights to all law abiding citizens? "

For your information... "It is illegal in many cities if not States to "Knowingly infect someone with Aides! That doesn't sound very "Law Abiding to me"! "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:40 PM:

" Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:17 PM:
" Aimee, in the interest of disclosure, don't you think you should mention that you are cutting and pasting this stuff from Randy Thomasson's militantly homophobic website?

Oh I just love the "Militant website slant", lol! The truth hurts doesn't it? "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:39 PM:

" Still, not a single one of the homophobes/bigots will answer the question I posted this morning: Are you opposed to affording equal rights to all law abiding citizens? "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:38 PM:

" Come on Aimee... those wanting the Gay agenda to be the norm from Coast to Coast... "Does not" want to be made to look at the "Sexual escapades" of who they admire and wish they were like. He was NOT a leader, sorry! "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:35 PM:

" voter ... anyone who disagrees with you seems to be labeled a bigot!

My sympathies! "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:31 PM:

" Hi Leonard!

I must agree with you on this one.

A SMALL statue in San Francisco would have been enough! But the gay movement I believe will demand a 20 foot statue in Washington D.C.! "

dogs4you wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:29 PM:

" The winner of an Olympic event was given his reward by the Emperor in the same manner as Milk and his lover did, for some they really haven`t progressed that far. I`ll take second place.

Hey L, if this Milk joke goes through, how`s the weather in Austin this time of year. "

Bob Hussein Loblaw wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:25 PM:

" ...and for all of the posters pointing out Milk's flaws, I defy you to name any public figure without them. You can start with Franklin's pedophilia and Jefferson's slave ownership and go from there. "

Bob Hussein Loblaw wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:23 PM:

" I have no doubt that if Harvey Milk Day ever became a state holiday, all these Lodi homophobes/hypocrites would have no problem taking the day off. "

sparky595 wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:20 PM:

" Harvey Milk said:

'There's no reason why you can't love more than one person at a time.'

Is that going to be part of the lesson plan on Harvey Milk Day? That's a pretty good way to spread diseases like AIDS, isn't it?

Yeah, lets celebrate this guy. I'm sure we couldn't find any other fine Americans to give a day to, huh? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:17 PM:

" Aimee, in the interest of disclosure, don't you think you should mention that you are cutting and pasting this stuff from Randy Thomasson's militantly homophobic website?

I mean, just to let people know where your mind is on this issue? "

Aimee wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:03 PM:

" Leonard;

That we're obviously much more advanced than they are. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 16, 2009 6:00 PM:

" Explaining Milk's many flings and affairs with teenagers and young men, Randy Shilts writes how Milk told one "lover" why it was OK for him to also have multiple relationships simultaneously:

"As homosexuals, we can't depend on the heterosexual model...We grow up with the heterosexual model, but we don't have to follow it. We should be developing our own life-style. There's no reason why you can't love more than one person at a time. You don't have to love them all the same. You love some less, love some more -- and always be honest with everybody about where you're at. They in turn can do the same thing and it can open up a bigger sphere." (pages 237-238) "

Aimee wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:59 PM:

" voter asked for proof of Milk's character. Well, here you are:

Randy Shilts, a homosexual San Francisco Chronicle reporter, wrote a favorable and sordid biography of Milk in "The Mayor of Castro Street." The 1982 book detailed Milk's sexual relationships with a 16-year-old, a 19-year-old and other young men:

"...sixteen-year-old McKinley was looking for some kind of father figure...At 33, Milk was launching a new life, though he could hardly have imagined the unlikely direction toward which his new lover would pull him." (pages 30-31)

"It would be to boyish-looking men in their late teens and early 20's that Milk would be attracted for the rest of his life." (page 24) "

Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:39 PM:

" Aimee wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:38 PM:
" Even Rome, with all their foibles and approval of some reprhensible things (such as sex with children), did not embrace the idea of gay couples marrying and having children.


They didn't abolish slavery, either.

Your point? "

Aimee wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:38 PM:

" Even Rome, with all their foibles and approval of some reprhensible things (such as sex with children), did not embrace the idea of gay couples marrying and having children.

Ah, but then we're so much more advanced than they were, aren't we? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:35 PM:

" Gator wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:30 PM:
" If Milk day comes to pass then how about a Ted Bundy day?


Gator, that is simply an ugly remark. Normally you are a very funny guy but apparently today you are off your feed in a very unfortunate way.

:( "

Gator wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:30 PM:

" If Milk day comes to pass then how about a Ted Bundy day??? "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:26 PM:

" Wow. I was out all day and it looks like the bigots have been having a party. Good God, people, could you be any more ignorant and hateful? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:25 PM:

" veritas wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:10 PM:
" OOOooo....Leonard....Knowing Harvey's biography, I dont think a statue would be a good idea....Unlike a Civil War General, he wouldn't be mounted on a horse. "


I suppose the same could be said about Benjamin Franklin and yet I have seen many Franklin statues and, indeed, his image even appears on currency. "

Billy Rubin wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:16 PM:

" LOL @ all the usual suspects, the ignorant Lodi homophobes just itching for the next opportunity to bash away. "

LodiFreeThinker wrote on Oct 16, 2009 4:54 PM:

" T & C said "It is obvious gay people are "NOT TOLERANT""

First of all, you're generalizing. Like if I said, "It is obvious Christians are tired old bats clinging to their medieval ideas."
I mean, it wouldn't be fair for me to say that description applied to all of them. Just the ones I seem to run across.

Second, why should anyone be tolerant of bigotry and discrimination? "

LodiFreeThinker wrote on Oct 16, 2009 4:41 PM:

" From the article: "...it is unclear whether teachers who decide to observe Milk on the set-aside day would be protected if their respective district decided not to adopt an official observation or curriculum to go with it."

Protected? From what?

Is the author inferring that there would be a penalty of some sort if a teacher decided to recognize the day?

Isn't the state encouraging teachers to do just that? "

Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 4:35 PM:

" To be honest, I don't really favor Milk Day. Milk's achievements on a local level may have been significant but they just are not in the same league as a Washington, a Lincoln or a King.

Maybe a statue somewhere might be more suitable. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 16, 2009 4:32 PM:

" sparky595 wrote on Oct 16, 2009 3:38 PM:
" I am sure that the liberals wouldn't want a 'Rush Limbaugh day' in the schools.


A day honoring gluttony? "

LodiFreeThinker wrote on Oct 16, 2009 4:29 PM:

" kidsalami wrote on Oct 16, 2009 1:22 PM
"It's funny how liberals believe in freedom of speech until they don't agree with you, then they use words like, "ignorant". "

If you make statements indicating your ignorance, people will call you ignorant. It has nothing to do with free speech. "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 4:29 PM:

" Obviously because the Gay Agenda over and over fights these Million dollar lawsuits to "Have it their way, or else"... It is obvious gay people are "NOT TOLERANT"... even thru Court decisions, GEEZ!

The great thing about our country is that we can all agree to disagree. "

barelykim wrote on Oct 16, 2009 4:15 PM:

" Sometimes I'm just confused. I consider myself to be a very tolerant person. But the other day I was driving behind a car with all these stickers that would indicate it was a gay person's car. One even said "Let me give it to you straight, I'm not". And it didn't bother me, its just that I realized that if I put something on my car that made a big deal out of my being straight, it would probably be keyed by the end of the day. I don't have a problem with being tolerant. I do have a problem with always having to be the one who is told I should be tolerant. "

sparky595 wrote on Oct 16, 2009 3:38 PM:

" I am sure that the liberals wouldn't want a 'Rush Limbaugh day' in the schools. You know, to teach the children about how he has helped many fine Americans to become more aware of conservatism. How about a paid holiday for that, Lodian.

I mean if we are going to let public schools teach our children about homosexuality, conservatism shouldn't be a problem, should it? "

jnds wrote on Oct 16, 2009 3:36 PM:

" Kidsalami....did you really just compare gay activists to Nazis??? Ironic considering the Nazis murdered homosexuals. Great example of your ignorance. Thata' boy! "

jnds wrote on Oct 16, 2009 3:28 PM:

" I am ALL for a Harvey Milk day and educating children about those who fight for civil rights. The oppressed freeing themselves! It is easy for the majority to discriminate about the minorities in our country b/c many have never been in such a position. "

sparky595 wrote on Oct 16, 2009 3:19 PM:

" Good point, gray cloud. "

gray cloud wrote on Oct 16, 2009 2:45 PM:

" Mark the date and celebrate by keeping your children home from school and do something educational. "

kidsalami wrote on Oct 16, 2009 2:44 PM:

" Iambic: I feel sad for you to go straight to the throat of Christianity. The same groups who are trying to stop Christianity are the same groups trying to promote homosexuality. The gay-activists appear to be part of the new NAZI party. Brain Washing has been disguised as Diversity Training. This is a much bigger issue than just honoring a man. Christianity allows forgiveness and hope, not bitterness and hate. If you take Christianity out of it, even tribes who did not know God still did not usually openly participate in homosexuality (However, there are some tribes who participated in it). But, comparatively to our society, it was in the minority. "

Scrutiny wrote on Oct 16, 2009 2:44 PM:

" Bi-guy and Lodian, it is totally legal for you to have sex with whatever human, farm animal or watermelon you choose. But please do not force me or my kids to respect anything about Harvey Milk, he deserves no such honor as a "day of recognition". I used to respect Schwarzenegger for trying to bring some sense to the state, no more... "

dogs4you wrote on Oct 16, 2009 2:31 PM:

" Yawn "

deblaw wrote on Oct 16, 2009 2:17 PM:

" iambic grape stomp
NOT! "

iambic grape stomp wrote on Oct 16, 2009 2:14 PM:

" LEGALIZE GAY! "

iambic grape stomp wrote on Oct 16, 2009 2:13 PM:

" laws and social rules are two different things, kid, and it wafts of hypocrisy to hear you talk about "oppressive bullies." besides, same-sex couples holding hands is barely "cramming it down your throat." by these standards, people wearing crosses are “cramming” Christianity down the throats of others. "

kidsalami wrote on Oct 16, 2009 2:00 PM:

" Deblaw: I already covered those issues and more on early posts below. "

kidsalami wrote on Oct 16, 2009 1:59 PM:

" No. If you violate a social rule, you should be ready to accept the consequences. If someone molests a child, they are posted on Megan's Law. If I play my stereo loud after 10 p.m., I will get a visit from the police due to complaining neighbors. There need to be limits and consequences, otherwise there is total anarchy. Based on the argument that there is a level of discomfort everyone must live with, I have the right to reject an oppressive bully. Discomfort in a community is not cutting your grass on time and being a Dodgers fan when I like the Giants. Not, an entire social agenda. "

deblaw wrote on Oct 16, 2009 1:51 PM:

" Ahmen Kidsalami.

In my opinion, gay is a perversion.

libs can talk and talk, but, will never change my point of view.

Because I have morals I am ignorant? I don't think so... and I won't sit stand by and have it forced down my throat or my childs... "

iambic grape stomp wrote on Oct 16, 2009 1:39 PM:

" kidsalami: aside from how offensive your 1:22 post was, don't you think that there is a level of discomfort everyone must live with if they are to reside within any community? "

kidsalami wrote on Oct 16, 2009 1:22 PM:

" It's funny how liberals believe in freedom of speech until they don't agree with you, then they use words like, "ignorant". It's ignorant to force people to accept something that is not normal and not accepted, except through law suits and name calling like, "ignorant". It's very uncomfortable to see two women hold hands who look like John Lennon. AIDS was spread mostly by homosexuals and drug abusers as well. It's not the AIDS that kills them, it's the HIV virus killing the immune system, and it could be any type of illness that ends up killing them. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 16, 2009 1:07 PM:

" iambic grape stomp wrote "Do you have any idea--even an inkling--how flawed your thinking is on this issue?"

iambic grape stomp: T & C is ignorant on many topics. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 16, 2009 1:05 PM:

" Scrutiny wrote "I can see it now, during the next contract negotiations the SEIU will want Harvey Milk Day as a paid holiday..."


And the problem is...??? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 16, 2009 1:03 PM:

" Voter wrote Oct 16 @ 7am "He fought for civil rights and fair treatment of all human beings"


Well said, Voter! "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Oct 16, 2009 12:23 PM:

" Oh and what about all the gay, lesbian, and transgendered children in our schools? This shows them that anyone can be anything they want to be if they try hard enough. It shows them they are not different they are not "freaks" and they are just as valued as the rest of the people in the world. "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Oct 16, 2009 12:09 PM:

" Wow the ignorance here is just amazing. And I haven't even read 1/2 of the posts. Children get AIDS, heterosexual people get AIDS, and gay people are not the cause of that. It's not about teaching them to "be gay" it's about the rights of your fellow human beings being made equal. He was a fighter for that, he was the first openly gay person to be elected to public office. That is the importance. Grow up people. "

iambic grape stomp wrote on Oct 16, 2009 12:09 PM:

" Your mode of fear is irrational and outdated. "

max stanfield wrote on Oct 16, 2009 12:07 PM:

" His complete life story is putrid and sordid. What a pitiful recognition. "

iambic grape stomp wrote on Oct 16, 2009 12:06 PM:

" Fine, deblaw: H1N1; Herpes; The common cold. It's your thinking that is flawed, not the analogy. It's like blaming Europe for the existence of bubonic plague or syphilis. "

deblaw wrote on Oct 16, 2009 12:03 PM:

" iambic grape stomp..

Your statement is just as flawed.. Cancer is not a contagious disease, AIDS is and has been spread throughout the US by the gays and to the hetrosexauls... "

iambic grape stomp wrote on Oct 16, 2009 11:43 AM:

" T&C, AIDS kills people no matter what their sexual orientation. Are you going to blame heterosexuls for cancer? Your logic follows suit. Do you have any idea--even an inkling--how flawed your thinking is on this issue? "

deblaw wrote on Oct 16, 2009 11:42 AM:

" T & C.. I don't know how many times the statement was made from the anti-prop 8 group "Homosexuality will not taught to our children".. One of many lies in their agenda!

This gives parents no option. "

jeff wrote on Oct 16, 2009 11:13 AM:

" wow. lodi rocks. "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 11:11 AM:

" ""Harvey Milk Day" will not be a formal state holiday, so government employees will not be given the day off. The bill instead calls for the day to be observed by public schools as a day of special significance."

The Gay agenda nationwide is to Force the Government to make "MILK DAY" a "PAID HOLIDAY" so they can all have the day off to party!

How sad! "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 11:08 AM:

" voter I will put you to the test... to back up what you said:

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:55 AM:
"They are denied more than a thousand federal protections that marriage conveys."

Take all the time in the world voter... what are these 1,000 things that gays are not allowed to do under federal law?"

Fact:

"The first recorded case of this new disease in America was in March 1980. "Nick," a young gay man living on Fire Island, New York, went to see his doctor and complained of a strange illness."

http://www.web-articles.info/e/a/title/Gay-people-and-AIDS/ "

iambic grape stomp wrote on Oct 16, 2009 11:07 AM:

" Certainly the last thing we need to teach our children is tolerance and acceptance for those different from them. Here's to bigotry and ignorance! "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 11:02 AM:

" voter... "If gays would KEEP THEIR BEHAVIOR" in the bedroom, more folks might be tolerable of "VERY RISKY Behavior" that is directly linked to AIDS! But they don't! In many cases they flaunt it in our faces and when we "Complain" they cry out "Discrimination! BOO HOO!

I would be ashamed if I was "Forced to bunk with, and use SHOWER facilities with a "Gawking Gay man"! But Obama and Arnold have a plan and many do not like it, still it is being forced down our throats! Leave the children out of the GAY & Lesbian picture! They have enough Hormonal challenges to cope with , without being brainwashed into thinking "GAY IS COOL in SCHOOL"! "

Scrutiny wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:59 AM:

" I can see it now, during the next contract negotiations the SEIU will want Harvey Milk Day as a paid holiday, It wouldn`t surprise me if they`d rather give up Christmas in exchange!! "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:56 AM:

" A parent must be very concerned when what is stated or suggested is...

"Teachers will be encouraged to conduct exercises recalling Milk's life and contributions to the state."

MILK was a homosexual, period! Exactly what "Exercises are students supposed to be encouraged to do?" "

Scrutiny wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:56 AM:

" The only day of the year that it might be appropriate to commemorate Milk would be April 1st! Or maybe October 31st since that is akin to a City Holiday in Frisco! "

kidsalami wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:53 AM:

" Divorce is too easy. Children are the victims in it all. If someone is mating with the same sex, how can the human race go on? Should these people who defy nature reproduce through artificial insemination or adopt, when they have their own issues they have not worked through? Homosexuality was a mental disorder until special interest groups got a hold of the APA and chaned the DSMIV through lawsuits, and pro-homosexual agendas on that board. It is not natural, the same as divorce. If people want to have sex and reporduce, they should work their marital differences out and suck it up. The child did not ask to be born. Marriage between a man and woman is normal, not man and man, or woman and woman. "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:51 AM:

" T "Force" children to recognize the "So called ACHIEVEMENTS" of 1 HOMOSEXUAL MAN" to "impressionable minds" is very wrong! It is up to the parents to open the topic of Sex, and I doubt that includes "Flaunting Homosexuality"!

If you are so for rights voter than think of my rights as a parent to educate my child about homosexuality.
I have no rights here about opting out we are being forced to learn about a deviant character of society and homosexuality. " "

Neo wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:25 AM:

" It is a disgrace upon all Californians that Milk gets a day of "honor" before one of the greatest Presidents in US history, Ronald Reagan. "

Gator wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:24 AM:

" It looks like America is getting more
and more like Ancient Rome.No doubt it
will end up the same way... "

deblaw wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:18 AM:

" voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:27 AM:

" And please tell me how homosexuality "destroys families."

Voter, this is kind of ironic.. Gays can't have families.. so in a sense, families will be eliminated in the future! "

deblaw wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:13 AM:

" Harvey Milk is know for getting gunned down along with Mayor Mosconi..

Why not a Mosconi day?

This is disgusting.... "

tosh conn wrote on Oct 16, 2009 10:09 AM:

" This recognition is as needed and useful as a giant zit on prom night. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:58 AM:

" kidsalami wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:52 AM:
" It destroys families by getting married, then deciding or knowing they are gay. Then the children are the victims with no intact family."

Then you are you opposed to divorce for straight couples? "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:55 AM:

" Kidsalami, gays are not afforded the same rights as the rest of us. They can be denied employment and housing based on their sexual orientation alone. They can't marry in most states. In those where they can, they are denied more than a thousand federal protections that marriage conveys due to the Defense of Marriage Act. Gays can not serve openly in the military and their partners so not receive the benefits that other solidiers' families have a right to. They can not adopt children in many states. Should I go on? How could you think this was not a civil rights issue? "

kidsalami wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:52 AM:

" It destroys families by getting married, then deciding or knowing they are gay. Then the children are the victims with no intact family. It confuses children even more, which results in their own mental health issues. This issue would have been laughed at 25 years ago, but now it's legitimate. What will stop men from wanting to marry boys (NAMBLA), or marrying an animal? It's laughable now, but crazy ideas like this are gaining strength once the homosexual brainwashing loses the ability to gain money from law suits. Based on arguments, these ideas are plausible. Where does the insanity stop? "

kidsalami wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:47 AM:

" How have homosexuals been denied civil rights? They vote, they can buy property, they have access to public utilities, can marry in some states, and have their own discounts and tv channels which reverse discrimination. Unlike blacks who were not considered a full person, could not vote, could not buy property, etc. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:27 AM:

" And please tell me how homosexuality "destroys families." "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:26 AM:

" Kidsalami, is it your belief that homosexuals should not be afforded civil rights? "

kidsalami wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:20 AM:

" Only California would prioritize man-love and women who hate men for our children over education. Why should we only see the side that promotes homosexuality than the reality that it destroys families, confused children, and detours from morals. I hate it how homosexuals have piggy-backed on the civil-rights bandwagon when it's not the same thing. Civil rights was about people, not a life-style. Parents should keep their kids home from public school on this day. Or, start home-schooling. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:08 AM:

" hockeymommy wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:48 AM:
" Please remember the point though this isn't about gays this about Harvey Milk.
He is not the type of person we should celebrate. "

Many people still feel this way about Martin Luther King. It's bigotry, plain and simple. Please post a source for your claims regarding Harvey Milk. "

barelykim wrote on Oct 16, 2009 9:05 AM:

" I agree that those who champion for civil rights should be honored and their legacies protected. Having said that, if Milk had been straight, I don't know where he would have ranked. And if Sean Penn hadn't have made a movie about him...most would be saying Harvey Who? "

hockeymommy wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:48 AM:

" Please remember the point though this isn't about gays this about Harvey Milk.
He is not the type of person we should celebrate. "

hockeymommy wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:47 AM:

" In response to voter's comments.
Putting Harvey Milk on the same level as Susan B Anthony or Martin Luther King is a terrible injustice. Did Susan B or Martin Luther have sexual relations with underaged children, lie to get ahead, support cults, or advocate multiple sexual partners? This is not about the movemenet this is about Harvey Milk and the unscrupulous character he was.

More importantly this is about parental rights. Isn't it my right/job as a parent to discuss homosexuality with my children and to determine when the best time for such a discussion to exsist. You don't need to worry about being treated unequally by my five year old daughter. The equality discussion I agree is an important one, however should be taking place at higher grade levels, and with parental permission. The same type of permission that is required for our children to take sex ed classes.


If you are so for rights voter than think of my rights as a parent to educate my child about homosexuality.
I have no rights here about opting out we are being forced to learn about a deviant character of society and homosexuality. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:25 AM:

" Neo, T & C, are you opposed to affording basic civil rights to all law abiding citizens? "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:24 AM:

" Careful what you wish for jramagic! "

T & C wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:23 AM:

" Neo, I agree with you 100%! If exposing children to the "Antics of MILK"... then by all rights squeeze in some learning about "Holmes and Lovelace!"

I hope when they expose the topic of "Gay lifestyle" with children in class that they also teach the risks of Aids and the Gay community!

http://www.thestandard.com.hk/news_detail.asp?we_cat=4&art_id=50106&sid=14705493&con_type=1&d_str=20070730 "

Neo wrote on Oct 16, 2009 8:03 AM:

" Harvey Milk Day?? HAHAHAHA!!!! When`s John Holmes Day? How bout Linda Lovelace Day? If we celebrate one perverts life, we should recognize them all!!!!! Reason N0. 23,469 why California is a basket case! "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:32 AM:

" Mazie, the public schools teach about the various world religions. The Christian God is front and center. "

jramagic wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:29 AM:

" "It is only right to acknowledge these people as fully equal in terms of civil rights. They are human beings just like everybody else." ...Actually- this was the point being debated about "colored" people - and not too very long ago at all!...doesn't it sound absurd now...to even question such? Frankly, I wish we had more gay neighbors like where I used to live. They had the nicest homes and threw the best parties!!!! "

Mazie wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:28 AM:

" How stupid is this? You can't talk about God in school but now you can talk about this? WTF is wrong with this picture? The world is going to Hell. Everything that the Bible spoke against is now acceptable. Soon it will be "cool" to have AIDS. "

iambic grape stomp wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:10 AM:

" Well said, Voter. "

voter wrote on Oct 16, 2009 7:00 AM:

" CLA, are you opposed to the teaching of history? Teaching about the legacy of Harvey Milk is no different than teaching about the legacy of Susan B. Anthony or Martin Luther King. What does sex have to do with it? When we talk about Susan B., we don't say she fought for the rights of women, who by the way have breasts and have sex with men. Harvey Milk is no different than those other two. He fought for civil rights and fair treatment of all human beings. "

CLA wrote on Oct 16, 2009 5:12 AM:

" Why don`t teachers teach reading, writing and math????? Why would people even think to tell someone eles child about any kind of sex in the school system. I just don`t get it.... "

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