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5 victims of rape in 2 weeks

Lodi women report drug-related rapes; police are unsettled

By Layla Bohm
News-Sentinel Staff Writer
Saturday, October 4, 2008 5:59 AM PDT

In a recent two-week span, five young women have reported rapes to Lodi police. Each one was at a local bar before the assault. And each believes that some sort of drug had been slipped into her drink.

It's a trend that unsettles police, who usually see far fewer sexual assault reports. In all of 2007, eight forcible rapes were reported in Lodi, according to FBI statistics.

At least one victim wants to let other women know what can happen, though she was disturbed to learn about the number of such reports.

"I really want to push awareness. This is ridiculous," said the woman, who is being called "Mary" to protect her identity.

At age 26, Mary isn't new to drinking. She knows her limits, and she's also careful not to do something that could harm her future career: She went to a police academy and wants to become a police officer.

In the academy, she even learned about rape reports — how to interview victims and process evidence.

"I didn't really think twice about it; it was just something I needed to learn," Mary said. "Then when you become a victim, it's completely different."

Common date rape drugs

  • GHB, or gamma hydroxybutyric acid, is the most common drug. It can be liquid with no color or smell, in a white powder or a pill. It is legal in the United States because it is used to treat sleeping disorders.
  • Rohypnol is a pill. The manufacturers reformulated it so it turns blue when added to liquids. It is illegal in the U.S. but is legal in Europe and Mexico, where it is used to treat sleeping problems and as an anesthetic.
  • Ketamine is a white powder. It is legal in the U.S. for use as an anesthetic, and is commonly used by veterinarians.
    Source: National Women's Health Information Center at 4woman.gov

    How to get help

  • Contact law enforcement as soon as possible, before showering, changing clothes or urinating. In Lodi, call 333-6727. In Galt, call 366-7000. In unincorporated San Joaquin County, call 468-4400. Or dial 9-1-1.
  • Contact the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network's hotline at (800) 656-HOPE (656-4673). The agency also has a 24-hour online hotline at rainn.org (click on "Get Help").
  • For a local hotline, contact the Women's Center of San Joaquin's 24-hour sexual assault help line at 465-4997.
    — News-Sentinel staff
  • On a recent night, Mary and a friend went to a Lodi bar, where the friend was venting about a past relationship. Meanwhile, Mary's police academy training was still running in the background as she noticed who came and left the bar.

    "I never drink out of a glass; I always drink out of a bottle, but it was dollar-beer night so I was drinking out of a glass," she said.

    They started talking with a couple seated at the bar. Then at some point she and her friend had a shot. She has basically no memory of what happened next.

    "I remember three beers and two shots," Mary said. "I remember waking up at 5:45 with a guy on top of me, not being able to move or say anything. When I came to, I said, 'What the hell just happened? What the hell just happened?' They gave me some BS story about how I was too drunk and I crawled into his bed."

    Mary had never met the man. She found herself in a strange apartment. Some people who lived there gave her a short ride back to the bar, so she knows the apartment wasn't far, but she said she was so distraught and upset that she had no idea where she'd been.

    She later learned that the couple at the bar had given her friend a ride home, and she was not harmed. Her friend had been taking photos all night, and the suspect is likely to appear in the photos, Mary said.

    Mary doesn't remember what happened in the bar and only has those photos to go on. She went to police and is waiting for blood test results to see if a date rape drug is detected. That can take six to eight weeks, said Lodi Police Detective Virginia Elder, who is investigating the rape cases.

    Mary isn't alone.

    Between Sept. 17 and Sept. 30, a total of five women, all in their early to mid-20s, have made similar police reports. It's definitely not normal for Lodi, said Detective Sgt. Tod Patterson.

    Police have seen no links between the women, except for two friends who made a report together. The incidents have happened at more than one bar, so that doesn't narrow down the investigation, either.

    If a date rape drug such as GHB is being used, sometimes the victims don't report the rape fast enough before the drug wears off.

    In one case, the bartender probably should have cut the woman off, since she'd had a lot to drink, Elder said. In another case, the victim said she only had two drinks, and both the bartender and a friend backed the story. And another victim said she was only drinking soda.

    Unless police find a common suspect in the cases, it could just be an unsettling coincidence.

    Regardless of the outcome, though, police, prosecutors and the victims alike want others to know how to protect themselves. In most such incidents, the victims weren't thinking about possibly being drugged when they went out for a few drinks.

    "They're setting down their drinks while going outside to smoke or go to the bathroom. Or someone is giving them a drink instead of getting it directly from the bartender," Elder said.

    Never setting down a drink and making sure it comes straight from the bartender are two ways to avoid drugs. Another safeguard is to make sure you stay with friends who are trustworthy, and that everyone looks out for each other, said Scott Berkowitz, president of the Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network (RAINN).

    There are no solid statistics on the number of rapes committed when the victim is drugged, Berkowitz said. Some numbers are gathered from emergency room admissions, but those are only the cases where extreme amounts of drugs require immediate medical attention.

    In most cases, the victim wakes up and realizes she or he has no idea what happened.

    "Most of the time, they blame themselves and are too embarrassed to call police," Elder said.

    She worries that there could be more than five victims since some never report rapes. But sometimes clues are left behind that can be tied to a suspect, and police encourage all victims to come forward.

    Mary had nothing but good things to say about how officers and detectives handled her case, and she wants others to report such crimes.

    Sometimes it's not too late to detect drugs in the blood. And even if drugs weren't involved, prosecutors can still seek a rape charge, said San Joaquin County Deputy District Attorney Kristine Reed.

    Under California law, someone is guilty of rape if the victim was prevented from resisting because they were under the influence of an intoxicating or anesthetizing substance.

    Sometimes victims don't even know for sure if they were assaulted, but it's always better to get to police as soon as possible, said Reed, who oversees the child abuse and sexual assault unit.

    In Mary's case, she knew something had happened — especially when she awoke in a strange home and had bruising on her chest.

    "Thank God they didn't do anything I couldn't recover from," she said.

    "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I guess."

    Contact reporter Layla Bohm at layla@lodinews.com.

    Reader Feedback

    WY wrote on Oct 11, 2008 7:49 PM:

    " It's been going on for sometime now. We're just now hearing about it in a public forum. It's nothing new in Lodi.
    It didn't just start happening. "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 10, 2008 11:04 PM:

    " That was strange. Sorry about the double post. "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 10, 2008 11:03 PM:

    " Unbelievable! Another post blaming the victims. "

    amc wrote on Oct 10, 2008 9:20 PM:

    " When will society stop blaming victims and start blaming the preditors. It doesn't matter how much alcohol is consumed by any woman- when sex is not consentual between two people it is RAPE!!
    As far as questions to be answered- the Prosecutor is taking care of that. "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 10, 2008 12:42 PM:

    " Unbelievable! Another post blaming the victims. "

    SportsGuru wrote on Oct 10, 2008 8:33 AM:

    " .
    First, let me say that any guy who needs to drug a woman into unconsciousness to get her into bed is - well - pathetic to say the least. When caught, he will deservedly take on the role of "Jenny" in any local jail or prison - and he will deserve it (Only he won't get to be unconscious for the act).

    The article states:

    "At age 26, Mary isn't new to drinking. She knows her limits.... three beers and two shots"

    Now, I don't know about you. But three beers and two shots will put my arse on the floor - so I can imagine that would impair the judgement of a much smaller female. Ladies, you need to protect yourselves and keep your wits about you.

    Also, what happened to her friend? The article says the "couple at the bar drove her home". Did she leave before Mary? Did she also blackout and need a ride home? Why didn't she and Mary protect each other?

    There are a lot of questions here that don't make sense. "

    s & W 500 wrote on Oct 10, 2008 12:22 AM:

    " Time to hold criminals accountable for their crimes! I say catch them, try them, convict them, and castrate them in public in such a fashion that will deter further actions from happening!

    A major whipping with a cane pole might help as well! "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 8, 2008 12:58 PM:

    " gail1: OMG! Do you work for the Rounhouse or something. Ya, dis a women going out with friends to a local bar, but then turn around and say... "...if you do go to the roundhouse I find the people there watch over each other...good people there"

    What's wrong with you gail? "

    gail1 wrote on Oct 8, 2008 9:34 AM:

    " ladies stay home and drink if you have to...the fewer of you that are in the bars will make the prey easier to catch..is a drink this inportant that women are still going to the bars and clubs taking a chance until thees people are caught....no one is above this happening..if you have to go to the clubs and bars be safe...if you do go to the roundhouse I find the people there watch over each other...good people there. "

    shrubeater wrote on Oct 8, 2008 7:40 AM:

    " T&C, you have confirmed that what I've thought all along: you're just a pitiful angry old man that carries grudges and you accept no fault for anything that every came your way.

    BTW, Congress has only had a democractic stronghold in the last 2 years, by that time a lot of damage has been done to our economy. The childish, peevish behavior of McCain last night sealed the deal. He actually reminds me of your online behavior. I'm voting for Obama and you know what, my middle aged white husband bought his own Obama sign for our front yard. We've had enough of trickle down economics. Time for change! "

    jessi wrote on Oct 8, 2008 12:25 AM:

    " T & C you make me sick! I am a 22 year old female and I go out to the Lodi bars on the weekends. That is the only thing that there is to do on the weekend. You obviously never get out of your house to see that there is not a whole lot of night life in Lodi. Downtown Lodi is where many people go on the weekends to hang out, visit, relax, and have fun according to you we go there to get raped to. Obviously you do not pay any attention to what you read because it says one women was only drinking soda and this happened to her. Obviously all of these cases are popping up at once because these victims dont feel so alone when others are coming forward also. "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 8, 2008 12:00 AM:

    " amc: I was thinking the same thing. You may have something there. Perhaps T & C is actually defending his own actions. Blaming the victim is what criminals/rapists do! Something to think about. "

    amc wrote on Oct 7, 2008 9:10 PM:

    " I would like to start off with commending all RAPE survivors that it takes Great Courage and Strength to come forward.You have nothing to be ashamed of.
    And to T & C your disrepect towards women and beliefs that this "Unfortunate crime" and "Putting ones self in harms way" is pointing the finger at women.Look up the word RAPE and read the definition. Makes one wonder what skeketons people with a mindset like yours have in their closets. Sounds like your due to go to confession. . "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 7, 2008 3:39 PM:

    " To:T & C:(continued)...

    Your disrespect for women is disgusting. And your lack of concern for the fact that there is a rapist(s) out there in Lodi, preying on women, is even more disgusting. A real man would be disgusted beyond belief in hearing of these crimes and be outraged in calling for these rapists to be found and prosecuted.

    Maybe you need to be raped in order to understand that this is a crime and that these women are victims that DID NOT ask for this to happen, which is exactly what you are saying. One of the victims is going to be a POLICE OFFICER for God's-sake!

    These women did not deserve to be raped, T & C. It doesn't matter if they were dancing naked in the street, which they obviously were not, let alone sitting in a local establishment downtown with friends, which is exactly what they were doing. They did not deserve to have this terrible crime committed against them.

    Sometimes on these blogs you complain about the most stupid things and now you post comments that DO NOT attack the rapists here??? What is wrong with you?(obviously rhetorical) "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 7, 2008 3:28 PM:

    " To T & C: Don't run and change the subject, AGAIN, like you always do. Defend your words (I know they are defenseless and that's why you run from them when challenged). You show your ignorant nasty character once again.

    T & C wrote "I did NOT state anything against this rape situation"

    T & C wrote "T & C wrote on Oct 4, 2008 6:14 PM:

    " Wrong is wrong , I am the first to agree, but totally innocent???? No I think putting ones self in harms way, knowing guys are going to hit on you, buy you smokes, drinks, and anything else "Just to get lucky" is absolutely common place in any Lodi Bar!...Not drinking in a bar could have well prevented this unfortunate crime!"

    To T & C: So, where's your condemnation for the RAPISTS? Yes, your words are that of a real nasty filthy pig with no respect for women.

    continued... "

    T & C wrote on Oct 7, 2008 1:06 PM:

    " Well Lodian; you go right ahead and VOTE for OBAMA! As if this country is not in a huge enough mess already, that's all we need: A demo president! We already have a majority demo senate and house and LOOK at the mess we are in? It is YOu who are a pig, looking at life thru rose colored glasses! I did NOT state anything against this rape situation, only that presidential jabs such as you did were not necessary to make your misguided point! "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 6, 2008 2:54 PM:

    " chets808: What brand of idiot are you? You come on here and attack these women that were raped? Where is your sharp tongue for the RAPISTS? You ignorant fool. "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 6, 2008 2:52 PM:

    " T & C: You're a pig. "

    fawn lebowitz wrote on Oct 6, 2008 7:48 AM:

    " No updates from LNS-but here is an update from the Record.
    http://www.recordnet.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20081005/A_NEWS02/810050315/-1/A_NEWS "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 5, 2008 10:07 PM:

    " T & C: In response to your Oct 4, 6:14pm post... what the hell is wrong with you? "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 5, 2008 9:05 PM:

    " shrubeater: I'm so very sorry you were a victim of rape. And you are absolutely right! This is a very important issue in politics today. Discussing politics here is quite pertinent indeed. "

    shrubeater wrote on Oct 5, 2008 8:31 PM:

    " T&C, it's not politics, it's a issue that affects a woman's right to choose. You are male and you might be raped, but the likelyhood of that is slim. Me on the other hand, I was raped when I was very young. By the grace of God, I didn't get pregnant, but I couldn't imagine the horror of that happening and then the government telling me that I would be forced to carry the pregnancy to term. So call it politics if you want, it's called life's reality to many of us. "

    LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Oct 5, 2008 8:14 PM:

    " Sarah Palin also wouldn't shoot down a law that charged a rape victim for her own rape kit. "

    T & C wrote on Oct 5, 2008 7:19 PM:

    " I knew someone would toss in politics sooner or later! "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 5, 2008 3:58 PM:

    " shrubeater: Yes, Gov. Palin is against a woman's right to choose whether she got pregnant through a rape or if she is a young girl the victim of incest. Palin is also against the morning after pill, so all victim's of sexual assault should bring all pregnancies to term as far as Palin is concerned. "

    sam wrote on Oct 5, 2008 3:10 PM:

    " shrubeater, or AIDS. "

    shrubeater wrote on Oct 5, 2008 1:54 PM:

    " Just a reminder, under Sarah Palins America, a rape victim that becomes pregnant will not be able to have an abortion. Just food for thought, and I can't hold my tongue any longer. These young women didn't asked to raped. They are adults having a good time and a nut case is there just waiting and watching. I hope that no one is pregnant or gets an STD. "

    Lodian wrote on Oct 5, 2008 1:03 PM:

    " A male that rapes a woman is not a real man. A rapist rapes a woman for reasons such as hatred, anger, power and control. It's not about sex.

    Faulting the women here for being raped is simply ignorant. "

    roni95242 wrote on Oct 5, 2008 9:19 AM:

    " I TOTALLY agree with amc and wxmc! I do beleive that drugging is happening other places like party's too. Not just the bars. Unless this person or people are showing up at both places which wouldnt surprise me.
    I am the mother of 2 daughters in their mid 20's and I am constantly telling them about this!
    Again there is nothing to do in Lodi no clubs, dancing. NOTHING for young people to do so they hang out at the bars! Thats what there is to do in Lodi unless they go out of town! "

    wxmc wrote on Oct 4, 2008 11:08 PM:

    " Never mind the amount of liquor, the fact is that a LOWER THAN LIFE COWARD, who CANNOT get a girl to look at him for the life of him, feels the need to use a drug to RAPE, because that is what this is, the girls that happen to be having some fun. There's no reason for anyone to have to worry about getting ATTACKED or VIOLATED for having some drinks with friends. To the ones that committed the crime be sure that YOURS is coming, and know for sure that you will get it, one way or another. There is no excuse for RAPE, and no reason for it either. As a man and someone close to a rape survivor, I want to say to all the victims: IT WAS NOT, IN ANY WAY, YOUR FAULT. You were the victim and the COWARDS who did this will pay for it. "

    amc wrote on Oct 4, 2008 10:38 PM:

    " To all those narrow minded people who think that a woman who has a couple of drinks is an invitation to become a SEX CRIME VICTIM. I do believe that we are in the 21st century. Women, as independent as any of the victims of these SOB's, have the right like any man to sit and have a drink in a bar without being preyed upon by a mindless, coward and spineless fool who, the only way they can "score with a girl", is to use drugs or wait until the "girl" is drunk enough to be RAPED by them. These RAPISTS whose CONFIDENCE LEVEL and SELF ESTEEM is so low, they revert to the use of DRUGS to have a little piece of action. To tell you the truth, they really must be so horrible as a person and as a lover that they DO NOT want to be remembered after the fact. That, WHEN CAUGHT because it will happen, they will have to register as a SEX OFFENDER for the rest of their LIFE. When a sex act between two people is not CONSENTUAL the act is RAPE! RAPE is RAPE!!!!!! "

    LivnLodi wrote on Oct 4, 2008 10:17 PM:

    " Its just flat wrong to blame these women, these victims. How ignorant. "

    OTH wrote on Oct 4, 2008 8:07 PM:

    " So it's okay for a man to go drink in a bar nut not a woman? This should not happen to anyone. "

    T & C wrote on Oct 4, 2008 6:14 PM:

    " Wrong is wrong , I am the first to agree, but totally innocent???? No I think putting ones self in harms way, knowing guys are going to hit on you, buy you smokes, drinks, and anything else "Just to get lucky" is absolutely common place in any Lodi Bar!

    Knock out drinks", slipped into one's drink, often times is done when a gal is well on her way to being drunk! That said,I believe that "Barytenders has a "Responsibility" tto try to watch out for their female customers welfare, but then I know that isn't reality! Drinks, drinks, drinks is the plan in any bar!

    Sorry to hear this Police Officer hopeful, placed herself in a position for someone to commit this crime! I guess she had no gal friends to go out dinking with, or no male escort to have a good time with, which "Made her a target"! Not drinking in a bar could have well prevented this unfortunate crime! Be grateful that you were not killed, which could have been the worst case scenerio! "

    dogs4you wrote on Oct 4, 2008 3:55 PM:

    " Neither the N S or the reporter would say what bar or bars this party girl was in. Lots of questions, very few answers. Intstalling camera`s for the bars own protection maybe, cuts down on law suits. At age 26 I would think "Mary" has been around and done this before, did she park her car in the parking garage, just asking for trouble. Dirty Harry once said, a man has got to know his limitations, that goes for women also. Sounds like this happened in downtown Lodi, lots of bars and very little accountability. This is one that you can`t put on WalMart. "

    roni95242 wrote on Oct 4, 2008 3:15 PM:

    " This is REALLY scary stuff. I always tell my Daughters NOT to ever leave their glasses sitting ANYWHERE. I don't care if they are at Applebee's eating dinner!
    I sure hope they find out who these sorry, SOB'S before someone is killed! "

    WY wrote on Oct 4, 2008 2:22 PM:

    " This has been going on for a couple years down town. There is nothing new about it. I have two friends this happened to. Lucky for them, rape didn't occur. But they were slipped the drug anyway. The police know about it.If I know of two woman... then there are many more that haven't come forward. It's an evil person the preys on woman like this. Pure evil, can't handle rejection pig. "

    OTH wrote on Oct 4, 2008 1:19 PM:

    " If this was a man no one would say a word. I'm with you Nellie why are we just finding out now and what bars? There's a predator out there and we need information. "

    Mrs. S. wrote on Oct 4, 2008 1:14 PM:

    " Two points:

    First, it doesn't matter what she had; she was raped.

    Second, even if she can hold her liquor like a sailor, she was still legally drunk if she consumed all that in an hour or so. I hope she hadn't planned on driving home. I also hope she'll reflect on her drinking and consider that she could be on the road to a drinking problem. "

    Mazie wrote on Oct 4, 2008 10:35 AM:

    " I sure hope they find the pig that is doing this. And it does not matter how many drinks she had, she should not have to worry about something like this happening. Perhaps bars should install cameras? Lodi is certainly getting as bad as other towns. I, too, want to know what bars they are talking about. And why is this just now coming to light? If they had warned after the first time, perhaps there would not have been more. "

    Whoa Nellie! wrote on Oct 4, 2008 9:40 AM:

    " Ditto. 3 beers and 2 shots! Over how many minutes?

    If this is the fifth crime how come we are finally reading about it now? What bars?

    This article leaves me with more questions than answers. "

    chets808 wrote on Oct 4, 2008 9:27 AM:

    " 3 beers and 2 shots ?
    note to MARY and all "party girls": if you go to a bar and drink that much, you are putting yourself at risk. try toning it down. drinking at bars with strangers is risky behavior. and what is with this friend who let you leave with some stranger ? what do people do when they go into the woods: they never separate. "

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