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Lodi Middle School Student Elizabeth Nesbitt, 13, was suspended two-and-a-half days for accidentally pointing her bow and arrow at a teacher gym class. Also pictured is Nesbitt's mother, Jennifer. Brian Feulner/News-Sentinel)

Archery accident

Lodi girl suspended for pointing bow and arrow toward teacher; mother wants 'blemish' off daughter's school record

By Jennifer Bonnett
News-Sentinel Staff Writer
Friday, September 26, 2008 6:20 AM PDT

A Lodi Middle student with a 4.0 grade-point average and plans for college has been suspended for pointing a loaded bow and arrow toward her physical education teacher during archery class.

Elizabeth Nesbitt, 13, has already served her two-and-half-day suspension, but her mother wants it off her school record, especially because, she said both the principal and teacher have told her they believe the incident was an accident.

"It's unreasonable for suspending her for something they feel was totally unintentional," Jennifer Nesbitt said Thursday after an unsuccessful meeting with Lodi Unified Associate Superintendent Odie Douglas.

"We are appalled and thoroughly disappointed in the teacher, principal and the higher-ups," she said. "I would have understood even failing her in archery, but this punishment affects her in her other six classes as well."

Last week, Elizabeth was among a group of students who lined up to practice shooting at targets with their bows and arrows. When hers was unusually tight, she turned to her teacher to ask for help in pulling it back and inadvertently pointed it at him, Nesbitt said.

Since the arrow was already pulled back slightly, teacher Ron Fisher was concerned he would be shot, according to Nesbitt, who met with the teacher and principal the day after the incident.

But Elizabeth maintains she was pointing it toward the ground, not Fisher.

"I could barely pull back, like barely an inch," she said Thursday. "He said if I let it go he would have been punctured. If I would have let it go, it would have hit the ground."

Neither Fisher nor Lodi Middle Principal Marco Sanchez could be reached for comment.

Suspension at a glance

According to Lodi Unified School District, Elizabeth Nesbitt was suspended for violating state Education Code, section 48900:

"A pupil shall not be suspended from school or recommended for expulsion, unless the superintendent or the principal of the school in which the pupil is enrolled determines that the pupil has committed an act as defined pursuant to any of subdivisions

"(k) Disrupted school activities or otherwise willfully defied the valid authority of supervisors, teachers, administrators, school officials, or other school personnel engaged in the performance of their duties."

Source: www.leginfo.ca.gov

At the time, Elizabeth said her teacher yelled her name, told her to put the bow and arrow on the floor and go straight to the office. She was to be suspended for five days, possibly even expelled for brandishing what is considered a deadly weapon.

"I was asking for help, not for (Fisher) to suspend me," Elizabeth said.

Nesbitt, who owns City Girl in Downtown Lodi, doesn't argue with the facts. She's fighting to get the suspension removed from her daughter's record. "The time is already lost," Nesbitt said of the suspension her daughter served last Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. "I don't want this on her record. If it comes down to two students for a scholarship or to get into college, and she has this blemish ... "

The suspension form, provided to the News-Sentinel by Nesbitt, reads that: "Elizabeth pointed a loaded bow and arrow at Mr. Fisher during P.E. Two other students were also in the line of fire and were shaken up. Elizabeth was aware of the rules, however, displayed a lapse in judgment that could have resulted in serious injury or death. The act was unintentional according to the student."

The form is signed by Elizabeth Nesbitt and the school principal.

Nesbitt said the suspension has already threatened Elizabeth's membership in a scholarship club.

Elizabeth said she didn't know how she'd be treated when she returned to school Monday. "I feel like people thought of me as a goodie-two-shoes and then I get suspended."

She thinks a referral sent home to her parents for their signature would have been a fairer punishment.

Nesbitt and her husband John, a San Joaquin County Sheriff's deputy, decided not to punish their daughter because they believe it was an accident. There is no evidence the student was goofing off or not paying attention.

"She's a good kid. She never gets into trouble. She's active in her church," Nesbitt said, listing the reasons she feels the suspension was unfair.

Principal Sanchez reduced the original recommendation to just two-and-a-half days of suspension and told the Nesbitts that Elizabeth could have been expelled since she technically pointed a deadly weapon at someone. (Nesbitt disagrees, since the school put the so-called weapon in her child's hands.)

Associate Superintendent Douglas said he could not comment on any specific instance of student discipline.

He said his decision is the last step of suspension appeal.

"But any parent can go before the board — that's what open session is," he said.

Douglas said the only way a suspension can be removed from someone's record is if it can be proved that the incident did not take place as reported.

He would not comment if there have been any other incidents with Lodi Middle School's archery program, but did say the district has had to deal with other cases of students with dangerous items.

Contact reporter Jennifer Bonnett at jenniferb@lodinews.com.

Reader Feedback

getreal wrote on Oct 7, 2008 10:49 PM:

" Lets just hope this young lady learned a safey lesson, her parents do the right thing and go through the appeals process and other parents do not follow the irresponsible actions like the the mother of the "Thiz kid who was encouraging drug use in a prom pic". This mom saw the stupid actions of the other mom and thought this was the way to go. Unfortunately the girl did not have a history of acting up like the Thiz kid. Now she is paying the high costs of the mothers actions. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 3, 2008 2:59 PM:

" SportsGuru (8:23 AM): There is something to what you say as there are some areas where the district wastes money, IMO. A student/family should not be denied the opportunity to address the board with a serious issue due to budget issues. I say cut the money elsewhere in the district and make sure the appeals opportunity is allowed when serious issues arise. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 3, 2008 2:49 PM:

" Rhodie wrote "... the basics of self defense sounds like an interesting idea."


That's not a bad idea, Rhodie! "

Lodian wrote on Oct 3, 2008 2:46 PM:

" Aimee: It's simple. Stop dishing it out when you can't take it. You go off on other bloggers, and me, with nasty comments and attacks and then act the victim two seconds later? And you've done this ever since you logged on as Aimee. Stop playing the innocent victim. No one is buying it. You attack the pride one has for raising their children and make nasty comments about the spouses of other people. You're a big fake Aimee. And stop accusing me of using a different handle when that's exactly what you do yourself. What good for the goose... "

Aimee wrote on Oct 3, 2008 9:10 AM:

" Does anyone know if this site has an "ignore" feature? I think it's time I put it to good use. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 3, 2008 9:10 AM:

" Lodian: Well, I can see it's impossible to get anything coherent out of you. I shouldn't be surprised, though, this is your normal mode of operation. You obviously think you're so cute and funny when really you are one of the most annoying posters on here and have been since you first started blogging.

If you were insinuating that Lodi Resident and I are the same person, think again. I know it's hard for you to believe that someone else other than myself would think that you are full of crap (because, of course, you could never be wrong) but just get it out of your head that I post on here under any other name but "Aimee". I am not Lodi Resident. You've beaten that old argument to death over the past few years and I can see it's still one of your favorites in your little annoying bag of tricks. I know in the past you've used this tactic for your personal amusement and to bolster your posts when people started attacking you, but some of us don't play those sorts of games. "

SportsGuru wrote on Oct 3, 2008 8:23 AM:

" .
Leonard Wrote:
"LUSD has neither the manpower nor the resources to set up such a system."


Of course they don't. They have their hands full trying to administer their "diversity" program which takes about 20% of all district resources to manage - and it serves less than 2% of the student population.

That is a lot like the Mortgage Crisis in that the Clinton Administration put in place regulations that allowed PEOPLE WHO CAN'T AFFORD TO BE HOMEOWNERS into home mortgages. In this case, we have a large amount of resource being aimed at a small percentage of the student population. There will NEVER be a 0% sub-standard student rate, no matter how much $$$ you throw at the problem. LUSD needs to start dealing in reality - not Utopian feel-good policies. "

Rhodie wrote on Oct 3, 2008 8:18 AM:

" dyan wrote on Oct 3, 2008 7:33 AM:
" Hey. The terrorists are coming to get us at any moment."

That could be why the Middle-schoolers are learning to defend themselves.


An interesting question occurs to me here: Would a school sponsered (like during PE) self defense course make sense in today's day and age? Especially for the girls with the stats out on how many of them are likely to be attacked. I'm not sure if I would support our schools teaching our kids to be warriors, MMA fighters or such, but the basics of self defense sounds like an interesting idea. Then you can point your fist at someone without worrying about it slipping or going off and hitting someone across the yard. "

dyan wrote on Oct 3, 2008 7:33 AM:

" Hey. The terrorists are coming to get us at any moment. Let's focus on the priorities in life and quit crying over some poor baby who got her butt kicked for doing something stupid. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 2, 2008 4:13 PM:

" I guess you're not smarter than a 5th grader. (chuckle) "

Aimee wrote on Oct 2, 2008 2:54 PM:

" Lodian: seriously, clue us in to what you were trying to insinuate. I'd like to know just what you're getting at. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 2, 2008 2:26 PM:

" Aimee: Come on... aren't you smarter than a 5th grader? LOL! "

Lodian wrote on Oct 2, 2008 2:24 PM:

" Gator wrote on Oct 2, 2008 12:53 PM:

" Leonard, Excellent post!! Good ol accountability! "

Gator: How is this kid not being accountable if she truly knows she did not point a weapon at the teacher? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 2, 2008 2:23 PM:

" Leonard: continued...

Q: "LUSD has neither the manpower nor the resources to set up such a system. Do you want to have your taxes raised so that every case of detention can go through a 6 month appeals process?"

You state that the LUSD has a lack of resources, but this would be no excuse to disallow a student/family to appeal the decision of a teacher/admin when they feel it is serious enough to take it through the appeals process. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 2, 2008 2:18 PM:

" Leonard: Addressing your questions...

Q:"Why? The kid broke the rules and she suffered the consequences."

A: I think this warrants a further look. There's a difference in accounts on what actually happened. All agree that this is not a "problem" student. She should have her day in front of the board. She already did serve her time and did what she was told. She has the right to be heard.

Q:"Do you think that every kid who gets suspended should have their case reviewed before some sort of appeals board?"

A: It depends on the case, but if there is an incident that looks serious enough to the parties involved then they have the right to appeal. That is the process. One size does not fit all. This punishment seems like the wrong choice for this student.

continued... "

Aimee wrote on Oct 2, 2008 1:54 PM:

" Lodian wrote: "..Lodi Resident only seems to show up and do a hit and run on me, and back up Aimee, so you do the math. :-) Hmmm."

and

"...She just seems to enjoy these childish "hit and run" attacks....then, of course, she changes her handle again and blogs on."

What are you trying to insinuate, Lodian? Please, tell those of us that aren't "savvy" enough to "do the math". "

Gator wrote on Oct 2, 2008 12:53 PM:

" Leonard, Excellent post!! Good ol accountability! "

Leonard wrote on Oct 2, 2008 11:23 AM:

" Lodian wrote on Oct 2, 2008 11:15 AM:

" Leonard: Any incident regarding weapons handling in a class at school and a student should be reviewed in full when a teacher feels a suspension action is warranted.


Why? The kid broke the rules and she suffered the consequences.

Do you think that every kid who gets suspended should have their case reviewed before some sort of appeals board?

LUSD has neither the manpower nor the resources to set up such a system. Do you want to have your taxes raised so that every case of detention can go through a 6 month appeals process? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 2, 2008 11:15 AM:

" Leonard: Any incident regarding weapons handling in a class at school and a student should be reviewed in full when a teacher feels a suspension action is warranted.

If the teacher feels this incident warrants a suspension then it shouldn't stop there. All procedures should be reviewed especially since the accused says there was no intent and states that the bow was not directed at anyone. I have a feeling that there is more to this story. And we need to remember that a newspaper does not always have every detail exact. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 2, 2008 11:00 AM:

" It's simple and obvious. Lodi Resident wouldn't have a clue as to how much we post on the LNS boards if she were not here just as often. It's odd how "Lodi Resident" never actually engages in the conversation on topic. She just seems to enjoy these childish "hit and run" attacks....then, of course, she changes her handle again and blogs on. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 2, 2008 10:45 AM:

" SportsGuru wrote "I'd wager that Lodi Resident is a Liberal Democrat. Am I right?"

No way! LOL! Seriously, I don't think so. Lodi Resident only seems to show up and do a hit and run on me, and back up Aimee, so you do the math. :-) Hmmm. "

Lodi Resident wrote on Oct 2, 2008 8:12 AM:

" To Sportsguru:

The difference is that if you check the frequency of my posts and compare to the frequency of your posts, you will see that I visit infrequently. You and Lodian, on the other hand, waste your little lives here.

LR "

SportsGuru wrote on Oct 2, 2008 8:02 AM:

" .
LODI RESIDENT writes:
"Can you not see that they have nothing better to do than hang out here at the LNS blogosphere?"


I always get a chuckle out of people who bash other people's participation in blogging, while at the same time blogging themselves!

I guess that can only mean that persons with such an outlook only believe their opinions should be expressed in the Blogosphere, and that anyone else with a differing opinion simply have "nothing better to do".

Based on this observation (only Lodi Resident's opinions are worthy of blogging) ... I'd wager that Lodi Resident is a Liberal Democrat. Am I right? "

Lodi Resident wrote on Oct 1, 2008 8:40 PM:

" To Aimee:

Why do you engage Lodian and Sportsguru (what an idiotic self-serving handle)?

Can you not see that they have nothing better to do than hang out here at the LNS blogosphere?

Seriously, you are right...they are wrong...move on. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 1, 2008 8:15 PM:

" I'm kind of hard pressed to imagine what she could possibly say that would change my opinion with regards to this incident.

She was instructed not to point the weapon at a person.

She pointed the weapon at a person.

To me, these are the relevant facts and they seem to be quite clear. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 1, 2008 6:58 PM:

" ...but, I won't hold my breath! "

Lodian wrote on Oct 1, 2008 6:56 PM:

" Leonard wrote on Oct 1, 2008 6:17 PM:

" Lodian wrote on Oct 1, 2008 4:17 PM:
" At this point I hope Elizabeth Nesbitt takes this issue to the board. I'd be interested to know the outcome.

If the board backs up the teacher will you be satisfied with the outcome? "

Probably. I'd be interested to hear their comments on this and see how they handle it. Hopefully this will not be brushed off as just some kid's side of the story and blindly back the teacher's version of the events. I expect the board to listen carefully and take all into consideration with respect given to both parties. "

Leonard wrote on Oct 1, 2008 6:17 PM:

" Lodian wrote on Oct 1, 2008 4:17 PM:
" At this point I hope Elizabeth Nesbitt takes this issue to the board. I'd be interested to know the outcome.


If the board backs up the teacher will you be satisfied with the outcome? "

Lodian wrote on Oct 1, 2008 4:17 PM:

" At this point I hope Elizabeth Nesbitt takes this issue to the board. I'd be interested to know the outcome. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 1, 2008 4:15 PM:

" SportsGuru wrote "AIMEE, You are the MASTER of nonsense!"

SportsGuru: You said it. Yep, Aimee is a law student. LOL! "

Lodian wrote on Oct 1, 2008 4:14 PM:

" ....signed, Dr. Lodian (LOL!) "

Lodian wrote on Oct 1, 2008 4:12 PM:

" Aimee wrote...

"How does it feel to approach your golden years knowing that the only worthwhile and meaningful thing you've ever done is raise children to adulthood?"

"I thinh your devotion to Lodian is touching. Does your wife know?"

To Aimee...

Seriously, Aimee, attacking someone's marriage and stating such disrespect for the raising of healthy productive children to adulthood are not the comments from a very intelligent person of good character. Are you happy with the path you have taken in your life? Then why attack another's marriage and the pride they have in raising children?

Perhaps you could take on some level of respect for families. Nothing here has warranted such an attack on another's marriage and the pride of raising their children. I think it's really sad that you have a hard time debating an issue without attacking marriages and children. When you seem to be losing the debate you start in with the personal attacks on marriage and children. That is all too telling of your character. Maybe you are proud of that characteristic, but no one here is impressed. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 1, 2008 3:47 PM:

" No, it's not nonsense. You made a point of highlighting the use of sarcasm on this blog and the fact that people can make statements regarding their personal selves on here with no proof to back them up. Then, you do a complete 180 and start posting personal things about you and your family, expecting to be taken at your word. And when someone turns biting wit towards you, you feel compelled to respond, not caring for the statements made.

I believe that you and I are the same in one aspect: we're both honest and would like people to take us at our word because we speak the truth. You strike me as a hard-working man who is proud of the things he has been able to accomplish over the years. Of course, as you stated, there's no proving this without revealing who we are on this board, which is not a good idea. We can call a truce to this nonsense and go on or keep it going. Bygones? "

SportsGuru wrote on Oct 1, 2008 3:23 PM:

" .
AIMEE,

You are the MASTER of nonsense! Through all your blather, the fact still remains (whether it is my factual family, or someone elses)...

My point was that there is NOTHING MORE HONORABLE to do than choose to RAISE YOUR CHILDREN as a career. "

Lodian wrote on Oct 1, 2008 2:39 PM:

" DeltaPenguin wrote "As for the school, this would be a good time to review current policies and how they can affect everyone involved."

DeltaPenguin: I agree. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 1, 2008 2:01 PM:

" SportGuru wrote: "It's not fun chasing ambulances and conducting quests for people who have had bad reactions to prescription drugs as a living."

And wrote againm on October 1: "It's not fun chasing ambulances and conducting quests for people who have had bad reactions to prescription drugs as a living."

Hmmm, let me think.....nope, still not offended. LOL! "

Aimee wrote on Oct 1, 2008 1:48 PM:

" SportsGuru: Whoa, hit a nerve there, didn't I? Hey, SportsGuru, you of all people should know that, "..our posts are known as SARCASM. You would think that someone....would recognize sarcasm when they saw it, but apparently not. Sarcasm is a biting form of wit." Very well said, SportsGuru, very well said.

Your assertions that "I have raised three children, all honor students, all exemplary citizens, and all attending college (and other statements I chose to not reproduce for the sake of brevity)" really can't be believed. I mean, after all, certainly even you recognize that "...the fact of the matter is that just because you BLOG that you (have raised educated and productive children), doesn't FACTUALLY mean that (you have raised educated and productive children). Hence, the fact that I do not believe is BASED ON FACT -and based on the ACTUAL REALITY OF THE SITUATION!"

Remember, this is a site where people post anonymously-heck, you could be a California Supreme Court Justice for all I know.

Honestly, we just can't believe anything that people post about their personal selves on here, there's just no proof that it is true. "

SportsGuru wrote on Oct 1, 2008 12:41 PM:

" .
BTW, this was more sarcasm...

"It's not fun chasing ambulances and conducting quests for people who have had bad reactions to prescription drugs as a living." "

SportsGuru wrote on Oct 1, 2008 12:39 PM:

" .
So, AIMEE
Now that you've opened the can of worms, I'll spill it.

I personally have no problem with Obama, McCain and Palin pursuing a career ... so long as their significant others are primarily focused on raising their children. SOMEONE has to bring home the bacon.

In my family, I play that role. My wife left her career and raised our children. We sacrificed a lot to do that, but our investment in our children has paid off a HUNDRED FOLD.

I have a friend who is in the opposite position. He stays home with the kids, and his wife works. Either way, the kids get what they need.

Perhaps your parent's didn't make that sacrifice for you when you were growing up. If true, that would explain why perhaps you can't grasp that concept. "

SportsGuru wrote on Oct 1, 2008 12:34 PM:

" .
AIMEE, you have a lot of growing up to do. My point was that there is NOTHING MORE HONORABLE to do than choose to RAISE YOUR CHILDREN as a career.

I pity you if you only measure your self worth by what "Job Title" you hold, or what "Pay Grade" you achieve.

That isn't what life is about.

How do I know?

I have raised three children, all honor students, all exemplary citizens, and all attending college.

Like it or not - your resume (a Juris Doctorate) pales in comparison to that achievement.

And I find it interesting that you would criticize my points, while at the same time lobbing a childish comment laced with sexual innuendo - by mentioning my wife.

If your arguments don't stand on their merits, then let them lie. You don't have to pull a "Clinton" by attacking the messenger. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 1, 2008 11:30 AM:

" SportsGuru: why don't you write a note to Obama and let him know he shouldn't bother running for president-the fact that he is helping to raise his two girls should be enough fulfillment for him and his wife. Because, after all, as you stated so eloquently, "There is nothing MORE WORTHWHILE AND MEANINGFUL than to have raised a child to adulthood." I guess Obama, McCain and Palin all have their priorities backwards, eh? LOL...keep trying. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 1, 2008 11:27 AM:

" SportsGuru: whatever.....funny that you assume so much when you know so little about who I really am.

Your insults and assumptions don't bother me in the least. If you were trying to offend me, you fell very short of the mark.

I thinh your devotion to Lodian is touching. Does your wife know? "

sportsguru wrote on Oct 1, 2008 10:56 AM:

" .
WOW, we were right on the mark with the "condescending" label for Aimee...

AIMEE WROTE:
"How does it feel to approach your golden years knowing that the only worthwhile and meaningful thing you've ever done is raise children to adulthood?"


Dear Aimee,
There is nothing MORE WORTHWHILE AND MEANINGFUL than to have raised a child to adulthood.

I pity your children (if you have any), your husband (if you have one), or both. If you have neither, I suggest you keep it that way. "

SportsGuru wrote on Oct 1, 2008 10:02 AM:

" .
AIMEE Wrote:
"Lodian and SportsGuru claim NOT to care about my educational status yet look at all their posts referring to the subject! Funny!"


Our posts are known as SARCASM. You would think that someone with a Juris Doctorate would recognize sarcasm when they saw it, but apparently not. Sarcasm is a biting form of wit.

But I forget - a Juris Doctorate would mean you are leaning towards being a lawyer, and there is nothing funny about being a lawyer. It's not fun chasing ambulances and conducting quests for people who have had bad reactions to prescription drugs as a living. "

DeltaPenguin wrote on Oct 1, 2008 9:24 AM:

" To jnesbitt:

Sometimes, when a fire occurs and it is unintentional, the person who set the fire still gets burned.

In this case, (all why does the school allow this arguments set aside), a mistake was made that could have ended in a fatal, or serious injury. Let this die. Because of the seriousness of the error on your daughter's part, she was made an example.

The universities will not give a rip about this incident when it is her time to enter. You have now brought much more upon her and your family then a measly 2 day suspension.

Just let it rest.

As for the school, this would be a good time to review current policies and how they can affect everyone involved. "

DeltaPenguin wrote on Oct 1, 2008 9:12 AM:

" To Her Aunt:

I admittedly topped reading after viewing one of your comments mid-blog. It ticked me off enough to just address that...

I am trying to figure out why you are concerned about this going away and why you would tell people to mind their own business.

The family chose to bring this to public attention. Any flack received as a result of their poor decision is on them, not the posters here.

It will go away in time. Contacting the paper to try and appeal to the public was a poor decision for the parents to make. Shame on them for bringing this type of attention on their daughter.

Whether or not the act was intentional does not concern me. However, based upon the family's poor judgment in bringing this public, it brings to question just how far the apple fell from the tree. "

Aimee wrote on Oct 1, 2008 9:10 AM:

" Lee: Tell me something, since I am much younger than you. How does it feel to approach your golden years knowing that the only worthwhile and meaningful thing you've ever done is raise children to adulthood? It has obviously made you bitter against your more ambitious sisters.

You spend much of your time on here blogging but I have YET to see you post anything remotely intelligent and probing. You answer questions with more questions. You post irrelevant observations about nothing in particular. You only agree with the more intelligent posts of our more thoughtful bloggers instead of creating your own. You engage other posters at random with your sharp words when they don't deserve your unkind words. At one time, you had multiple handles simply for your own amusement. In short, you're simply a middle-aged rabble-rousing woman who has the superiority complex who spends most, if not all, of her time on this site. Sad. "

Rhodie wrote on Sep 30, 2008 8:14 PM:

" Lodian wrote " Rhodie: I think that too many people dismiss the arts as well as artistic abilities "

This is one change I would make to the education system. I think all students should have to take an creative outlet course every year. Be it music, drawing, writing, photography and painting even fasion design. How many kids would be better off if they had an outlet to express themselves through?

Unfortunately budget cuts have made the focus of schools to feeding the mind rather than nurishing it. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 30, 2008 5:27 PM:

" Aimee wrote "Lodian: I am sure that you probably deserved whatever it was that you were called..."

I have no doubt! LOL! "

Lodian wrote on Sep 30, 2008 5:25 PM:

" Aimee wrote "LOL..Lodian and SportsGuru claim NOT to care about my educational status yet look at all their posts referring to the subject! Funny!"

Aimee: It's not your "educational status" that begs a response. It's your superior attitude and insistence on pretending that, whatever your educational background, you seem to think it makes you superior on a public forum in a blog debate/conversation. THAT, oh Aimee, is what is so funny. You ask for it yet you still don't get it. It's okay, dear. Maybe time and maturity will teach you what you need to know. Someday you will learn that the degree you hold does not make you an intelligent person. There's a lot more to it than that, Aimee. When one has to boast of their credentials, whether they are real of not, then that is when ya know they are full of sh!t. LOL! Learn to laugh at yourself Aimee. "

Aimee wrote on Sep 30, 2008 4:03 PM:

" Lodian: I am sure that you probably deserved whatever it was that you were called if you act in person as you do on these blogs. "

Aimee wrote on Sep 30, 2008 3:58 PM:

" LOL..Lodian and SportsGuru claim NOT to care about my educational status yet look at all their posts referring to the subject! Funny! "

Lodian wrote on Sep 30, 2008 3:55 PM:

" SportsGuru: I've been called worse. ;-) LOL! "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 30, 2008 3:39 PM:

" .
TO LODIAN:
I think I have made it CRYSTAL CLEAR to everyone here that you are a professional Dominatrix. Let's not try to pretend otherwise!!! :D "

Lodian wrote on Sep 30, 2008 2:58 PM:

" Rhodie: I think that too many people dismiss the arts as well as artistic abilities "

Robb wrote on Sep 30, 2008 2:54 PM:

" I'm gumby damnit... "

Rhodie wrote on Sep 30, 2008 2:40 PM:

" Lodian, back in '99 I was actually contacted by a publisher to write a book on candle making. Unfortunately after hiring a photog. for the proposal and doing a few shoots and examples of the candles the publisher decided not to. But it was still fun to try.

I had more fun teaching the classes than writing about it anyway. As I said here before I talk better than I write on non-fiction. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 30, 2008 2:15 PM:

" Aimee wrote "Lodian: No, I wasn't joking. You've failed to respond to my question-why do you care?"

Aimee: Okay, so you're not the sharpest tack, but did you really not understand that the point was that we do not care what you state as your background. It doesn't mean a thing here on the boards. You see, Aimee, you are as anonymous as any one of us. FYI, you have absolutely no idea who I am either. You only know what I have chosen to post here on these blogs. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 30, 2008 2:08 PM:

" Rhodie wrote on Sep 30, 2008 12:35 PM:

" Aimee, I can discuss cookie and bread baking tips;)

Alright I can go quite indepth into the tricks, stratigies and marketing of homemade soaps and candles. "

Cool! Can I get a catalog? ;-) "

Lodian wrote on Sep 30, 2008 2:06 PM:

" Aimee, Aimee, Aimee... You should be well aware that this is a public forum where all can read and respond to whatever they so chose. If you want to go private with another poster then by all means do so, but when you post here it's all fair game. If you need more help in understanding how all this works, by all means, just ask. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 30, 2008 1:54 PM:

" professorssj: Do you often twist off this easily? I hope you don't teach a class on how to handle weapons. "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 30, 2008 12:45 PM:

" .
Ok, Ok .. I gotta make one other point:

AIMEE Wrote: "..the fact that you do not believe does not change the reality of the situation."

My dear, the fact of the matter is that just because you BLOG that you are an expert, doesn't FACTUALLY make you an expert. Hence, the fact that I do not believe is BASED ON FACT - and based on the ACTUAL REALITY OF THE SITUATION! "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 30, 2008 12:42 PM:

" .
TO AIMEE:
One last observation.. I think others here have caught on to the subtle point that you are somewhat self-promoting with regards to your education and background.

You sound like someone fresh out of college, who thinks their 4 to 6 years of academia make them more qualified than the rest of us "less educated" fools who have a lifetime of experience under our belts. "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 30, 2008 12:40 PM:

" .
TO AIMEE:
Oh, and ... your grasp of terms used on CSI:Miami is EXCELLENT! :) "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 30, 2008 12:39 PM:

" .
TO AIMEE:
I think you miss the greater point. Your legal education status really isn't of interest here. Most of us non legal-eagles probably agree that with regards to the law - in particular California - there isn't much common sense applied.

Where else can illegal immigrants come into a state and get MORE BENEFITS than those that live here (e.g. the discount their children are afforded for entry into colleges)?

This is a COMMON SENSE ISSUE, more than a legal one. Sometimes, a conservative legal advisory organization (such as Pacific Legal Foundation) is necessary to get California bureaucrats to see the trees through the forest. "

Rhodie wrote on Sep 30, 2008 12:35 PM:

" Aimee, I can discuss cookie and bread baking tips;)

Alright I can go quite indepth into the tricks, stratigies and marketing of homemade soaps and candles. "

Aimee wrote on Sep 30, 2008 11:27 AM:

" However, I highly doubt that you would be able to engage in a scholarly discussion of time mechanics whereas I would be able to discuss the finer point of evidence submission in California and/or Federal courts (re: character evidence) or the difficult task of interpreting the US Constitution, depending on which school of thought you subscribe to. "

Aimee wrote on Sep 30, 2008 11:24 AM:

" SportsGuru: That's fine if you don't believe me. Your disbelief is warranted due to the fact that you are unable to verify that it is true or not. Conversely, the fact that you do not believe does not change the reality of the situation.

Blog on...... "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 30, 2008 10:08 AM:

" .
Aimee:
My point was .. on the internet you can claim to be whatever you want to be. Just because you BLOG that you have a juris doctorate degree, doesn't mean that you don't work at McDonald's (and looked up "Juris Doctorate" on Wikipedia)....

Did I tell you I was a ghost writer for Steven Hawkings for his book "A Brief History Of Time", specifically the content on "Super String Theory" which attempts to explain all of the particles and fundamental forces of nature in one theory by modelling them as vibrations of tiny supersymmetric strings?

You didn't know that???? "

Aimee wrote on Sep 30, 2008 10:04 AM:

" Lodian: No, I wasn't joking.

You've failed to respond to my question-why do you care? Why did you feel compelled to respond to my post to SportsGuru? It wasn't addressed to you nor was it intended to be taken as an assertion of any superiority. He questioned my ability to give a legal opinion, I gave him the reason why I am capable of giving one. So, again, why do you care? Did I offend you in stating that I have a post-graduate education? "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 30, 2008 9:59 AM:

" .

http://www.innovativearms.com/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/STEYR.jpg "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 30, 2008 9:59 AM:

" .
TO LODIAN:

Yes, I own an Austrian-made Steyr GB 9mmm semi-automatic pistol that is no longer sold in the US.

I don't need the NRA to tell me how to handle a gun (break into my house and you'll find out!).

Besides, you missed my point entirely! "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 30, 2008 9:54 AM:

" .
I just noticed .. Section K of the code under which she suspended is poorly written and can be interpreted differently..

(k) Disrupted school activities or otherwise willfully defied the valid authority of supervisors, teachers, administrators, school officials, or other school personnel engaged in the performance of their duties.

I think the spirit of this would be more accurately reflected by adding one word:

(k) WILLFULLY disrupted school activities or otherwise willfully defied the valid authority of supervisors...

If you add that first WILLFULLY, I think it's clear she did nothing wrong unless she WILLFULLY disrupted school activities (not accidentally disrputed them) "

dyan wrote on Sep 30, 2008 8:04 AM:

" Good point on the loaded gun question, Leonard. Case closed! "

Leonard wrote on Sep 30, 2008 4:02 AM:

" I was reading the following and it made me think of this blog.

Palin's joint appearance last night with running mate John McCain on The CBS Evening News With Katie Couric was a public-relations disaster, conveying the impression of a father coming to the defense of his nave daughter who had gotten into trouble at school.

"I'm so proud of the work she is doing," said the beaming poppa.


http://www.philly.com/philly/hp/news_update/20080930_Couric_having_a_field_day.html "

professorssj wrote on Sep 29, 2008 6:58 PM:

" Lodian- Again, I say, Mr. Fisher's teaching regarding safety with these deadly weapons needs to be reviewed before another class of children is given deadly weapons. This should be the very least that is done at Lodi Middle. --

of course you would say this... you have NO IDEA WHAT HIS SAFETY ROUTINE IS WITH THESE STUDENTS - not children- teenagers- with brains and common sense... or they should possess this anyway... and so should YOU!YOU HAVE ONLY HEARD ONE SIDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OF course this teenage is going to make it look like she is innocent.. she's not going to tell the newspaper that she screwed up and that's why her mom called them, so she could tell everyone she did. Her mom is trying to save face, keep up with the Joneses, and "fix" this for her daughter... heaven forbid her child should be less than perfect.

It's amazing how Elizabeth has changed her story and yet everyone blames the teacher even though NO ONE knows his!!! "

professorssj wrote on Sep 29, 2008 6:55 PM:

" This should in part reflect on Fisher's training, supervision and safety procedures with his class/students-- HOW DO YOU KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THIS??? YOU ARE ALL ONLY HEARING ONE SIDE AND AUTOMATICALLY ACCUSING THE TEACHER OF THE WRONGDOING.... You have no idea what he does or doesn't do in terms of safety. And, he's been there for years and never made the front page of the paper before for an incident.. ask yourself why a mother would call the press on this.. her "perfect" child (teenager) now has a blemish, but she did nothing wrong! Get real... come on everyone.. you have jumped to conclusions without knowing the other side... I hope a court is more forgiving should you have to come in front of one some day. We live in America, yes freedom of speech, but also due process and innocent until proven guilty... you have condemned the teacher... interesting! "

Leonard wrote on Sep 29, 2008 6:35 PM:

" SportsGuru wrote on Sep 29, 2008 3:15 PM:

Hey, Leonard
By your own logic... if your kid pointed a loaded gun at someone accidentally, the gun owner would go to jail.


Have you ever owned a gun? Are you at all familiar with the NRA's 3 Rules of Gun Safety?

I strongly suggest that you familiarize yourself with the contents of the following website.

http://www.nrahq.org/education/guide.asp "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 5:19 PM:

" Aimee: Oh, I see. So when you said "Actually, I have a juris doctorate degree."...you were actually joking. I should have known. "

Aimee wrote on Sep 29, 2008 4:35 PM:

" Lodian: see SportGuru's post of Sep 29, 2008 3:20 PM.

Why did you feel compelled to respond Lodian? Why do you care? "

Robb wrote on Sep 29, 2008 4:11 PM:

" and... your point is?? "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 3:57 PM:

" Aimee wrote "SportsGuru: Actually, I have a juris doctorate degree."

Aimee: Why are you compelled to make sure we know this information? "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 3:53 PM:

" SportsGuru: How did you do it? You have me pegged perfectly! LOL!!! ;-) "

Aimee wrote on Sep 29, 2008 3:32 PM:

" SportsGuru:

Actually, I have a juris doctorate degree. If you'd care to debate me on the finer points of the law, I'll be glad to oblige, "Your Honor". "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 29, 2008 3:20 PM:

" .
AIMEE Wrote:

My personal legal opinion..."

AND

..If memory serves, Lodian has stated that she is a current/former employee of LUSD.

For all we know, you are an Exotic Dancer and Lodian is a Dominatrix in real life.

So .. I guess I'll claim I am a California Supreme Court Justice, and that people should pay attention to my advice - and ignore yours - because (afterall) I am a Supreme Court Justice!

Sheesh ... "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 29, 2008 3:15 PM:

" .
LEONARD WROTE:
To my mind, pointing a half cocked bow at some one is just as bad as pointing an unloaded gun at them. If a child of mine did either of these things they would receive a punishment that would engrave the laws of safe weapons handling on their youthful mind for all time.

Hey, Leonard
By your own logic... if your kid pointed a loaded gun at someone accidentally, the gun owner would go to jail.

Who owned the bow and arrow and had responsibility for it's safe use? The girl's parents? I think not.... "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 1:52 PM:

" getreal: Try blogging again when you can take what you dish out. And until you can handle someone that disagrees with you maybe you should stick to your celebrity gossip rags. :-) "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 1:47 PM:

" getreal wrote on Sep 29, 2008 1:23 PM:

" To Lodi Resident: Taking your advice. "

getreal: LOL! Sure, take the advice of someone that posts every few months (with another handle) only to make a nasty comment about another blogger and never adding anything to the topic being discussed. Great debate tactic getreal. Can't you handle the discussion when someone disagrees with you? Sorry it's too much for you. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 1:31 PM:

" anna macanas (Sep 26, 2008 8:27 AM): Well said. This should in part reflect on Fisher's training, supervision and safety procedures with his class/students. Time to make this a safer class activity and add some safety tips on those arrows. It's not a big deal and it sure couldn't hurt. Most weapons have a safety on them so why not the weapons these kids are using? They are, after all, in the hands of children. "

getreal wrote on Sep 29, 2008 1:23 PM:

" To Lodi Resident: Taking your advice. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 1:20 PM:

" getreal wrote "This girl seems to be concerned that she had a "goody two shoe" rep. and is excited to be known as a rebel. Good luck Mr and Mrs. Sheriff, sounds like your daughter is searching for another kind of popularity."

getreal: This is inappropriate. Now you are trying to accuse this girl saying she did this on purpose? What is wrong with you? Everyone involved said they believe that this girl did not do anything wrong on purpose. So, what makes you believe you have the right to decide that she had a motive for what she was accused? I wonder if you write for a gossip rag or something because you can sure spin and twist a story. Shame on you as this is just a young girl. She doesn't need you to talk crap about her. Are you an adult? "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 1:13 PM:

" We've got bigger things to be concerned about today. The DOW is down 679 points.

Today has seen the biggest one day drop in history, down 735 points. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 1:06 PM:

" getreal: Even the brightest young person will make a mistake, especially when learning a new skill/activity. Also, just because someone has high academic marks does not necessarily mean they have such prowess in sports activities or weapons handling. This young girl had trouble with her bow and looked to the adult for help and guidance. "

getreal wrote on Sep 29, 2008 12:40 PM:

" LodiReaderFromStockton: you know what they say about asuming. The point is that someone this bright should be aware of simple safety procedures and should have been listening to the the saftey instruction part of this class Had she done this she would know the rules or very simply she was not paying attention. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 10:45 AM:

" Again, the safety procedures need to be reviewed for this archery class and safety tips need to be added to these arrows. Maybe this incident will help to make this class/activity safer while the kids learn to handle the bow and arrow. One must be prepared for kids to make a mistake when teaching a new activity. I think this has shown Lodi Middle (and everyone else) that there should be more safety measures taken in this class... just in case a kid makes a mistake while learning to handle this weapon. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 10:29 AM:

" Leonard wrote "At what point should the girl be held accountable for her actions?"

When she wakes up in the morning!

One needs to keep in-mind that she's still a kid and not an adult.

A 13-year-old is responsible for her own actions, choices and mistakes. I do not say that this girl shouldn't be addressed regarding this incident. I do think the adult in charge of the instruction and supervision of the class needs to think about this incident himself. The problem here is that we don't have all the details or know those certain specifics that would allow us to form a better opinion on the matter. With what we know, I have a problem with just sending this girl home with a suspension. It does nothing to make sure she knows how to handle the bow and arrow, if in fact she actually had the darn thing pointed at the teacher as Fisher states. We all know now that all involved know the girl didn't do it on purpose, and mistakes should be expected from a kid. The reaction/decision from the teacher, admin and Douglas should be different than what they've-handed-down-as "punishment". "

Robb wrote on Sep 29, 2008 10:14 AM:

" There is NO recourse for Poor judgment,
deal with it, move on....let it die... "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 10:07 AM:

" Aimee (8:38am): Your memory fails you. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 29, 2008 10:05 AM:

" Leonard wrote "There is no reason that children can't learn to shoot bows in PE as long as they are well instructed, closely monitored and strictly disciplined."

I absolutely agree. "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 29, 2008 9:59 AM:

" Sounds to me like getreal is jealous this little girl has a 4.0 gpa... I'm assuming her/his child does not. "

Aimee wrote on Sep 29, 2008 8:38 AM:

" SportsGuru wrote: "The mom should call the Pacific Legal Foundation. They give free advice and legal assistance for cases like these."

My personal legal opinion is that the parents should just let this issue die and go on with their lives--their effort to do so may already be in progress. This issue is not deserving of any time in court, although the adminstrative appeal is available should they choose to utilize it.

Professorssj wrote: "Unless you know them, you have NO right to judge them... what do you do? Are you a parent? Have you ever volunteered in your child's classroom to witness first-hand the challenges that educators face today????? "

If memory serves, Lodian has stated that she is a current/former employee of LUSD and a frequent contributor (blogger) to any LNS article that has to do with teens. "

sam wrote on Sep 29, 2008 8:04 AM:

" Leonard said "There is no reason that children can't learn to shoot bows in PE as long as they are well instructed, closely monitored and strictly disciplined."

Well said, Leonard. "

sam wrote on Sep 29, 2008 8:03 AM:

" getreal, I agree with you. I learned archery in middle school, as did my kids.

I am sorry this young lady could not follow directions. I have a feeling all this drama will result in the program being pulled.

I loved PE. I remember being exposed to so many different sports and loving it. "

Leonard wrote on Sep 29, 2008 5:25 AM:

" bumblebee wrote on Sep 28, 2008 7:45 PM:
" Bottom line in this discussion:

Children should not be using weapons that are very dangerous as a Physical activity!


Not at all. There is no reason that children can't learn to shoot bows in PE as long as they are well instructed, closely monitored and strictly disciplined. "

bumblebee wrote on Sep 28, 2008 9:11 PM:

" Even the principal knows that the child was given a deadly weapon

Paragraph 20:"Principal Sanchez reduced the original recommendation to just two-and-a-half days of suspension and told the Nesbitts that Elizabeth could have been expelled since she technically pointed a deadly weapon at someone. (Nesbitt disagrees, since the school put the so-called weapon in her child's hands.)" "

getreal wrote on Sep 28, 2008 9:01 PM:

" A target is used for a bow and arrow, much like darts. It is a sport. My first experience with a bow and arrow was in middle school. I was instructed how to use the equipment. My daughter is in this class, she was instructed how to use the equipment, just as Ms. Nesbitt was, and she was taught not to point the equipment at anyone. Common saftey knowledge, especially for a 4.0 GPA student. "

bumblebee wrote on Sep 28, 2008 8:31 PM:

" OTH"

Those uses are not the intention of the Object. A baseball bat is made to play a game with, and a pencil is made as a writing utensil.

And as I stated before the main purpose of a bow and arrow is to use it as a weapon. "

OTH wrote on Sep 28, 2008 8:25 PM:

" bumblebee

A baseball bat can be used as a weapon. A pencil as well. Being slammed in the head with a baseball bat or stabbed with a pencil can hurt. The pencil won't hurt you depending on where you're stabbed but a baseball bat can do major damage if not kill someone with one swing. "

roni95242 wrote on Sep 28, 2008 8:13 PM:

" I think Proffessorj is a P.E. Teacher at Lodi Middle School.
This person seems to know A LOT OF DETAILS about the incident.
Why REAL bows and arrows why not the ones that have velcro to ensure that NO ONE gets hurt??
According to teachers they have big classes ( NOT conducive for bows and arrows) What about the Principal? (another crappy principal followed by the former crappy Principals @ Lodi Middle who have now been promoted to the D.O. and Odie these guys are making the big bucks let them handle this THEY WONT!!! "

bumblebee wrote on Sep 28, 2008 7:45 PM:

" Bottom line in this discussion:

Children should not be using weapons that are very dangerous as a Physical activity!

LUSD Gave a minor(under the age of 18) a "weapon" yes people it is a weapon.

A baseball bat or pencil is not a weapon. The purpose of a bow and arrow is to "shoot" a target or hunt prey not to write on paper or to hit a baseball.

This Child should have never been put in this situation and LUSD would be smart to remove it from their academic program along with Miss. Nesbitt's suspension. Because in my personal opinion it seems like a huge liability that in the future could cost the district millions of dollars! "

Leonard wrote on Sep 28, 2008 6:40 PM:

" Lodian wrote on Sep 28, 2008 5:12 PM:

If the teacher feels this bright young lady made a dangerous move, and also knows she did not do it by screwing around or anything, then it may be time to reevaluate the safety portion of the class. Just don't punish this kid with suspension and not look over the whole picture here.


At what point should the girl be held accountable for her actions?

If she had fully drawn the bow?

If she had actually accidentally shot someone?

If, heaven forbid, she had actually killed someone?

The rule is simplicity itself. In fact, it is so simple that even a 4.0 student with plans for college like Miss Nesbitt ought to have been able to understand them.

If she didn't, I can only assume that she wasn't paying attention. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 28, 2008 5:48 PM:

" getreal wrote "Lodian, your continued rant..."

What rant? LOL! "

Lodian wrote on Sep 28, 2008 5:46 PM:

" professorssj wrote on Sep 27, 2008 11:59 AM (regarding Lodi Middle) "They are some of the most excellent teachers in this screwed up CA public school system!!!"

professorssj: Wow! It's time you get out to the school more often. There are some good teachers at Lodi Middle and there are really bad teachers at Lodi Middle, IMO. These bad teachers can set a kid back, and that's not a good thing right before they go off to high school. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 28, 2008 5:22 PM:

" ....and unacceptable! "

Lodian wrote on Sep 28, 2008 5:22 PM:

" Rhodie: I do not think Elkhorn is a joke, nor do I think it should be completely shut down. It's a serious matter.

The LUSD GATE program needs to be revamped as it does not serve the highly gifted students in this district as it should. We have been over this already, on other blogs, and you know my position. I see that you are being flip and accusatory in trying to start something, but the fact is that there are too many kids in GATE/Elkhorn that are not gifted. They may be sharp and they are high achievers, but they are not in the gifted range. That is very hard for some parents to hear. It seems "gifted" just means a good student these days through the LUSD. I know some kids at Elkhorn right now that ARE highly gifted and they are bored out of their minds because there are too many reg ed students in their classes that the teacher must teach to everyday. This is really sad. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 28, 2008 5:12 PM:

" Leonard wrote "I'm not talking about bringing a gun to school, I am talking about the basic rules of weapons handling in any context."

Leonard: I believe that when one is teaching/training a young kid how to handle a weapon then one must take great responsibility and care in that training. Kids are not adults and they do not have the same maturity and wherewithal an adult may have when understanding the capabilities and seriousness of handling a weapon.

If the teacher feels this bright young lady made a dangerous move, and also knows she did not do it by screwing around or anything, then it may be time to reevaluate the safety portion of the class. Just don't punish this kid with suspension and not look over the whole picture here. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 28, 2008 5:01 PM:

" IMO, this kid should not be suspended, as there was no malice or intent....and there is even a difference in opinion as to what happened that day. If I were this teacher I would want to get in gear big time, thinking I must have missed a chance to make a bigger impression on these kids, and start in heavily on safety and handling of these weapons.

Sending this kid home doesn't do a thing to teach where she may have went wrong anyway. In this girls case, she turned to seek out her teacher's help. Maybe she unknowingly raised the bow and maybe it was turned towards the ground. No one here knows for sure. If the teacher feels it was a dangerous move then he needs to go over safety all over again, remembering they-are-kids. And maybe have this young lady go over the safety procedures for the class.

I think this suspension "punishment" is too harsh. More needs to be directed towards reviewing safety instruction and procedures. I'm thinking that if this kid can make a mistake then surely there are others at Lodi Middle that can really screw up. Get-some-safety tips-on-those-arrows! "

Lodian wrote on Sep 28, 2008 4:37 PM:

" Leonard wrote "Are you contending that the students were not told not to point the weapons at people?"

No.

Leonard: I believe that the teacher instructed the kids not to point the weapon at anyone. "

s & W 500 wrote on Sep 28, 2008 4:25 PM:

" It was an "incident" where no one was hurt. As such, I do not think it she go on her permanent record.

Bows are just as deadly as a gun! The teacher should have given better instructions on what to do in the event of a problem.

Good luck to all involved, but we have more important issues in front of us all! "

Leonard wrote on Sep 28, 2008 7:34 AM:

" Lodian wrote on Sep 27, 2008 11:41 PM:
" Leonard: Sorry I missed your earlier post. You made good comments. I think a gun being brought to the school by a student is much different than a student being given a bow & arrow by the teacher for a PE activity.


I'm not talking about bringing a gun to school, I am talking about the basic rules of weapons handling in any context.

I am confused by some of what you have said here. Are you contending that the students were not told not to point the weapons at people? "

Rhodie wrote on Sep 28, 2008 12:52 AM:

" Lodian wrote on Sep 27, 2008 11:05 PM: professorssj: I disagree with you. There are a few teachers at Lodi Middle that should retire, IMO. I can make this comment due to first hand experience with them. I would not allow a child of mine to attend Lodi Middle and be in their classes."

And i know from our discussions that you think Elkhorn is a joke that should be closed down. So, in your opinion, which middle school is the best in the district? Why? "

Lodian wrote on Sep 27, 2008 11:41 PM:

" Leonard: Sorry I missed your earlier post. You made good comments. I think a gun being brought to the school by a student is much different than a student being given a bow & arrow by the teacher for a PE activity. I don't think that archery should be dropped at the school, but after this incident I do think they should review the safety instructions that Fisher gives his students. I also think that there should be some kind of safety device on the bow & arrow. I would think they would at least review all the procedures.

I know it's rather old school, but if a teacher thinks the kid did something wrong then make her do something to make up for it that relates to the incident. Not many kids learn a thing by being sent home. Have the girl do the set-up and clean-up. Have her do something after school involving the archery equipment etc. After all, it's all about teaching. This would make her spend more time away from what she may prefer doing and she would also learn more about archery and how safe one must be when handling such a weapon. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 27, 2008 11:05 PM:

" professorssj: I disagree with you. There are a few teachers at Lodi Middle that should retire, IMO. I can make this comment due to first hand experience with them. I would not allow a child of mine to attend Lodi Middle and be in their classes. I could share more, but it would be inappropriate to get more personal online. "

Lodi Resident wrote on Sep 27, 2008 5:14 PM:

" To everyone other than Lodian:

I don't understand why you engage Lodian. You will never have a meaningful dialogue. Lodian simply answers questions with questions.

Also, Lodian had been posting on these boards 24/7 for the past 12 months.

Lodian needs to get out and enjoy our beautiful community and all it has to offer. "

Mrs. S. wrote on Sep 27, 2008 3:02 PM:

" Leonard, your Wentworth story was funny! I love the Onion! "

getreal wrote on Sep 27, 2008 3:02 PM:

" danielH: I should say it was the fault of the football players not verners. your comments never seize to amaze me. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 27, 2008 2:33 PM:

" danielH - and judging from what? The parent's story, the teenager's ever changing story... YOU HAVE NOT HEARD BOTH SIDES.... But, I guess ignorance is bliss when you can just spout a statement off like that! "

getreal wrote on Sep 27, 2008 2:33 PM:

" oh danielH it was Pete's fault instead of Verners too. "

danielH wrote on Sep 27, 2008 2:25 PM:

" It was the PE teacher's fault, not the student's. "

getreal wrote on Sep 27, 2008 2:15 PM:

" I should correct myself, "these stories made a fool of both these parents". "

getreal wrote on Sep 27, 2008 1:49 PM:

" Lodian, your continued rant reinforces the choices these parent made to go to the media instead of through the proper channels. After reading your blogs I would gather you are a parent that would go this route or already have. This type of behaviour deserves no respect. These parents skirt administration and believe their children should not be treated like everyone else. Where is the maturity in teaching your children to hold up a school district by going to the media? The Sentinel has made a fool of both these parents. "

Leonard wrote on Sep 27, 2008 1:00 PM:

" LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 27, 2008 12:33 PM:
" How exactly is an idiot driving a fast car relavent to this? As for whoever asked if I am a parent.


Well, it speaks to the issue of parents who try to insure that their children never have to face the consequences of their actions. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 27, 2008 12:50 PM:

" I am not Ron Fisher, or associated with him. I am an educator and can COMPLETELY understand this, sympathize with both sides and support this educator for standing by his rules. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 27, 2008 12:49 PM:

" LodiReaderFromStockton- you have my respect as a parent. Now, put yourself in the shoes of the instructor:
You have a large class of students- Lodi Middle is growing with HUGE class sizes in PE... and you have to control the students, using rules and regulations and ramifications for them... you spend weeks teaching safety and proper use of the equipment, testing students on this and insuring that all students know the rules and the ramifications... accident or not.
One student isn't paying attention, points the bow at you and is unintentionally aiming at you, you shout for the student to point to the ground, several times, other students are upset and YOU must enforce the rules. Although the ramification is a week suspension, you reduce it given that this is a good student. You feel you are being generous.
The next week, a newspaper article comes out. There is not interview of you, your take on the incident, just the teenager's parent's side of the story... and the reader opinion of those who don't know the real story is to skewer and bbq you... "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 27, 2008 12:33 PM:

" How exactly is an idiot driving a fast car relavent to this? As for whoever asked if I am a parent.

Yes, I'm a parent, I have raised 3 children, I have volunteered in their schools, their sports, all of it.

I'm not saying educators don't have it hard and don't have some serious issues to deal with. This story IMO is a miniscule problem compared to what they have to deal with.

She wasn't mad at the teacher and pointing the arrow at him because he pissed her off, she wasn't trying to harm him, she wasn't trying to be funny. She was aking for help.

As for her "changing her story" and signing the paper, come on you have to remember how intimidating the principan can be. Of course when threatened with expulsion (ludacris IMO) she's going to agree to a small suspension.

I really don't think the poor girl did anything wrong. And I am NOT one of those parents who say "OH, not MY baby!!!" My kids have been in trouble before and when that happened they had to face the punishment (never anything violent or real serious)... "

Leonard wrote on Sep 27, 2008 12:10 PM:

" In a related incident:

SOMERSET, NJIn what local authorities are calling a "near tragedy," Charles Wentworth, a 17-year-old Rutgers Preparatory senior and member of the affluent Wentworth family, came perilously close to suffering a consequence resulting from his own wrongdoing Saturday.
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Wentworth made his senior photo shoot even after coming within inches of an actual repercussion from the accident.

Wentworth, reportedly ignoring the protests of his classmates, got behind the wheel of his turbocharged Supra 2000GT after consuming half the contents of a bottle of Goldschlger at a friend's party. While driving westbound on Route 27, a disoriented Wentworth drifted across two lanes of traffic and collided with a minivan carrying a family of four, bringing the teen face-to-face with a potentially life-altering lesson.

Wentworth escaped unscathed and unpunished, however, when his airbags deployed and a team of high-powered attorneys rushed to the scene and rescued him from the brink of personal responsibility.


http://www.theonion.com/content/news/wealthy_teen_nearly_experiences "

professorssj wrote on Sep 27, 2008 11:59 AM:

" Again, you Lodi people should be questioning the fact that these are the people you are entrusting your kids' education to. "-- you Lodi people... I am living in Stockton and I would WHOLEHEARTEDLY entrust my children to Mr. Fisher and any one of the teacher at Lodi Middle School. They are some of the most excellent teachers in this screwed up CA public school system!!!

Unless you know them, you have NO right to judge them... what do you do? Are you a parent? Have you ever volunteered in your child's classroom to witness first-hand the challenges that educators face today????? "

professorssj wrote on Sep 27, 2008 11:56 AM:

" LodiReaderFromStockton
She asked for help with a loaaded bow and arrow pointed at her teacher's head!!!!!! What part of this don't you understand?
Yes, it absolutely is her fault, accident or not, it is her fault! She knew the rules- never point a loaded arrow at anyone... she contradicts her story- one point saying she pointed it at the teacher, then switches to say it was pointed to the ground!
If the ramifications for breaking the rules were a five-day suspension, of which the student was fully aware, and it was reduced to 2, then the school and teacher were being QUITE generous in their penalty.

Yes, it absolutely is coddling... and shame on the parents for putting their child, now in a position of being ridiculed for her parents going to the press for this. The parents should have used the appropriate avenues and vehicles.. how many other parents are now calling the press because their child (and she's a teenager), didn't like the grade they received. "

Leonard wrote on Sep 27, 2008 11:18 AM:

" The idea that Middle School records are somehow relevant to college admission is absurd.

I was suspended a couple of times in eight grade for fighting of all things and I had no problem whatsoever getting into the competitive college of my choice. "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 27, 2008 11:16 AM:

" To whoever said if it was a gun not a bow what would we think... Well we would think she was then a child who was a problem and a criminal because I don't think they would give kids guns on campus.

You actually made the point for us that she shouldn't be in trouble. This is something they gave to the students (God only knows why) and the teacher is obviously an overreactor who needs to rethink his carreer choice IMO.

She did not do anything malicious or wrong here. She was aking for help. The fact she was sent to the office amazes me I would have thought the pricipal would have been smart enough to let her go and tell the teacher he needs to calm down.

Again, you Lodi people should be questioning the fact that these are the people you are entrusting your kids' education to. "

Oh Bull ! wrote on Sep 27, 2008 10:33 AM:

" Lodian or is it Mrs Nesbitt- the problem is that most parents refuse to believe that their little angels aren't little angels. We should check back with this family in 3-4 years and see how well little lizzy really behaved in school. Also as far as the picture of course if you put a paper and pencil it makes them look like a great student. What a joke this is ! I've said it before and will say it again PARENTS NEED TO DROP BY SCHOOL ONCE IN AWHILE(unexpected)A see how kids act. PARENTS GET INVOLVED ALL your students aren't little angels!! "

Winston Wallace wrote on Sep 27, 2008 8:40 AM:

" If both the principal and teacher have told her they believe the incident was an accident , then let it go. Clear Elizabeth Nesbitt's record and let physical education Teacher Ron Fisher use his skills in a less dangerous sport like badmintion or table tennis. After all to be in charge of a group of young teenagers brandishing what are considered deadly weapons is going to take a level of coolness and courage not found in the average teacher. If no such teacher can be found I suggest Mr. Fisher be equipped with the proper safety equipment when training this group with these deadly weapons. A helmet with a face shield and armor proff vest should be considered. rubber tipped arrows for the archers could diminish some of the risk also. "

Gator wrote on Sep 27, 2008 8:00 AM:

" Genius has its limits. Stupidity knows no bounds. "

Leonard wrote on Sep 27, 2008 7:50 AM:

" My feeling from reading the posts here is that people with little or no personal experience in weapons handling are COMPLETELY missing the gravity of this incident. "

Leonard wrote on Sep 27, 2008 7:48 AM:

" Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:27 PM:
" There was a kid at the high school last year that ran across the quad at lunch and started beating on another kid, ON PURPOSE, with intent to do great harm. The bigger kid was just hammering on the smaller kid. The aggressor got a 3 day suspension. HUH? So, this 13 year old girl at Lodi Middle committed an offense as great as the kid that beat up another?


Again, I ask you, how would you have treated this if the weapon in question were a gun instead of a bow? "

Leonard wrote on Sep 27, 2008 7:47 AM:

" Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:09 PM:
" I don't think we have all the details. There's even a difference in stories between the people involved. It's not an unusual thing for the story in a newspaper to not be exactly what happened.


If the preposterous photo accompanying the article is not enough evidence of bias, I don't know what is.

Perhaps they could have included an artists rendering of the teacher killing some adorable puppies? "

gray cloud wrote on Sep 27, 2008 6:24 AM:

" Classic case of "MOP M"...."Meddling Over Protective Mother". Cut it loose mother, let it goooooooo.............. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 27, 2008 12:14 AM:

" getreal wrote "Lodian isn't anyone to pay much attention to. This is the person that blogged and blogged that is was acceptable to throw up the T for Thiz. Another parent in denial."

getreal: Can't you discuss this topic with respect and maturity? So, what exactly am I in denial about...in your opinion? "

getreal wrote on Sep 27, 2008 12:00 AM:

" Lodian isn't anyone to pay much attention to. This is the person that blogged and blogged that is was acceptable to throw up the T for Thiz. Another parent in denial. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:27 PM:

" There was a kid at the high school last year that ran across the quad at lunch and started beating on another kid, ON PURPOSE, with intent to do great harm. The bigger kid was just hammering on the smaller kid. The aggressor got a 3 day suspension. HUH? So, this 13 year old girl at Lodi Middle committed an offense as great as the kid that beat up another? I don't think so. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:23 PM:

" professorssj: I don't see this as coddling by this student's parents. I don't know this family personally so I don't know for sure, but from what I am reading this is my opinion. I think they are standing up for what they think is right, the truth. I see them standing behind their daughter as she feels she was not pointing a bow & arrow at her teacher. This zero tolerance has gone too far. Of course we need to nail the kids to the wall that brings weapons to school, start fights, engage in gang activity etc etc etc, but this case is absolutely nothing of the sort and should be handled much differently. The punishment does not fit the crime, as is often the case these days. This includes intentional bad behavior and then again for those that just goof up now and then...both ends of the spectrum. There are different kinds of kids and each situation should be addressed individually, not just slapped with some blanket punishment or suspension. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:12 PM:

" professorssj:

"Your name?"
Lodian

"You seem so ignorant?"
What do you think I am ignorant about? "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:09 PM:

" I don't think we have all the details. There's even a difference in stories between the people involved. It's not an unusual thing for the story in a newspaper to not be exactly what happened. I think it is inappropriate what was stated on the suspension report. It makes it sound like the girl was some sort of problem student and could have very well pointed the bow & arrow at the teacher intentionally. I have an issue with the "padding" of these behavior reports. Why not say that this kid turned to look for her teacher, while having trouble with her weapon, to look for help not realizing her bow & arrow may have been pointed at someone. No aggression, no malice, no screwing around, no disrespect and not on purpose. There was a spin on this suspension report story and it's really not okay. I think the mother is doing the right thing in appealing this suspension. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:08 PM:

" you might get a better handle on this new generation of coddlers and babies:
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2007/11/08/60minutes/main3475200.shtml "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:00 PM:

" Lodian-
get real... no it's not Fisher. I am, however, in education, a professor, and I am a parent. And, I am sick of the naivite and ignorance of the general public and the coddling of our kids and disrespect of those who are trying to do what is right.

Your name? You seem so ignorant? "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:51 PM:

" professorssj: Is your name Fisher?
You seem so incredibly angry. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:27 PM:

" Shame on you Lodi News Sentinal for such irresponsible journalism... no digging into the story, interviewing all partes... simply writing what the parent is telling you as truth...this story is nothing more than a myspace story, a facebook story.. only what the parent wants the public to know... not both sides... .careless and irresponsible for any news media... at least any serious news media!!!!

Shame on you Lodi News Sentinal! "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:42 PM:

" would you be upset if a an arrow was "inadvertently pointed it at you??"

Would you reprimand a 13-year old who knew better, who knew the rules?????

And, had he not, what might have happened?

Had he or a student been shot inadvertently, this story would be about a different parent whose child was shot because another kid wasn't paying attention... the school would be sued... and if the instructor was shot... who would be suing whom???? "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:39 PM:

" Last week, Elizabeth was among a group of students who lined up to practice shooting at targets with their bows and arrows. When hers was unusually tight, she turned to her teacher to ask for help in pulling it back and inadvertently pointed it at him, Nesbitt said.

inadvertently pointed it at him, Nesbitt said.

inadvertently pointed it at him, Nesbitt said.

inadvertently pointed it at him, Nesbitt said.

inadvertently pointed it at him, Nesbitt said.

Nesbitt said she inadvertently pointed the bow at him... then changed her story for this reporter to say it was pointed at the ground... it is not Fisher's story that keeps changing here... it is hers!!!!!!!!!

READ THE STORY!!!!!! "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:36 PM:

" professorssj:

AS A PARENT I COMPLETELY DISAGREE WITH YOU... AS A PARENT, IT IS THE 13-YEAR OLD'S RESPONSIBILITY TO UNDERSTAND THE RULES AND THE RAMIFICATIONS>.. that is the problem with our society... we treat 13 year olds like they are 5... they are not... they are fully aware and able to comprehend the difference between right and wrong... parents who "coddle' their kids are doing them such a disservice... did you know there are parents who are completing college applications, job applications, and resumes for their adult kids... and even going to interviews with them, calling in sick for them to work.... WE LIVE IN A RIDICULOUS AGE... I grew up where falling on your face taught you something.. you pulled yourself up by your bootstraps... and certainly with the loving support of family... but not the coddling. And my generation produced some of the greatest minds, leaders, problem solvers of any generation... babying a 13-year old will not teach her anything. This teacher was MORE THAN FAIR!!!! "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:31 PM:

" professorssj wrote "For this to be played out this way is unforgivable... all of you who want to hang an teacher for doing his job... you should be made accountable."

professorssj: I think if a kid did something of a similar nature out in public you would be all over the parent/adult/guardian of this kid. You would blame the adult. You would be saying - where is the adult here - why did they allow this to happen - aren't they teaching this kid to behave and conduct themselves properly? Am I right?

This girl said she did not point the bow & arrow at the teacher. The teacher has a different story. Again, I say, Mr. Fisher's teaching regarding safety with these deadly weapons needs to be reviewed before another class of children is given deadly weapons. This should be the very least that is done at Lodi Middle. "

Leonard wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:17 PM:

" Lodian, I wonder if you would be more concerned about this girls actions if the deadly weapon in question was a gun.

Like guns, bow are perfectly safe if they are handled in a safe manner. However, insuring that they are handled in a safe manner, especially when you are teaching children, requires strict discipline.

To my mind, pointing a half cocked bow at some one is just as bad as pointing an unloaded gun at them. If a child of mine did either of these things they would receive a punishment that would engrave the laws of safe weapons handling on their youthful mind for all time. "

Leonard wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:13 PM:

" Am I the only one who thinks the picture accompanying the article is simply absurd? "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:13 PM:

" lodian: because I have a child in the class that told me that were instructed on the rules. She needed to be reprimanded, but the biggest problem is this is "another one of those mothers" that resorts to the media to get attention for their problems, instead of taking care of business at home and with LUSD directly through the appeals process. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:11 PM:

" Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:42 PM:-
I can tell you FOR A FACT that this student was given weeks of time with the instructor reviewing the rules and safety regulations and she knew, even versed the ramifications, of breaking those rules...

SO STOP BLAMING THE TEACHER HERE...A student broke the rules and was FULLY aware of the ramifications of her actions. She signed the form acknowledging this and even acknowledged it to her parents.

For this to be played out this way is unforgivable... all of you who want to hang an teacher for doing his job... you should be made accountable.

The parents are at fault here... ABSOLUTELY AT FAULT... first for not taking this through the system, and seconly for taking this to the one-sided Lodi News Seninal.

DO YOUR HOMEWORK BEFORE YOU ACCUSE AN INNOCENT AND CONSCIENTIOUS FACULTY MEMBER WHO EVEN REDUCED HIS PENALTY BY THREE DAYS OF SUSPENSION FOR A "GOOD STUDENT."

Enough of this b.s....
The parents are trying to save face here and make their child out to be faultless.... b.s.... "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:50 PM:

" I think it's time Fisher and his teachings regarding safety with a "deadly weapon" are reviewed before he hands more students these "deadly weapons". "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:50 PM:

" It was stated that "Elizabeth maintains she was pointing it toward the ground, not Fisher." "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:44 PM:

" Maybe Fisher didn't do his job. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:42 PM:

" getreal wrote "Sports guru, I have said consistently is this girl either didn't listen when told the rules or chose to ignore them."

getreal: How do you know for sure that this girl was properly taught "the rules"? "

Mrs. S. wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:20 PM:

" P.S., If I were Elizabeth's mother, I wouldn't raise such a stink about this. "

dyan wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:05 PM:

" Maybe they could take her cell phone away for a week. Naw. That would be torture. "

Timothy wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:02 PM:

" Neo, I think you misread my sarcasm towards the "said smart" girl pointing the arrow at the teacher.

I agree 100% with you that they should run laps. Add a few pushups and sit ups and they may get in shape. Forget the props.

If the "so called smart" kids cannot follow the rules, the bows and arrows need to be put away.

Lizzy Laps, with pushups and situps. Get these kids in shape. "

Mrs. S. wrote on Sep 26, 2008 7:59 PM:

" On one hand, this is only middle school. I don't think it will hurt Elizabeth's chances should she run for president, or anything.

However, I think the teacher and principal overreacted. If the teacher wanted to make sure she learned a lesson about safety, he should have thought of a different punishment (after school time? essay about archery safety?).

It's possible that he wanted to set an example with her, so that the goof-off types would understand that pointing a loaded bow at someone was a serious offense. They'd be more likely to cause accidents. "

dyan wrote on Sep 26, 2008 7:59 PM:

" I say we go back to pizza exercises. It's a lot less dangerous to shove 1/8th of a pepperoni in one's mouth. "

Neo wrote on Sep 26, 2008 7:41 PM:

" Timothy, when I went to school, running laps was called "exercise". So you`d rather teach kids how to use a dangerous weapon than how to stay physically fit!! Come on! You cannot tell me that archery is a valued skill in this day abd age. "

anna macanas wrote on Sep 26, 2008 5:21 PM:

" Again . . . if it is a deadly weapon, why is it being given to children at school. Where, by the way, we don't allow weapons. Does the school Really think out of All those children no one is going to accidently point it where they shouldn't? These Are children remember, who are there to learn and are Expected to make mistakes. The school has blown this whole thing out of perportion. This should never have been a suspension. "

Timothy wrote on Sep 26, 2008 5:18 PM:

" Hey,Neo, let's get rid of all sports that require a brain and make them run laps.

In honor of Dizzy Lizzy, we can refer to the new PE program as the "Lizzy Laps".

Every child going through Lodi Middle School will now know they can thank Lizzy for the "Lizzy Lap" program. "

roni95242 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 5:08 PM:

" It is time to shut down the archery program. This is just an accident waiting to happen!!! There are too many kids per class and this is one thing that needs VERY SMALL class size to be safe Get rid of the bows and arrows. Wait until it is NOT an accident then what?? Someone will be hurt or worse!!Lodi Middle is a terrible school anyway from the TOP ALL THE WAY DOWN! I would NEVER allow my kids to attend that school and the District is a Joke also.Mr. Douglass makes a TON of your Taxpayer dollars!! This is our taxes hard at work!!! Again Good Job, LUSD........ NOT "

Timothy wrote on Sep 26, 2008 5:00 PM:

" Neo, I agree. If the kids are too dumb to follow directions get rid of the bows and arrows and make them run laps.

I am so sick of parents who jump on the teacher to protect their kid from the consequences of their dumb actions.

Hey, what ever happened to the Lodi High kid who was suing because the Lodi High Staff did not do CPR well enough? He lives but believes his mental problems (dumbness) is due to the fact that he was not revived fast enough. The defibrillator miss fired.

If I was that teacher who tried to help him, I would sue his family for sending the kid to school with a known heart problem. Mental stress.

Actually, maybe this teacher should sue this girl's family for the undo stress she put him under. Also the two student's who were in the line of fire may be ruined for life too... maybe they should sue the girl's family too? "

samiam wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:54 PM:

" I'm going to go put a pancake on my head now. "

Neo wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:38 PM:

" So bows and arrows are OK but pen knives will get you expelled? What`s wrong with this picture? "

Neo wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:37 PM:

" In this day and age it is COMPLETELY reckless for LUSD to even HAVE bows and arrows on school grounds!! Is LUSD just waiting for a lawsuit or what? Why not just put in a shooting range for good measure!! "

Rhodie wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:29 PM:

" "Then the girlie man yelled and sent her to the office."


I wonder how loud you would scream if you looked up and there was a teen with a bow and arrow aimed in your direction? "

Rhodie wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:27 PM:

" "Obviously someone didn't read the entire article or comprehend it. She couldn't get the thing pulled back."

From the article: "But Elizabeth maintains she was pointing it toward the ground, not Fisher.
"I could barely pull back, like barely an inch," she said Thursday. "He said if I let it go he would have been punctured. If I would have let it go, it would have hit the ground."

We are not given details as to how far she was from him. Also, pull out a ruler, an inch is a very small amount. From her perspective it may have felt like and inch, but in reality it could have been several. It doesn't take much for an arrow to fly 15 ft.

The news I was watching this week was talking about a reporter who did a gun safty course including a simulator as to a gun fight. One of the exit questions was how many shots did you fire. He said three, he fired ten. He wasn't lying but his perception was not reality. "

Oh Bull ! wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:24 PM:

" Lodireader- Not sure what the name stands for(LOL!) because the article clearly states she had pulled the arrow back some. Maybe try reading it AGAIN or just move on to the next paper. "

Rhodie wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:21 PM:

" "With your 1st question, are you implying that the kid purposely pointed the bow and arrow?"

I had archery when I was in the Boy Scouts. The bow was never aimed at anything I didn't intend to point it at. I was 11. I think she intentionally pointed it at the instructor to show how tight the string was but was not thinking as to how dangerous it was. I seriously doubt there was malice, she doesn't sound like the kind of girl that would do that, but there was carelessness and there has to be a consequence to that.

I would like to hear the full story from the fellow students and teacher's perspectives. Was she goofing around or in another way not treating it with the respect it should have been?

I think three days is a suitable reminder never to take safty for granted. And as a side note in referance to the violent kids who start fights at school, I think their suspensions should be 5 school days, increasing with repeated offenses. "

Timothy wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:19 PM:

" Rhodie, I think this girl was horsing around and acting inappropriately. I think she was not paying attention. I do not think the teacher over reacted. Why would he put himself through all this drama if she truly was "just asking for help."

Also " Two other students were also in the line of fire and were shaken up."

The mom is over playing her daughter's innocence. Goody two shoes screw up too. She blew it. Deal with the punishment. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:19 PM:

" odiReaderFromStockton- she had it pulled, she needed to pull back to shoot, but had she released it, there was enough tension, that she certainly would have wounded someone. "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:17 PM:

" 2. If the string had slipped from her fingers and the teacher been wounded, then should she be suspended then?

Obviously someone didn't read the entire article or comprehend it. She couldn't get the thing pulled back. That is why she turned to ask for help. Then the girlie man yelled and sent her to the office.

Then another bad decision was made by the head honcho to suspend her for 5 days and make her feel lucky because she could have been expelled for pointing a dangerous weapon, that they put in her hand, at the teacher.

Does this not sound as silly to anyone else besides me? "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:16 PM:

" .
Rhodie Wrote:
"I've seen teens get their eyesockets smashed because they decided to walk behind someone swinging a golf club."

So should the golf club swinger be suspended because someone was dumb enough to walk behind someone swinging a golf club?

Or on the other side, should the person hit by the club be suspended because they made the mistake of walking behind someone swinging a golf club?

Neither make sense because both scenario's were probably the result of a mistake (not paying attention), not the result of a bad decision (consciously DECIDING to walk behind the golf club swinger).
"

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:15 PM:

" Rhodie- here, here! I agree with you completely!!! "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:14 PM:

" .
The last line of this article is almost funny:

He would not comment if there have been any other incidents with Lodi Middle School's archery program..

TRANSLATION: It has happened before, but we handled it differently so we are going to hide behind the veil of "privacy".

..but.. the district has had to deal with other cases of students with dangerous items.

Um .. "other dangerous items" being guns? Knives? Pepper spray?

Again, I hate to beat a dead horse here but - pointing a gun, knife or pepper spray has MALICE written all over it (unless Lodi Middle also has pistol shooting, knife throwing and peper spraying classes). "

Rhodie wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:11 PM:

" And carelessness is not limited to guns, cars and arrows. I've seen teens get their eyesockets smashed because they decided to walk behind someone swinging a golf club. I saw a cather get knocked out because she leaned into a batter's swing. I've also seen a kid get his nose shattered by a bat becuase the kid swinging it just picked it up and swung without looking around. I had a kid on my soccer team get hit in the face with the soccer ball because another kid thought it would be fun to kick the soccer ball through the crowd. Everyone, and kids especially, need to learn to always think safty. This is a painful lesson for the young lady, but I don't think she will ever engage in an action like this again without knowing how dangerous it is. "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:11 PM:

" .
Rhodie

If she pointed the weapon with MALICE (wanted to scare or threaten) then I would support KICKING HER OUT OF SCHOOL! But this article says she basically made a mistake by pointing a weapon while trying to ask for assistance. Ask any cop if one of their peers has ever accidentally pointed a gun at the shooting range. The answer would be "yes" (and they aren't 13 years old).

With your 1st question, are you implying that the kid purposely pointed the bow and arrow?

For question 2, my answer is "Yes, she probably should be suspended".

But your hypothetical "what if she had been shot" didn't happen, now, did it? so let's judge this incident based on what happened .. not what could have happened. If someone had been shot, then a DIFFERENT PENALTY would have been warranted. "

Rhodie wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:07 PM:

" I've been wondering two things about this

1. Do any of you think ANY other student will "accidently" point a bow and arrow at a teacher? (I've never understood how you can unitentionally point a weapon at someone)

2. If the string had slipped from her fingers and the teacher been wounded, then should she be suspended then?

WAY back when I was a youth my brother was struck by a dart because the next door youth pretended to throw a dart at him but it slipped from his hand. It, fortunately only struck my brothers foot but it could have been much worse.

Is this a "crosswalk" issue here. Is it tolerable to you supports of hers to engage in reckless behavior as long as no one gets hurt? What about a student driver who barrels through a crosswalk with kids in it but misses them? Should they be reprimanded? No harm came, it was just a mistake.

What punishment should this girl be put under for pointing a weapon at someone? "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:01 PM:

" Can someone tell me what she did wrong? I still can't figure it out. The problem was she couldn't pull the bow back to shoot the arrow.

If you can't pull the bow back how was she going to shoot the teacher with the arrow?

I think parents should be scared these people who made this decision are in charge of their children's education. "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 4:00 PM:

" and by the way sports guru, had this been your daughter and she had her go to school even though she was suspended, the rules state that she would be expelled - permanently - that is whether she went to school intentionally or unintentionally. Or went to school accidentally or on purpose. Rules are rules. Pretty simple. "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:54 PM:

" Sports guru, I have said consistently is this girl either didn't listen when told the rules or chose to ignore them. She made a bad choice. How many others in class would have repeated her actions had her actions been ignored. A stance had to be taken. I'm not stating punishment was wrong or right, I'm stating that this mom didn't exhaust her resources and hasn't went through the proper appeals channels. She brought this to the forefront by thinking she can force the district into changing the rules through going to the media. "

Oh Bull ! wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:51 PM:

" bluh! bluh! bluh! ever heard of anger management. I didn't say that kids in Lodi are angels and we dont have gangs. Do the crime pay the time whats wrong with that! "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:49 PM:

" .
And with regards to some of you taking issue with the mom getting the media involved.

When the mechanism of government (the school district) is not open to using common sense in making decisions that effect kids - it is our CONSITITUTIONAL RIGHT AS AN AMERICAN to take it to our fellow citizens for open debate and discussion.

The media is a perfectly acceptable medium for such a discussion.

Are you suggesting that when citizens disagree with the decisions of government, the media should not allow them to speak out to their fellow citizens?!

That ability to SPEAK OUT is precisely WHY newspapers have Editorial pages, and letters to the editor!

The only thing I see that should be questioned is why LNS didn't publish this as an editorial, instead of a feature article. That would be a fair question. "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:45 PM:

" Yeah, because Lodi schools have no crime or gangs or issues. Your racist town just covers it up so people will think it's a sweet, little California town. "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:44 PM:

" .
To GetReal

If Lodi Unified expelled this girl for NOT SERVING A SUSPENSION they would have been SUED and would have LOST.

Again, because she did not make a BAD CHOICE. She made a MISTAKE.

The mom should call the Pacific Legal Foundation. They give free advice and legal assistance for cases like these.

www.PacificLegal.org "

Oh Bull ! wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:41 PM:

" to lodireaderfromstockton-- Maybe if it happened at stockton school you would understand it better as it would have been in the police log section. The student either didn't listen to or follow directions. "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:40 PM:

" .
To GetReal

I think Lodi Unified did the right thing in the "T for Techno" case because the kid MADE A BAD DECISION.

In this case, the 13 YEAR OLD GIRL made a bad mistake that could have hurt someone.

But I don't think SUSPENSION is necessary for a mistake. I think she should have been removed from the class for demonstrating she was not responsible enough to do Archery.

But suspension for 5 days - then down to 3 days - is what GANG BANGER THUGS get for MAKING THE DECISION TO START A FIGHT ON CAMPUS.

Again, suspending someone for a mistake is INAPPROPRIATE.

Suspending someone for making the wrong choice IS APPROPRIATE.

If you're going to reply again, tell us all why you think SUSPENSION is APPROPRIATE for a 13 YEAR OLD KID who made a mistake without malice.... "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:37 PM:

" I've read the article again and again... I still don't see what she did to warrant this. She didn't do anything wrong.

You all are ready to hang her. She's a child who was trying to ask for help.

The teacher obviously has issues. "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:36 PM:

" Good one Sports Guru, so you would of put your child at risk to be expelled from LUSD for the rest of her school years. Do you know what the rules are on suspension? Wow, glad you are not my mom - that would be a huge set up to really screw up a kids life. I imagine you would be on the front page of the news sentinel too. "

Robb wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:35 PM:

" there are also consequences for "accidents", regardless of "intent"..

Deal with it and move on... "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:34 PM:

" some of you are just so ridiculous in defending the mom or child in this. The teacher is being skewered here for simply enforcing the rules that the student knew very well before ever picking you that bow and arrow, after having weeks of instruction on this.

Perhaps she made a mistake, but there are rules that must be enforced to insure safety, especially in a situation like this. Why is it ok that the child get off with no penalty? Why is it ok that the mom calls the newspaper to write this story? Why is it ok that this makes the front page over more important news? What a precedent that is being set here!

It amazes me that you people, parents or not, teachers or not would not recognize the need for rules and punishments for them. If I accidentally shoot someone with a bow and arrow, I am still required to pay a punishment. Yep, it's life.

You cannot lump all situations that happen in schools together. Most are not reported in the papers. Most don't make the front page. "

Oh Bull ! wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:33 PM:

" Why of course everyone believes that their 4.0 student doesn't miss behave. WRONG ! try going to the schools and don't let your student know. What a shock you will be in. Some of the best graded students do not respect their supervisors at school. Common sense(also following directions) would have been set the bow down and ask the teacher for help( yes even at that age I bet she doesn't play with the guns in the house either. A weapon is a weapon no matter what rock-bow&arrow-gun). IT doesn't matter WHO the student is- WHO the parents are- or even if they are a straight A student. Face it follow directions or get in trouble. Maybe she can add the Newspaper article to her application for scholarships.(Ha Ha)Schools need to stick to their rules and parents need to realize that their little angels aren't always little angels try helping at yuor kids school once in awhile. "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:32 PM:

" Sports guru, re-read my blog is was about the moms making poor decisions by going public and their children not following the rules. Obviously this girl was either not paying attention to the teacher when she was being told about safety issues or she was not following the rules. These types of moms, this one and the "Thiz mom" (give me a break everyone knows he meant Thiz - lose the T for Techno) think that by going public they can scare LUSD into changing their rules. Wow, what a great thing to teach your kids. "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:30 PM:

" .
If I were the mom, I would have sent my kid to school and NOT ALLOWED THEM TO MAKE HER SERVE THE SUSPENSION.

She is kind of at a disadvantage now, in that she "accepted" the punishment but now wants it removed from the child's record.

I can tell you that records get changed all the time. In grade school my daughter was being bullied by the daughter of a Lodi High coach. We filed a complaint a the school level, and when nothing was done we filed a complaint at the school district level because they told us that was the only way to get it on the kid's record.

Later when she had another problem with the same kid, we filed a complaint. In reviewing the complaint we cited our previous problem.

Guess what?

Voila! We were told there were no prior incidents on the kid's record!!! "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:25 PM:

" .
To GetReal

PULHEEZE!

The "T for Techno" incident was a DECISION that the kid made (see my previous post about the difference between decisions and mistakes). He could have chosen NOT to make that hand gesture. That hand gesture didn't happen on accident.

This girl made a mistake.

Some of you really don't understand that difference, do you??!!! "

Timothy wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:25 PM:

" Nice blogs, getreal. "

Timothy wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:23 PM:

" Hey Lodian, I do not think the girl was "swept up in the madness of the LUSD". My take is the mother forced her into this madness by putting this in the paper.

Bad call, Mom. This problem could have been handled quietly without the daughter looking foolish. Yes, pointing an arrow at a person is a foolish action. She should have known better, especially if she is as bright as you "claim." "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:22 PM:

" .
A "decision" is usually the path someone choses when they are in a position to have to make a choice.

A mistake does not require a decision - it just happens.

Yes, I know that most liberal thinking people like to characterize BAD CHOICES as MISTAKES. But the reality of it is .. bad choices are NOT MISTAKES. They are WRONG DECISIONS.

This girl made a mistake.

If she had a choice between (1) pointing the bow and arrow at the teacher to scare her, or (2) not pointing it at her .. she would have made a BAD DECISION if she chose number 1.

In this case she wasn't making a decision .. she just made a mistake.

This mentality has been enforced by things like BILL CLINTON's affair with Lewinsky. His BAD DECISION was allowed to be characterized as a MISTAKE - when in fact it was just a bad decision. "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:20 PM:

" OMG, that would be the "principal" of the whole thing. "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:19 PM:

" professorssj - this reminds me of the other instant that the boy threw up a drug sign in a prom picture and was reprimanded, and his mom ran to KCRA and the Lodi News Sentinel. HEADLINE NEWS - and this kid new what he was doing. It was a poor decision by the mothers. Both of these moms think that they can change things going through inproper channels. And their kids will most likely travel through life, like their moms, not following directions or rules. "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:19 PM:

" .
How does a mistake made in a split second get characterized as "..a bad decision on the child's part?".

Yes, she made a mistake. She should be removed from that class as a precaution, so that the mistake is not made again.

But suspending her for three days - like you would for any thug who started a fight on campus - is EQUITABLE?

My point is - I don't think so. "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:17 PM:

" That the principal even stated she could have been expelled shows how ridiculous this whole thing is. I don't see what she did wrong. If this were my kid I wouldn't have brought it to the paper but you can guarantee there would have been a ZERO day suspension.

While I agree there is no way this will have any effect on her getting into college, it's the pricipal of the whole thing.

The child didn't do anything wrong. She was asking for help. And if they are afraid the children are going to point "dagerous weapons" at them. Don't give them to them!!! "

Timothy wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:17 PM:

" HerAunt wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:40 AM:
" I still don't understand WHY some of you still feel the need to "Judge" a 13 year old girl, SHE IS A MINOR."

If you do not want to hear people's comments, why put this in paper?

Sorry, a normal 13 year old knows not point an arrow at anyone. She goofed. Deal with it. "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:16 PM:

" .
To Getreal

In my friend's case, the Vice Principal at Tokay was ADAMANT - and even ARROGANT about enforcing a suspension for a misunderstanding and violation of privacy by another student.

Trust me, the appeals process within the education system is NOT BASED ON COMMON SENSE.

It is based on MAKING EVERYONE FEEL GOOD. "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:15 PM:

" To professorssj:

My point is that it is an over-application of rules to suspend someone who made an honest mistake - with no MALICE.

She should have been reprimanded, and removed from that class for violating safety rules (if indeed this was an accident).

But SUSPENDED???

Gang bangers who get into fights get 3-day suspensions. Why should she get the same?

This society is bass-ackwards! "

SSG Jeremy wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:14 PM:

" I am inclined to believe that this incident was in fact accident. Did she show the best judgement in raising the tip of that bow, most likely not. But lets not forget that she is 13. How many of you made poor decisions that could have potentially had very bad consequences at an older and "should have known better" age? Ive seen soldiers make bigger mistakes than this very young lady made. Stop judging, and stop with the immature and inappropriate comments. Removing Archery isnt the answer. Archery teaches a lot of great skills, it isnt just about pointing and shooting. There was a leadership failure on top of the mistake. "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:13 PM:

" .
SECOND:
A friend of mine told me of a similar "over-reaction" at Tokay High last year.

A group of AP students - none of whom had any record of discipline issues whatsoever - were continuing a History Class discussion on "Forms of government and non-government" after class. That discussion included "Anarchy" as a form of non-government.

A female student was eaves dropping on the conversation and reported to the school that these students were planning a "Columbine type" event.

The school called the kid in, and realized it was just a misunderstanding ... but STILL wanted to suspend the students for three days!

My friend called the Pacific Legal Foundation for advice, and they agreed to help. They had recently won another similar lawsuit.

The principal at Tokay finally intervened and declared the students should not be punished. But prior to that the Vice Principal was adamant that the students should be punished for something they didn't do - there was never any MALICE. "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:13 PM:

" Sports guru, that is why there is an appeals process. There is no way that this mom exhausted all her resources to handle - this before going public. It could have been done quietly, and still can be done through the proper channels. Her suspension period was decreased. And she can still request for this to be purged from her records. But this woman decided to go public - therefore gaining unwanted attention. She needs to address LUSD in the proper format. It can still be resolved. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:10 PM:

" SportsGuru

NOT A ONE SIZE FITS ALL:

"Principal Sanchez reduced the original recommendation to just two-and-a-half days of suspension and told the Nesbitts that Elizabeth could have been expelled since she technically pointed a deadly weapon at someone."

And how many parents get their story on the front page of a newspaper when they are upset with their child's grade or afraid their child won't get into college because of a bad decision on the child's part? ONE SIZE FITS ALL? "

SportsGuru wrote on Sep 26, 2008 3:04 PM:

" .
There are two things that stink about this story.

FIRST: LODI-UNIFIED
The stiff penalty of a 5 DAY SUSPENSION that was initially considered is part of the rules that help protect teachers from MALICIOUS ACTS BY STUDENTS with regards to weapons and potential weapons. Unfortunately Lodi Unified doesn't factor in common sense when doling out punishment. Assuming this really was an accident - this girl gets the same treatment that someone else would get - if that someone else were pointing the bow and arrow at the teacher to scare or intimidate them.

Lodi Unified doesn't allow themselves to factor in WHETHER OR NOT THERE WAS MALICE.

If there were MALICE they would be justified in their punishment, and/or expelling the student.

But there seems to be no malice here. Just a "one size fits all" application of some vague rules. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 2:37 PM:

" yes. i have done my homework. read the article as it is written... "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 26, 2008 2:35 PM:

" professorssj what no response to me? "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 2:33 PM:

" HappyDays94- what a brilliant answer... while we're at it, let's take out golf, football, swimming, gymnastics, chemistry, home ec- sewing and cooking, and any activity in which kids could get hurt... for that matter, why don't we just tell parents to keep them home, put them in a cocoon and not let them out until they are adults! "

HappyDays94 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 2:23 PM:

" To solve all problems, no archery in Middle School, no one will get into hot water. "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 26, 2008 2:21 PM:

" How the heck am I biased? I don't even know these people. I just see the stupidity in all this.

Do you even know what I'm talking about when I say has he see that movie one time too many? No. Obviously you don't.

There is a scene where the kids are doing archery in gym and a girl turns away to talk to someone and accidentally shoots her gym teacher in the bum.

So maybe YOU should do YOUR homework. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 2:07 PM:

" LodiReaderFromStockton- you're pretty biased in this.... ask the girl how many weeks they were receiving instruction and lessons on safety before ever picking up a bow... if he has spent the time and effort to give the students what they need, it is her responsibility to follow those instructions and rules... and I think the instructor was right to respond as he did. Stand one hour in his shoes, then you'd have the right to judge.

" Has this teacher seen 10 Things I Hate About You one time too many?.. WHAT A STUPID THING TO SAY.. the mother even stated that he was "he was very genuine in his opinion of my daughter. " Do YOUR homework! "

LodiReaderFromStockton wrote on Sep 26, 2008 1:58 PM:

" Has this teacher seen 10 Things I Hate About You one time too many? She turned to him for help, she couldn't shoot the arrow and that was what she needed help with. So how did he expect to get shot? I think it's appalling that he even made any issue out of it and sent her to the office. I do not understant what she did wrong and why she was even spoken too let alone suspended. The school made and issue out of a non issue. If this is their top priority no wonder kids are not getting the education they need. Oh, and BTW, Fawn Lebowitz was dead remember? "

samiam wrote on Sep 26, 2008 1:49 PM:

" Nuff said, drop it, go back to work people. Bye. "

fawn lebowitz wrote on Sep 26, 2008 1:31 PM:

" Thanks Nellie, I think this student should be put on double secret probation. "

60's child wrote on Sep 26, 2008 1:30 PM:

" mom, when does it stop. Somthing so silly as pointing an arrow at a teacher. I don't think she ment it,but it is what it is. What are you going to do when she is 16 or 17 driving doing 50 miles a hour in a residential area and a child pops out behind a car and she has a accident? Is it going to be the childs fault next? Teach her how to take responsability now rather later. when i went to school in the 60's I would have got a paddle from the teacher and you didn't whine to your parents when you got home because you'd get another one, she has it easy. "

Bob Loblaw wrote on Sep 26, 2008 1:22 PM:

" So far just you and I have caught it nellie. Knowledge is good. "

lapdog wrote on Sep 26, 2008 1:22 PM:

" This does not teach children that they are responsible for their actions! Parents need to stop coddling their kids. This girl needs to understand that there are consequences - sometimes undesireable ones - from her actions. As a 4.0 student she should have the brains to figure out that some things are just plain stupid to do. Pointing any weapon at anyone is wrong and she should not get out of punishment or a "scarlet letter" because her mother is involved. If Jennifer Nesbitt were any kind of a real mother she would shut up and tell her daughter to suck it up and pay for her wrong! "

Whoa Nellie! wrote on Sep 26, 2008 1:09 PM:

" Let this blog die...

The girl made a mistake, took responsibility and admitted it. While I don't think the punishment fit the crime she should be thankful that nothing serious happened.

I don't agree with how Mom handled the situation by doing an interview, but I bet she is wishing she never spoke to the LNS after some of these moronic blogs.

BTW, Fawn Lebowitz is the best "handle" on this stupid blog! Classic! So remote only true fans of this movie will catch it. Rofl... "

Inquisitor wrote on Sep 26, 2008 12:53 PM:

" Nerf darts. "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 12:38 PM:

" kudos professorssj: The parents and the kids that have a problem taking responsibility.

It amazes me the children of sheriff's officers, firemen, and the spouses of these public servants that turn a blind eye to their children's unintentional actions. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 12:34 PM:

" Lodian: LUSD has a problem taking responsibility on cases like this one.??? I believe it is the parents who have the problem taking responsibility!!!!

LUSD is trying to be fair. Dr. Sanchez reduced the suspension out of fairness. If your problem is with LUSD, then your anger should not be directed at this teacher for making a responsible decisions and enforcing the rules of his class. "

dogs4you wrote on Sep 26, 2008 12:32 PM:

" Putting your face`s and the incident on the front page, what did you expect. Not that it should have been swept under the rug, however cooler heads could have prevailed. Had Mom not brought this issue to the front page, I along with all the other bloggers would never know a thing about it. It`s over, the suspention has been served, so move on. You can`t un-ring a bell. People forget real fast, especially when the country is falling apart. Tomorrow there will be another headline and by next week this incident will be long forgotten. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 12:30 PM:

" melmaple88 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:35 AM:
" elizabeths mother already spoke out so why is anyone still discussing this? she has asked that everyone just stop all this non-sense and just leave her family and the teacher alone! Let the family deal with this!!! "

ARE YOU KIDDING? Mom opened the can of worms here... what did she expect? Was she thinking the entire public would sympathize with her and this would get the school system to change its mind?

If the school board gives in on this, that will be the TRUE injustice to our children. For a sheriff and a business owner to not understand the importance of or teach to their child the importance of following direction and paying the consequences for breaking the rules is the more irresponsible than any one else involved in this incident! "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 12:27 PM:

" thank goodness the arrow wasn't unintentionally shot. Did she intentionally or unintentionally not listen to the teachers instructions? "

MARZO2008 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 12:25 PM:

" maybe she should consider the military? since she likes pointing weapons at someone.

Her mother is wrong completely. she should have made her daugther take the punishment. we all know that her daugther has never had to be punished for doing the wrong things. what life lesson is she learning? in a few years she will be in the paper about doing something wrong, oh, but she didn't know it at the time. it's common sense. now that you have shamed your daugther by having her in the paper we as society will look at her just as someone who did something bad. You just want people to forget and forgive. well, it will not happen. she is already label thanks to you!!! (Mom) :) "

jay dubb wrote on Sep 26, 2008 12:19 PM:

" Hey melmaple - we are discussing it because it was taken to the News Sentinel - if she wanted her family and the teacher left alone then SHE should not have done the interview and put her picture in the paper.

Also - jnesbitt - if I get drunk and do not INTEND to get in a wreck and kill 2 people - should I NOT be held accountable? After all it was unintentional? How about if I pull the trigger in a drive by shooting? My target was 1 person - but I did not INTEND to shoot 3 innocent bystanders - should I NOT be held accountable for my actions? After all they were unintentional. If your house burns down and you have left a candle burning (your example) - you are negligent. While not intentional - your actions would be considered negligent and your negligence would be easy to prove.

I certainly believe your daughter did not intend to commit any crime or do anyone harm - YET - she was negligent in her actions. "

JD wrote on Sep 26, 2008 12:11 PM:

" I concur with those who have suggested we aren't getting the full story.

Reasonable teachers do not get their students suspended for accidents or unintentional conduct.

Either Fisher is a power-tripping lout, or Elizabeth is simply lying when she says it wasn't intentional.

If it was the former, then why haven't other acquaintances of Fisher chimed in here confirming what a jerk he is? And why did Elizabeth sign the suspension form? "

flan wrote on Sep 26, 2008 12:00 PM:

" The mother should not have posed with her daughter for the Lodi News-Sentinel if she didn't want to bring the issue to the public's attention. "

71888 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:58 AM:

" The point is, the student committed an offense, intentional or not, and there are consequences. It is RIDICULOUS to contact the newspaper over this. What did you expect? I would expect my child, who attends that school also, to have consequences. It's life. You have to deal with it. And yes, if you burn a house down, have a car accident, or other mishap, you are responsible, intentional or not. Again, that's called life. FYI--no college cares! "

fawn lebowitz wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:38 AM:

" mel, you're kidding right? To appeal to the highest level..that's the American way. To take it to the local paper...tacky with a capital T. You guys put it out there...have fun with the criticism in blog-ville. Thanks for the props, Boblaw "

melmaple88 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:35 AM:

" elizabeths mother already spoke out so why is anyone still discussing this? she has asked that everyone just stop all this non-sense and just leave her family and the teacher alone! Let the family deal with this!!! "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:35 AM:

" au contraire, lodian. This is a perfect time for this girl to learn right from wrong. Hoping that in 4 years she does not end of on the front page of the news sentinel making drug signs - and her mom will have learned the right way to fight for her child - through the appeals process with the school district - I have seen many appeals won, if you are willing to stand up for your child the right way. "

jay dubb wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:32 AM:

" I hope if I ever get pulled over by San Joaquin County Sheriff's Deputy John Nesbitt - he will believe ME when I tell him my actions were unintentional.

As far as all the people on here who are concerned about the district handing the children "deadly weapons" - Lets just remove anything that could be used as a weapon from our schools - pens, pencils, paper clips, staples and staplers, pencil sharpeners, baseballs, bats, golf clubs, bicycles, scooters, tennis racquets, skateboards, school buses, rulers, protractors, rubberbands,....I mean really....our kids should not be exposed to any of these dangerous items. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:25 AM:

" getreal: You obviously have no experience with the LUSD when it comes to ANY issue. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:24 AM:

" Maybe Mr. Fisher (the PE teacher) should have made sure all the bows were in ready order before the kids take hold of them. Maybe the arrows should have a safety tip on them until all is known to be ready with the bow and arrow. These adults need to take on some responsibility here and stop dumping all the blame on this girl. The teacher gave her the bow and arrow so he is responsible for it's functioning well and her knowledge of what to do with it. If a parent gave his/her kid a gun when out hunting and the kid shot himself or someone else by mistake everyone would be attacking the parent/adult in charge for not making sure all was safe and the kid knew what to do with the gun. LUSD has a problem taking responsibility on cases like this one. "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:22 AM:

" This mom, like the "thiz mom", should be ashamed for taking this to the paper - take it to KCRA - like the "thiz mom". I am tired of these types of parents asking for the PR and crying because everyone does not agree with them. You get what you get. There is a process set up with LUSD, you should follow that, I am sure it is not too late to fix your daughters record. "

Lodian wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:17 AM:

" This is unfortunate. Elizabeth is another student getting swept up in the madness of the LUSD. This is a young girl that was looking to her teacher for assistance. She's not some hood that brought a gun to school. The school and admin do not seem to make that distinction anymore. It's all a blanket response to kids today. Be careful taking a Tylenol in high school or you're be brought up on drug charges too! Seriously, this is ridiculous. "

Bob Loblaw wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:09 AM:

" spiker, et al who asked why this is newsworthy: I agree. Dozens of kids are suspended in LUSD every day. I'm sure many of those students' parents feel their kid's suspension was unfair. Why does this one not only make the paper, but the front page? Is it race? Socio-economic status? A slow news day (no!!!)? Incompetent editors (hmmm...)? "

fawn lebowitz wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:07 AM:

" Unbelievable the LNS put this on the front cover? Do we not have a debate tonite? A economy in collapse? Is she a friend of the editors? Anyway - this whole scene reminds me of the movie Election. To take this to the paper is unwarranted. The actions of the mom will hopefully not be modeled by her daughter in the future. This is not an injustice....people starving in world, that's an injustice. NO college is going to give a hoot this girl pointed her bow at teach....and hey, maybe she can write about the whole incident in her Senior Thesis. "

Bob Loblaw wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:03 AM:

" All very interesting comments. fawn lebowitz -- great handle! Any reference to the greatest comedy of all time is welcome on these blogs. Watch out for kilns fawn! "

ruserious wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:01 AM:

" Mel,

Yes I am serious, good decisons and bad decisions are what determines specific outcomes. She mad a bad decision. If she is not taught to deal with the outcome what lesson is learned. I'll give you a hint. Oh I'm not to blame its somebody else's fault; the teacher, the district, the bow company the arrow company, ancient warriors who developed the bow and arrow. "

jnesbitt wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:01 AM:

" I am the mother in the situation and I just wanted to say that this is not and should not be a personal attack, to the teacher, the student, or my family. We are tying to stick up for something we feel was wrong. The main point is that the teacher, principal, and my daughter all agree it was intentional, but the offense is being treated as it was intentional. We have tried avenues through the district and their decisions were made before they even spoke with us. As I told the Asst. Superintendent, there are details regarding the situation that need to be considered, as in a court of law. Yes, the incident occurred, but it was unintentional. If a house burns down, whether or not a candle was left burning or someone lit it on fire intentionally makes a difference in how a person is held accountable. That is the point I am trying to explain. I respect Mr. Fisher as a teacher and have made that clear that he was very genuine in his opinion of my daughter. "

flan wrote on Sep 26, 2008 11:00 AM:

" Melmaple88: when you can show me a golfer who "just stands there" play 18 holes of golf, let me know.
~flan "

fawn lebowitz wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:52 AM:

" Here is what's wrong with this story...Mom owns "City Girl" (wow!) dad is a deputy sheriff (wonderful), mom goes to the Sentinel because she cannot solve her daughter's problem for her. The liklihood she pointed the arrow at the teacher is pretty high-why would teach react abrubtly? Someone is lying. Mom-teach your daughter a lesson and accept the blemish and move on. And yes, "goody two shoes" kids are capable of mischief, too. "

melmaple88 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:45 AM:

" ruserious, are you really serious why take a punishment for something that wasn't intentional, the rules and consequences are there for the kids who defy them not accidently did something wrong, there is a big difference i am not saying that she didn't do it, and that she shouldn't have gotten punished I just don't believe that she deserved that kind of punishment for an accident! "

ruserious wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:37 AM:

" Mel
Max is correct, the board would of caved quietly. No chance of that now or the flood gates will open on all behaviors. She made a bad decision, no one is saying she is a bad person. Take your punishment, learn and move on. "

melmaple88 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:35 AM:

" I totally agree with you Hope2be I really don't know the whole in depth story of what happened but if the student wasn't willingly being defiant then how can she be suspended for something she wasn't meaning to be defiant to? "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:35 AM:

" The daughter was not made out as a liar. Read the story again. Mr. Fisher was enforcing the rules of the class and wrote in the report, "The act was unintentional according to the student."

He was trying to be fair. He has commented that she is a good student. But, she was not paying attention when she should have been and he, after calling out her name several times to stop, enforced the rules as they stand for all student who participate in this activity.

for Lodi Unified Associate Superintendent Odie Douglas, to say that i t's unreasonable for suspending her for something they feel was totally unintentional," is unconscionable. This is the problem with the system. It caves into the pressures of public opinion and parental pressures. There are rules, and John Nesbitt, a San Joaquin County Sheriff's deputy, knows the importance of them in order to insure the safety of others. Just because a student has a 4.0 does not make her above the rules. "

melmaple88 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:32 AM:

" what does archery do to help you exercise?? uh...nothing you just stand there and point a bow and arrow? and golf same thing!! so why even have those as a sport to play in PE in schools anyways? as far as weights go middle school kids don't really get the chance to deal with weights, it's mainly in high school and even there you have to request to be in weight lifting to lift weights!!! "

Hope2Be wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:32 AM:

" It's interesting to read how many people seem to know exactly what happened in this incident. I know that I don't. Something important is missing from this story and from many comments: intent. Was this student 'willfully defiant' (LUSD language) in her actions? It seems to me that she wasn't. If she wasn't then the suspension should probably be erased. But as I said, I don't know. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:27 AM:

" Given the obesity rate in America, it is very difficult to get students today interested in physical activity. PE is so essential to a healthy academic learning environment, to the overall health and well being of our young population. Archery is one way to get them excited and it is an awesome sport.
Yes, a bow and arrow can be a weapon. But, when instructors spend time to insure that the students know the safety issues and the rules, the sport can be an amazing one for young kids. Should we remove golf, as a golf club could be a weapon? Should we remove weights, as a weight could be a weapon? If the rules are followed, safety is enforced as are consequences for not following the rules, everyone does well. This is a sad situation for a parent who has high hopes for her child. This is a sad situation for a seventh grader who wasn't thinking when it was important for her to do so. This is a sad situation for a teacher who wants to provide great experiences for his students. This is a sad situation for the system when it does not support itself! "

melmaple88 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:27 AM:

" It's not a non-issue though!!! If it was a non-issue there wouldn't be an article in the paper! Her daughter was made to be a liar and told that her actions were intentional and she says they are not, so her mother is helping her get her daughters voice out there!! My mom is just like this mom, willing to do anything and go as far as she can to make sure that her children are protected from things like this!!! The girls is 13 years old, she is still a child she is not 18 her mother is HELLO...."being a parent" maybe you people didn't have loving and caring parents like this one growing up and that's why you can't see what this mom is doing! "

max stanfield wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:22 AM:

" Reading your comments, I think archery is a good activity to teach responsibility and minimize stupidity. Girl gets careless, gets a minor whack, case closed. The ongoing problem is problem is mom, a typical "helicopter" mother who has to constantly shadow her fledging. Mom, let her stand on her own feet and have her develop a solution for this non problem, non issue. "

melmaple88 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:19 AM:

" It shouldn't be sad to read things in these comments, people are expressing their opinions, just like you are only they are not siding with what you are saying so it upsets you!!! Everyone is entitled to their own opinion they have a right to speak their mind that's why these are called comments!!! It really doesn't matter if teachers work hard and long hours and people dont think they get paid enough for all their time, boo-hoo everybody works long hard hours, look at all the moms and dads with kids who work 40-50 hour work weeks with 1 or 2 jobs each, they work just as hard but are you caring about them? Whether teachers work hard or not isn't the issue the issue is that this incident happened and that the schools and board should rethink having archery in schools!!!! "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:17 AM:

" Her aunt: Her mother should not have opened the flood gate. This could have been done quietly in front of the school district, but instead there is a picture of mom and daughter plastered over the front page. Obviously the girl learns her academic lessons well if she has a 4.0 gpa, maybe it is time she learns the lessons of life. "

melmaple88 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:13 AM:

" Although archery may be fun in what not, that isn't what is important what is important is that the school is putting a "weapon" into the hands of a child, and if children aren't suppose to have weapons then why are they forced to use one? It would make sense for the PE teacher to sit the student out and make her take a F for the day or a couple days and make sure she understands the severity of what she did, BUT...it is not fair to punish her for something that was completely accidental and to suspend her? that is completely unfair, or even if it wasn't an accident, they gave the weapon to a 12 or 13 year old! "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:11 AM:

" Mr. Fisher spends weeks with the students instructing them on safety and proper use of the equipment. He is one of the most conscientious instructors and truly cares about his students and helping them do well. Please respect the job teachers have today. It is not an easy one. They work long hard hours and get paid so much less than their value.

Support your educational systems. Teachers work so hard today and they are not calling the press to vocalize. For parents to use this vehicle is completely uncalled for, but it is the age in which we live where we can stir public opinion by spinning a story.

It is sad to me the things I am reading in this comments where children are being judged here and teachers are being judged. This court of public opinion is this rude and condescending and I would imagine each of us would be skewered as this student and teacher are here. Please have some grace and tact. "

ruserious wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:10 AM:

" Aunty,

The minute they went to the paper they wanted the court of public opinion so now they have to deal with it. Ast. Super Odie Douglas seems to be the only one who has made a good decision. "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:03 AM:

" I also know the Nesbitt's. They are great people and I am sure Elizabeth is an excellent student. But, parents have to understand that PR like this only jeopardizes great programs like PE in school. Archery is a rare activity in PE anymore and one that the students love. Parents need to understand how hard it is for teachers today. They are faced with unbelievable challenges in the CA public school system and the pressure from parents to treat their child as an exception. The rules are the rules. The instructors need to enforce them. The schools need to support their instructors and the districts need to back their schools. Yes, the child is the the focus, but when an instructor has 50 kids in a class, the interest of all 50 is the priority. So, it is unfair of the public to judge Mr. Fisher or the school. One can sympathize with the position of the parent, but allowing the exception for one student will set the precedent for what is to come and the program will be in complete chaos. Ridiculing and calling this instructor names is completely out of line. "

melmaple88 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 10:00 AM:

" AGAIN...like you said, how can i judge what a 13 year old girl was thinking, then how can you judge her and say that she "is excited to be known as a rebel" did she state that anywhere? NO...she did not!! She simply stated that everyone always started saw her as a goodie to shoe and now because of this incident everyone will think that she is a rebel!!! She NEVER stated that she thought she was a rebel!!! It's funny when people try to make the worst of people when they don't even know them! Look at this girl, and her mother even and her background, she seems like a "goodie-to-shoe" to me and with that kind of mentality you know that she did not purposely mean to do what they are saying she did! Maybe the PE teacher should try another occupation because teaching things like this there are going to be incidents like this, they are only 12 and 13 years old and your trusting them with a "WEAPON"??? I think there should be a parent consent form signed with all the rules stated on the document!!!! "

professorssj wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:58 AM:

" I know both parties involved and it is an unfortunate situation. I must, however, defend the instructor involved and the rules of the school. Parents complain that the schools are taking out the things that make education fun: PE, music, art. Lodi Middle has an excellent PE program with instructors who want to provide their students with some great activities, including archery. With an activity like this, the need for students to follow the rules becomes essential. The enforcement of the rules and consequences for not following them is the only method an instructor has to control his/her class to insure the safety of all of the students. So, Me. Fisher is right in enforcing this rule. It is for the safety of every student involved. If a student is not paying attention, someone could get hurt, as this incident illustrates so clearly. I think also the honesty displayed by Mr. Fisher is stating the it was an accident shows that he is not trying to blemish the student's reputation but trying to keep the record straight on the situation. Parents have to understand that rules and enforcement of them are in the best interest of their child. "

afriend wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:55 AM:

" if the school is saying that this was a "deadly" weapon that she was pointing @ the teacher- then why are they giving these to the students to "play" with? obviously the school didn't seem to think these bow & arrows were that much of a threat when they handed them over to the students. even if the students were given "rules" they're still just a bunch of kids & kids do tend to make stupid mistakes. so- if the school is that concerned about people's safety, then maybe they shouldn't give archery classes. "

HerAunt wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:40 AM:

" I still don't understand WHY some of you still feel the need to "Judge" a 13 year old girl, SHE IS A MINOR. getreal: writes This girl seems to be concerned that she had a "goody two shoe" rep. and is excited to be known as a rebel. Good luck Mr and Mrs. Sheriff, sounds like your daughter is searching for another kind of popularity. LIKE I SAID BEFORE, YOU DON'T KNOW HER. IF YOU DID, YOU KNOW THAT SHE IS NOT THE STUDENT THAT WANTS ATTENTION. This is a sad incedent that isn't going away, but at least everyone can just "MIND YOU OWN BUSINESS"!!! "

melmaple88 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:28 AM:

" This is a very interesting story! I went to Lodi Middle School about 8 years ago and I remember doing archery in PE. And to be honest with you this girl was more than likely not given much instruction. I know I was not given much instruction, nobody told us the seriousness of this weapon, nor did anyone refer to it as a weapon. Does everyone honestly think it was in the mind of a Middle School student to intentionally want to hurt her PE teacher? If you don't believe that which I don't then obviously it was an accident. Things happen so quickly that you don't even have a chance to think about what you just did! I am really glad that this parent is involved enough in her daughters life that she is willing to go as far as she can to get this corrected! If weapons are not allowed at school then why was she given one? "

dyan wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:25 AM:

" I say Clint was right: "Hang 'em high."
How else will they ever learn? If they get off the hook they might grow up to be a wall street banker. "

Aimee wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:19 AM:

" Just to clarify, the use of the word "wilfully" ("Said or done on purpose; deliberate". American Hertiage Dictionary) here suggests that for the act to be "intentional" the student would have had to have the specific mindset and intent to disobey the direct admonishments of the teacher. Again, just my interpretation of the code section.

Others may read the code section differently as to mean any act which was voluntary. Thus, she raised the bow and arrow with full knowledge that doing so was against the rules, no one forced her to, therefore her act was wilful and intentional. "

Paola wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:14 AM:

" Talk about over reaction by Ron Fisher! (you 'girly-man') Let's hope you are never involved in a real crisis! Although if you were, you'd easy to spot; You would be the one with the soiled shorts! "

flan wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:13 AM:

" This is not an "accident", it's an incident. The girl was not "brandishing" a weapon. She was using a piece of PE equipment that was handed to her by a representative of Lodi Unified School district. If it's a weapon, why is it allowed on campus and provided by the district. There is more to this than meets the eye, possibly history between the teacher and student/mother. Archery is a camp sport, not a middle school PE activity.
~Flan "

Aimee wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:07 AM:

" I really doubt a university or college would delve into a student's middle school history in order to determine whether or not he or she is a suitable candidate for admission. Universities are interested in the activities and grades earned in high school and/or junior college.

Sine they are obviously unhappy with the decision that was made by the administration at Lodi Middle, they need exhaust their administrative remedies and appeal to the Board.

The code section provided by the Sentinel is a two-part test:

1. Thes student committed the act complained of;

and

2. The act was intentional and/or willful (this is my interpretation of the code section provided.."or OTHERWISE wilfully.." inferring that the act muse be intentional)

There's no doubt that she committed the act of raising her bow and arrow according to students present during the incident and the teacher. However, was the act intentional? Mom and daughter say "no". This is an issue to be brought in front of the board. "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 9:00 AM:

" There is no evidence that she was not paying attention? They are right "Pointing a deadly weapon at another person" after being told the rules does not necesarily mean they weren't paying attention, that would mean it was intentional. This girl seems to be concerned that she had a "goody two shoe" rep. and is excited to be known as a rebel. Good luck Mr and Mrs. Sheriff, sounds like your daughter is searching for another kind of popularity. "

getreal wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:54 AM:

" Think this parent has took a page from the "thizz parents" book. This only made the news because the parent contacted the news. Maybe she should teach her child the importance of safety first. The school/teacher does not speak out, as it is against privacy laws. How many times was this student warned before it became an issue? I am sure multiple times. "

Aimee wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:48 AM:

" HerAunt: Most likely, the reason that he did not comment is for legal reasons, not because his silence is an admission of wrongdoing.

Under an agency relationship, statements an employee makes regarding activities committed in the course and scope of his/her business relationship can be attributed to the district and cause the employer (the district) to incur possible (emphasize "possible")legal liability.

I highly doubt he was silent because he believes he was wrong. "

Kolona25 wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:45 AM:

" HOW is this front page news?!?! "

HerAunt wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:28 AM:

" So nice of all of you who do not even know this young lady to have comments about her and her family. IF you are lucky enough to know Elizabeth you would know that if she said that it was an accident, then that is what it was. Maybe you all should be questioning WHY the teacher didn't have a comment. He know's he picked the wrong student to "make an example of". "

anna macanas wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:27 AM:

" This should have been a class discussion and an example of how to be safe. I would like to know what type of archery training Mr. Fisher has had to qualify him to teach this sport to children. I would also like to know what type of safety training he gave the children prior to handling bows and arrows. Did he have signed permission forms from parents for this? Who in their right mind would give so many children weapons at school without substantial safety training or parental consent. The whole issue is that Elizabeth counld Not even pull her bow back. So there was NO THREAT. This is a girl who does not have experience with weapons and or hunting. The only experience she has had is what Mr. Fisher has provided. I really don't think he is afraid for his safety from 13yr old Elizabeth Nezbitt and her 4.0. Mr. Fisher as well as Lodi Unified owe this family a letter of apology that should also go into her file. "

T & C wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:27 AM:

" We all make mistakes and wish at times they could be undone! I feel bad for this child, but she was well aware that "Pointing a deadly weapon at anyone could cause someone serious injury! Especially because she is a 4.0 student, she cannot claim ignorance! Sorry I could not lift the sanction if it were me! Sometimes we have to learn from from our mistakes, not "Cover them up and pretend they never happened! Be grateful Elizabeth that you did not harm your teacher. I doubt very much that "Had you been pointing the arrow at "The Ground"...that your teacher would have felt his life was or could be threatened! "

Leonard wrote on Sep 26, 2008 8:10 AM:

" This seems to be an opportunity for Miss Nesbitt to learn a valuable lesson that should stay with her for the rest of her life.

Never point a deadly weapon at another person unless you intend to kill them!

Suspension seems to be a mild punishment, given the fact that the consequences could have been a whole lot worse. "

ruserious wrote on Sep 26, 2008 7:52 AM:

" WOW - Lets remember there are no such things as accidents, there are good decisions and bad decisions. There is so much that is just wrong about this, but to go into would be pushing the envelope on the Comment Rules. However it appears that the LUSD Board will have an opportunity to once again show there awesome decision making skills. Principal Sanchez's decision making skills are allready a joke. I look forward to the Board hearing this and if they overturn the suspension or remove it from her record I encourage every parent, student and past student to go before the Board and have there "permanent" record cleared. "

radone wrote on Sep 26, 2008 7:47 AM:

" a student with a 4.o gpa is awsome, but it sound like she lacks common sence,you don't point a loaded weapon at ANYONE!!! maybe her father should give her a little training? "

spiker wrote on Sep 26, 2008 7:42 AM:

" And this is news worthy WHY? "

lodisafeway wrote on Sep 26, 2008 7:27 AM:

" And jramagic, you might want to aspire to purchasing a dictionary. "

jramagic wrote on Sep 26, 2008 6:59 AM:

" Honestly, folks...these are stupic comments worthy of the Jerry Springer Show. Try to aspire to a higher mental level... "

jramagic wrote on Sep 26, 2008 6:58 AM:

" What a bunch of neanderthals comment on these pages.... "

boonablis wrote on Sep 26, 2008 6:46 AM:

" Archery??? This is 2008 right??? We have guns now. Is Friar Tuck in that class too?
I heard at Galt High Schools they have rock throwing classes, because they have not found out the advantages of the bow and arrow.
Seriously who is to blame here? Student or the school "

ra wrote on Sep 26, 2008 6:46 AM:

" Keep archery. Stop it with the bubble wrapping. The penalty fits the seriousness of the incident and as a reminder to the instructor to reinforce safety, and for the student and other students about the impact of not paying attention. Perhaps students could be informed of the penalty before they start the class so they better understand the impact of a potential poor choice. I assume the instructor took enough time to explain the seriousness of pointing a bow and arrow at anyone. I was thrilled to see a school that still had the fortitude to allow such a great sport. Focus and responsibility cannot be taught in a padded square room devoid of objects. "

Zinfandel wrote on Sep 26, 2008 6:32 AM:

" The article states "A Lodi Middle student with a 4.0 grade-point average and plans for college has been suspended for pointing a loaded bow and arrow toward her physical education teacher during archery class."

LMS and LUSD should drop archery class. A bow and arrow is a deadly weapon . . .so who is at fault here the girl or LUSD for including archery in the PE program? Are are the adults here who are suppose to protect our children?
I don't think is young girl intentionally pointed the bow and arrow; however something serious could have happened. So, again, I repeat, who would have been responsible? Get rid of archery! "

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