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On to suburban Pittsburgh

I am leaving California, but keeping the column


Saturday, July 19, 2008 5:45 AM PDT

As I write this column, packing boxes are stacked throughout my house, some piled up well over my head.

My dogs — Fido, Sparkle and Hoppy — nervously follow me from room to room. Sensing a major change, Miss Patty and Rolo, the two cats, stay unusually close to home.

Even Wu, my talkative African Grey parrot, is hanging upside down and chattering away overtime. Wu wants to remain visible and cute — she doesn't want to be left behind.

I'm leaving Lodi.

By the time you read this, I'll be somewhere far along eastbound I-80 and well on my way to my new home in suburban Pittsburgh, Pa.

My decision to move was both hard and easy.

I'm a California rarity — a third-generation son who grew up hard on Santa Monica's beaches during that long ago time when the state was "golden."

I've lived in Lodi for more than 20 years, longer than any place I've ever called home. During that time, I've made hundreds of friends and thousands of acquaintances.

A few years back, a friend jokingly called me one of Lodi's most visible citizens because my picture accompanies my weekly News-Sentinel column and because scores of students have passed through my adult school classrooms.

To this day, I still run into former pupils who remember me, "Mr. Joe," and have kind things to say about the time we spent together.

About my life in Lodi, I'll sum it up this way: It's been a trip!

When I arrived in 1988, I thought my time here would be short. I viewed my adult school career as temporary. I had, after all, never been a teacher.

Teaching turned into a more satisfying challenge than I had envisioned. As my responsibilities at the adult school increased, one year quickly and happily blended into the next.

At the same time, I grew more attached to Lodi and its easy lifestyle. Before I knew it, what I originally viewed as a brief stopover on the way to something bigger and better turned into two wonderful decades.

Passing time also brought sadness with it. Three years ago my mother, one of my California anchors, died in Palm Springs.

And although I had never been seriously sick a single day, a little more than a year ago I became critically ill. During a 14 month period, I had five surgeries. Only recently, after more candid conversations with my surgeons, have I become aware how lucky I am to be alive.

During my lengthy hospitalization, I came to terms with how I want to live the rest of my life.

Awaiting me in Pittsburgh are my son, daughter-in-law and two grandchildren, 11 and 9. I want to teach my grandchildren how to bake pizza, their favorite food.

And I'm much more bullish on Pittsburgh, recently referred to by the New York Times travel section as "hip," than I am on California, a state whose social and climate problems only multiply.

One regret I have is that, on the way out of town, I did a horrible job of saying goodbye. Wanting to delay the inevitable painful task, in the end I simply ran out of time to visit with all the people I wanted to.

But the good news is that I will be sharing with you my relocation experiences and my observations about life outside of California. The News-Sentinel has graciously asked me to keep writing my weekly column. You'll be able to stay abreast of my East Coast adventures and my reflections as I look back. Look for the first installment on August 2.

Our paths may cross again soon — I hope they do. I'll be back in Lodi at least twice a year for medical check-ups. In the meantime, my e-mail address remains in my bio box at the end of each column. Use it, please.

For now, I'll close with one important thought that I'd like you all to remember.

While cleaning out my house and deciding what personal items to take and which to leave behind, I found the encouraging get-well and prayer cards you sent me during my darkest hours.

They'll come with me to Pittsburgh, where they will always have a special place in my heart.

Joe Guzzardi recently retired from the Lincoln Technical Academy, formerly the Lodi Adult School. At various times during his career, he taught English as a second language, conversational Spanish, GED preparation, driver's education, computer skills and business plan writing. Contact him at guzzjoe@yahoo.com.

Reader Feedback

Winston Wallace wrote on Jul 24, 2008 5:49 AM:

" Good luck to you Joe. I have agreed with you on many things and I have disagreed with you on many things. However I may feel about your views you express them very well.Your column is the best. "

napa valley chef wrote on Jul 22, 2008 11:59 PM:

" Thank God you're keeping the column. It's the best thing this paper's got! "

Cogito wrote on Jul 22, 2008 11:20 PM:

" I wonder how California will pay for the future the liberals have promised, when all the producers have bugged out, and all that's left are the parasites? "

dogbark wrote on Jul 22, 2008 5:28 PM:

" let us know how well our 401-k's would fare in PA. I know I won't be moving, or retiring for a while! Well at least I got my home equity to fall back on... oh wait.
Hey Joe here I am, over here, side of the road, hitching! "

Patricia wrote on Jul 22, 2008 8:33 AM:

" God speed and bless you Joe. Enjoy your family! I wish you the best of everything. I'm so pleased you will be continuing your column. "

Brian wrote on Jul 22, 2008 12:06 AM:

" Joe, As a former Lodian who now lives in Phoenix I alwaysd look forward to going back to Lodi to visit. I know you will too. Good luck in Pittsburgh. Happy pizzas:) "

Cogito wrote on Jul 21, 2008 9:54 AM:

" Good luck Joe. I wonder how many of us multi-generation Californians would do the same as you, if our obligations here were to be lifted from us. Even if we had nothing but the start of a new adventure waiting for us out of state. But, as a grandfather myself, I can tell you there is a lot of joy waiting for you at the other end of this move. Good for you, and good for them. Someday they will teach their grandchildren how papa Joe taught them to make pizza. What could possibly be more important than that. "

M2CW wrote on Jul 21, 2008 6:37 AM:

" Joe! Have a safe and enjoyable trip, I am looking forward to hearing all about the new life in Penn. I am so jealous! I would love to go on such an adventure! "

gray cloud wrote on Jul 20, 2008 7:32 PM:

" No tengo miedo. Hope you got the sarape i left for you before you moved on. I will really miss you. Your articles on pie baking, sports, immigration and all kinds of topics should be an inspiration to the "one issue writers" everywhere. Your reasons for leaving [both written and spoken] are just and accurate. See you soon somewhere. "

Lodian wrote on Jul 20, 2008 3:22 PM:

" Happy trails, Mr. Joe. "

t&c wrote on Jul 20, 2008 8:41 AM:

" Joe, good luck on your move and it'll be great to get your editorials from a different perspective in the big city. Good health to you and take care! "

Bob Loblaw wrote on Jul 19, 2008 1:39 PM:

" Joe, you can run from the illegals, but you can't hide. They're in the Steel City too. Buena suerte amigo. "

wtf wrote on Jul 19, 2008 10:16 AM:

" Good luck on your move, Joe! Look forward to your columns from "the other side" ;) "

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